I think most men pay far less attention to the amount of other men's hair than one does to one's own. But when we begin to obsess about "balding," then it's, "When the only tool you own is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail." We all know it's a part of the inevitable human condition, but too often it becomes, "Why me, Oh God, why me?" I've gone SLY on and off for a quarter century now, and am fairly indifferent to balding in others. It's only those who go SLY that I notice--because, after all, the SLY look is not "natural" in the biological sense, as it represents a conscious choice to move beyond what genes, hormones and time have led to; to rise above one's biology.