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Offline pdxtodd

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Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« on: January 17, 2010, 07:29:47 PM »
My wife informed me this morning that she's filing for divorce.   This past year has been one heck of a downer -- I lost my job,  I started a company with a partner who turned out to be a flake,  I had the IRS freeze my bank accounts as they say I owe them hundreds of thousands of dollar (which I don't), the bank raised my mortgage payment by 3X,  I just had surgery on Thursday after being sick for 4 months, and now this.  Thankfully I have my sly brothers otherwise there would be nothing worth looking forward to.



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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #1 on: January 17, 2010, 08:12:41 PM »
I'm sorry for the obstacles and tribulations that have been put in your path, it sounds to me that you are still in good spirits otherwise you would'nt be posting it here. Stay strong my friend.

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #2 on: January 17, 2010, 08:13:25 PM »
Awe bro, that really sucks!  :(

You will get through this though... guaranteed!  O0



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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #3 on: January 17, 2010, 08:32:15 PM »
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes.  Though, remember there is always good that comes out of each trial.  Like you said, we're here!
People are not limited by the circumstance that they are born in. They are limited by the size of their dreams. Show them that their dreams can have no limits and in turn their accomplishments can be limitless.

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #4 on: January 17, 2010, 08:33:47 PM »
Very sorry to hear that, Todd. I know you'll turn all this around.
To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom – Bertrand Russell

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #5 on: January 17, 2010, 08:42:43 PM »
Thanks guys for the words of encouragement.  Just knowing that there is a group of guys who are there to pick you up when things are down means the world to me.   Even if its just a "hang in there" message.   Thanks to all my sly brothers.

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #6 on: January 17, 2010, 09:05:47 PM »
Hang in there, man.  It'll get better
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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #7 on: January 17, 2010, 09:26:11 PM »
     Good luck with all your issues.....If that was me id be packing up my truck and starting fresh in some new and far away land.......But be strong and work your way through it..........
     Also i seen your before and after photos today--lookin good--you made the right choice  O0     

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #8 on: January 17, 2010, 10:35:37 PM »
Todd, that bites.
Keep your spirits up, surround yourself with true friends & family, and appreciate all that is good in your life.


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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #9 on: January 18, 2010, 05:00:10 AM »
Todd.... I hope things turn quickly for the better for you.

Think about what AARRGGHH said above...... that's exactly what I did in the late Fall of 1994 when my life was at it's abolute lowest. A fresh start where nobody has preconceived notions about who or what you are. It was a life changing decision for me.
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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #10 on: January 18, 2010, 06:55:19 AM »
Sorry about your string of reversals.  As you said, we are here.  Try to deal w/ each issue alone, not all at once, and only one part of each issue at a time--keep the eye on the future.  You will get there, we promise. 

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #11 on: January 18, 2010, 07:32:28 AM »
Todd, my thoughts are with you in this time of difficulties.  And yes, we are here for you.
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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #12 on: January 18, 2010, 08:23:18 AM »
You have a "cool" bald head  - - -so that is in your favor - - - -think good thoughts and success and all will turn out O K

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #13 on: January 18, 2010, 08:53:52 AM »
That sucks, Todd. Your new-found confidence should serve you well during the trying times.

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Re: Just when I thought I hit rock bottom
« Reply #14 on: January 18, 2010, 02:08:01 PM »
Sorry to hear you're having such a rough time.  It never rains, but it pours, right?  I hope things get better soon.