Insulted on a mass level!!

[20, bald, and loving it]

First off I am really sorry to hear about your loss and you and your family are in my prayers. 

I really don't understand why people need to make comments like that. I was always taught that if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. I think that it is awesome that you handled it so well.

[Mikekoz13]

Jason..... first... please know that I'm sorry for the terrible loss of a loved one. Please know that your Family will be in my Prayers this week.

About the the people that insulted you at the viewing. They are rude, insensitive people. To insult anyone at the viewing of a loved one says a lot about those people... and none of it is good.

I agree that people sometimes don't know what to say at the loss of a loved one... and that's fine. But there is absolutely NO excuse for insulting someone at such a time.

What a total lack of respect for you, your brother and his children, and your sister-in-law.

[Rhymez]

Sory to hear of your loss, but I got to say something. A lot of people are saying they get insulted when people make fun of them for being bald. I grew my hair back, not because I was insulted, but because I wear a hat alot and i dont get a tan up there, I just keep it buzzed. But when I did have it shaved, and people bugged me about it, I took no insult to it at all, and if it continued I told them where to go. You were at a funeral, so I guess that is no place to start a fight, let alone they should not have said sh*t like that during a funeral, so they must have problems. But if they keep bugging you, just remember YOU like the way it looks, and dont give a sh*t what others think. You are doing it for YOU and not THEM. So if they dont like it, who honestly cares?? Should not be you. You did it because you liked the way it looks, no if's, and's, or butt's.

[adam_r_todd]

Again, sorry about the death in your family.  People are amazing.  Most probably just didn't know what to say at a funeral and it's easier to give a put down than a compliment.  What a shame you had to deal with that kind of trash.  You look great sly.  They don't know what they're talking about.

[sq]

Well my friend unfortunately I experienced something similar last summer when my step-mom and sister died in a car accident.  Pre-sly for me so poor behavior was not regarding hair -

I have to agree with all those who have said that it really comes down to people not knowing what to say.  Much soul searching later, my words of advise:   look upon these folks with compassion, they have so little ability to cope with someones passing that they instead tease about hair - You can just see trouble brewing for them when something truly life-altering happens to them

[HeadbladerBob]

so sorry to hear that as most of my comments have always been positive. you handles yourself with class and dignity considering the circumstances you were in. hope things get better for you soon


 

[Christian]

First I am sorry for your loss.

What do these people think to insult you like that. Especially on an occasion like this. There's nor reason for such disgusting behaviour.
The bald look suits you fine and as to see here a lot of men decide being bald - a lot by choice, a lot by natural matters. No way being insulted for that. For most of us here the look is great!
Be proud and try not let things too near to your heart!

[jasonworld]

Thanks for all the nice comments and my family is doing well