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"How women really feel about bald men"

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gunngee:

--- Quote from: sirharry12 on July 31, 2012, 05:57:58 AM ---VSG....I'm so sorry that you life took a turn like this.....Back in my younger days, I was the "nerd" that got picked on a lot, but in my case, being bald has actually helped me deal with people....I think you are a good person and as for the woman who left you after you shaved your head, it's her loss....While these people fuxxing with you is not right, my combat counselor told me a statement that sticks in my head and I think about this whenever my ex-wife or her family comes at me with unwarranted B.S. "NO ONE CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION!" Didn't mean to put that in all caps, but people in general will do to us what we allow them to do....That said, I pray that one day you find your epiphany like I found mine which was "There is only one me, and that is the person who I am going to conform to, others be damned!" Stay strong, and if you want to talk about this one on one, PM me. Good Luck!

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This is so true. I also apologize if my earlier post seemed a little self centered, it was not intended to be. When I was in high school I was always getting picked on, none of the girls were interested in me, I had a low self esteem. I have found since then you have to portray yourself the way you want people to see/treat you. Don't let people walk on you because if you let them once they will do it again and again.

Stand tall, Walk tall !!! O0

waine:
I will never understand how a woman’s mind works.  It is said, "Do not try to understand your woman, just love her".

Nevertheless, in my opinion, woman, in general, are not attracted to bald men, especially in the courting phase of their lives.  However there is always the exception...Once they see the heart, the humor and the confidence, the lack of hair means very little.

Andrei:
@Waine: what if we could debug women's mind? :) (just seen this question while web surffing)

Different people have different opinions.
When a woman speaks generally what she feels about bald men I think that can change when she gets to know a bald man

KDusk:
I agree with Andrei.

And there's also a difference between 'a bald man' and 'a balding man'.

Last I had a conversation with some of my female friends. We got to the subject about Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding. The general reaction was: "He's a very lucky guy, she married him despite him going bald." So I just coughed and said "Well, excuse me" while pointing at my head. And they answered: "But that's different, you're not going bald, you just shave your head." (I have MPB, though)

And I'm not the only shaved person they know since 2 of them have BBC friends: my female friends' reaction towards shaved heads is completely different than towards balding heads. I haven't explicitly asked them, but it seems that a shaved head is just another style in their opinion, whereas a balding head is seen as 'a negative trait'. And there will always be the occasional girl who will NEVER find a bald guy to be attractive (we also had that conversation), just like there will always be girls who don't like men shorter than 5ft10, or girls who will only date white or black guys...

wonderer:
Caution you are now entering the danger zone (RED LIGHT are on!) trying to understand woman's mind  may cause madness or adverse side effects like knowing what manolo is op prada :(  HORROR    :/O :-X

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