Just because the sun is behind the clouds does not mean it is not there, you will still tan. If you are concerned tan in your back yard. As long as you wear a hat all the time, your face will be more tan than the area covered by a hat. Tan in your back yard so they become similar in tan. Then quit wearing the hat, take it off when you are walking out side. You can still wear it, just less when outside. If your face looks more tan than your head it looks strange to me like a cancer patient. Tan that baby. I let my hair grow out for a month, then shaved it of again, I have a slight tan line in that short period of time and it is winter now. I am trying to get outside to tan it better, it is looking a little better now, not to much longer.Shaving in my opinion does not make your nose look bigger but we don't have a picture of you. Most of that stuff is in your mind. If you accept it as normal, others will too, but if you show you are self conscious, people will notice you're self conscious of it.You are 20 years old, it will take time for you to be comfortable in your own skin looking in the mirror, the only way to speed up that process it to make a consious decision to just accept it.About the girl, think about it, you were with her for a week, she obviously accepted your looks during that time with all its flaws, whether those flaws are real or in your head. I would agree she dumped you not because of looks but because you did not exude confidence, or it could be as simple as incompatability and you may be making too much of it. I have seen some ugly bikers with hot chicks, the chicks are obviously not attracted by their looks or their fat body. I have see some ugly bodybuilders that had very good looking women, worked out bodys looked great, face not so much, so looks had little to do with that attraction.
You are not the only one, check around the Site--lots of guys your age are dealing w/ mpb at an early age. I had two classmates in law school who were profoundly bald when they started, went to skin before undergraduate studies were over. My daughter had a good friend, she had a bad crush on him, who was skin by his graduation. It's just the best solution to shave it, you're experienced at the gym so it will look good--and gyms by in large all have a lot of guys who are doing something positive about their appearance in addition to peeling the grape. You're one of them. It's not a bad thing--really. Ditch the hat, if it's not cold, get on with life--oh, sunscreen is now your best friend.
Hello Prod. Good that you are back with us. Man, look around, you are not the only bald guy on this Earth. It's just what Mother Nature handed about half the men alive. Get on with your life and accept the fact that you are hair challenged. No big thing. Your lack of confidence is your biggest challenge. Accept who you are and be proud. You have a loving family and no doubt many friends who have accepted you as you are. Be happy!
I was in your exact same shoes last year. I really do mean exact. The only advice that will work is that you just need to do it. You have to go all the way, it will solve all of your confidence problems with time. It definitely did for me. I had no confidence at all now I have a few women in line. Imagine what you will accomplish when you aren't worrying about your hair or lack of. Message me if u have any questions
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