Welcome to the SBG forum Fred, don't worry about the wife, she will get used to the new you.
If you like it that's all that matters.
She may get jealous of all the head rubs from other women though, lol.
Just start using your head in bed and the wife will be fine...unless of course you are wanting to get rid of her this year
Welcome Fred, give it 30 days she will love it.
Fred, it's great to have you around.