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Offline legaleagle

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Re: New and "on the fence"
« Reply #15 on: December 20, 2010, 04:55:17 PM »
Hey guys,

Sorry for the long absence and thanks again for the support.  As I'm sure happens all the time with newbies like myself (especially the < 30 crowd) I made a stupid decision.  After introducing myself here, I was talked into by others (including my doctor who I no longer trust) to give the rogaine/propecia combination a try.  That's the bad news.  The good news is that, after about 3 weeks, I've already realized that it isn't for me and I'm done with both of them (flushed remaining propecia down the toilet, a very therapeutic experience).  As a health matter, I can't believe I even considered taking a drug that would alter my hormones (and to keep taking it for life!) just to save my hair, which sucks anyway.  And as a matter of principle, I just felt ridiculous spending money/time in hair medication when I had so much more in life to be worrying about.

In sum, I'm glad I've reached the place I have now, and quite frankly I cannot wait to shave my head.  I wish I could turn back the clock 20 days and talk some sense into myself, but the upside is that this brief 3 week experiment has provided a lot of perspective on my hair loss.  The act of putting a pill into my mouth every day made me realize how stupid it was to risk health for hair.  I know a lot of guys had to go through a lot before accepting the sly lifestyle, I guess I should be glad that I didn't waste any more time and money, or risk my health any more than I already have, before I could see clearly how the easiest and healthiest option is right here on this forum.

Anyway, my first priority going forward is making sure even my brief time on medication did not harm me in any permanent way (I think I noticed some mild sides, but very well could have been paranoia).  I know the odds are in my favor of being just fine, but the horror stories are out there and I'm hoping that a couple of months down the ride I am feeling well.  In the meantime, I'm also going to the sly lifestyle and I couldn't be happier about that.  I don't think I'll feel the full happiness of it until I know I've moved on from the 3 weeks of lowered DHT in my system, but I am hopeful that day will come sooner rather than later.

Finally, thanks again.  Whether stressing about hair, side effects (or as others have, wigs, transplants, etc.), it's nice to have a community of guys who can relate to the roller coaster of emotions and stress, and help reinforce that there is light at the end of the tunnel, and the way to get there is a lot easier than previously thought.

Offline daviekumd

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Re: New and "on the fence"
« Reply #16 on: December 20, 2010, 06:04:44 PM »
good for you dude! =D

Offline D.A.L.U.I.

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Re: New and "on the fence"
« Reply #17 on: December 20, 2010, 06:49:59 PM »
quite frankly I cannot wait to shave my head. 

Well, it is a very nice Christmas present for yourself.  And entering the new year as yourself--with all the freedom that it will bring. 

Offline TheBreeze

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Re: New and "on the fence"
« Reply #18 on: December 20, 2010, 07:31:45 PM »
I would focus on moving forward rather than worrying about things in the past, it's what I have done.  The truth is, there are plenty of people out there who wish they had made a mistake for only 20 days.  People do far worse things for far longer periods of time.  I tried the drugs for a few years and wore a rug for 10.5 years (starting at age 23) until just two weeks ago. 

It sounds like this is the best option for you and you have realized it, just like I finally did.  Go ahead and get ride of it so you can stop thinking about it.  You will be surprised at how much of a non-event it is.  People have their own important things to worry about - their jobs, a sick relative or the fact that their investments are in the crapper - than your hair.  Develop a good plan with some good products and things should go very smoothly.  Good luck.

Offline Nonick

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Re: New and "on the fence"
« Reply #19 on: December 20, 2010, 08:43:06 PM »
Legal, congrats on making the decision after 20 days and not years!  O0  This is a great time to start out a new chapter in your life.  Some people make resolutioins!  Here, you just have to make the decision, stick with it for 30 days and then it's a part of your new life that you won't want to get rid of, and you'll probabaly say (like most of us) "gee, I wish I'd done this sooner"!  But that's OK.  You're here, and you're moving on in life, and that's what matters.  8)

 



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