I share a spouse who's frankly not into "sly." But, on the other hand I was pleasantly shocked and surprised that once sly the ladies took increasing notice--at first I didn't know what was going on it had been so long. I really like it, but it's just a window shopping tour bc I love "She Who Must Be Obeyed" even with her disapproval that she at least keeps to herself for the most part and she's getting better when she's with me and I get compliments--that used to really get under her skin.