Author Topic: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?  (Read 12402 times)

Offline pdxtodd

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #15 on: May 10, 2010, 11:07:03 AM »
I don't notice people staring.  I agree with the "come on you want to touch it don't you" comments.  Ha!

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #16 on: May 10, 2010, 03:54:59 PM »
I would probably opt for "Go ahead, touch it - I know you want to..."

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #17 on: May 10, 2010, 08:24:10 PM »
When I first shaved my head, about four years ago, I figured I would be getting a lot of stares. And being tall, a head over just about everyone else, I am sure I do get stared at. But I never notice anyone looking. Except (seriously) a lot of attractive women. The only reason I can think of for that is that the attractive women are the only ones I pay attention to!
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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #18 on: May 10, 2010, 10:03:07 PM »
They can stare at me all they want, I feel that people have the god given right and if they want to stare good to go, take into context of the whole matter ( which I think is a decent topic ) someone might be starting at you because she ( or he for some ) might be attracted to you, if outs of conflict or for the fact that the indivual is a initmitated non-alpha male just disregard the individuals existence.....It's just not worth it.

« Last Edit: May 10, 2010, 10:09:54 PM by RyanJP »

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #19 on: May 10, 2010, 10:16:50 PM »
I've never noticed anyone staring at me. hhmmmm....

If I did I would probably say something like, "You want me. Don't you?"   ;D

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #20 on: May 10, 2010, 10:33:14 PM »
I've never noticed anyone staring at me. hhmmmm....

If I did I would probably say something like, "You want me. Don't you?"   ;D

That or " Do you want a hug "

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #21 on: May 11, 2010, 05:22:11 AM »
I have a lot of tattoos (including my neck & knuckles), my septum is pierced, my earlobes are stretched to 5/8" and my head is shaved for for about 3 years I wore kilts, literally every day. So, I'm never really sure what it is exactly that has caught someones attention.  ???

But I have found that, universally the fastest way to respond is to make eye contact, blow them a kiss and smile (men or women). That usually solves the problem.  ;)
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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #22 on: May 11, 2010, 07:04:35 AM »
I've never noticed anyone staring at me. hhmmmm....

If I did I would probably say something like, "You want me. Don't you?"   ;D

That or " Do you want a hug "

I do that at work when some one around me gets mad.  I ask them "Do you need a hug?".  ;D  
Usually makes them even more mad  ???  D#tG3t

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #23 on: May 11, 2010, 05:15:09 PM »
I've never noticed anyone staring at me. hhmmmm....

If I did I would probably say something like, "You want me. Don't you?"   ;D

That or " Do you want a hug "

I do that at work when some one around me gets mad.  I ask them "Do you need a hug?".  ;D  
Usually makes them even more mad  ???  D#tG3t

HAHA....I'm the same way, I'll usually go into my Doctor evil a.k.a Mike Myer's voice...."You want a hug NOOOOO"

« Last Edit: May 11, 2010, 05:17:10 PM by RyanJP »

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #24 on: May 11, 2010, 05:34:48 PM »
I've never noticed anyone staring at me. hhmmmm....

If I did I would probably say something like, "You want me. Don't you?"   ;D

And what if they answer in the affirmative?    ^-^ ^-^

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #25 on: May 12, 2010, 12:07:47 AM »
I think I'm going to change my approach.  Based on a couple of guys avatars - if the person staring is a cute girl I'm going to ask her if she wants to kiss it. 

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #26 on: May 12, 2010, 09:12:44 AM »
no one stares at me



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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #27 on: May 12, 2010, 03:11:42 PM »
Plenty of stare, but I just give the guys a business card to the barber shop and let them know they should try it.  For the lady’s, I just smile and say hello.

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #28 on: May 13, 2010, 09:43:44 AM »
I just stroke my dome and smile .. and then they get all uncomfortable ..

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Re: How Do U Guys Deal With Strange Stares U Get In Crowded Places?
« Reply #29 on: May 13, 2010, 10:19:19 AM »
I just stroke my dome and smile .. and then they get all uncomfortable ..

I like that approach!
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