You're absolutely right, Math Guy. There's only one way to find out and that's to do it. I was sooo close to razoring it, but couldn't take myself past the buzz. I just have to face my fears fully and do it, not half way. It would be much easier for me to take the plunge if the shape of my head was more rounded.
and the thing I would say is why don't you shave it and wear a hat whenever possible? You know if you think you will be nervous showing your shaved head then wear a hat at places where you can (such as going to a store, going out for a walk, etc.). You can do that until you gain the confidence you need. If you shave your head it might take some time to get used to your new looks, and so during that transition time you can wear a hat as much as you can until you are pleased with what you see.What do you think?
The only way to get over being self-conscious about showing your bald head to the world is to just brazen it out and do it. It's much easier to do out in public around strangers that you'll never see again. It's a little harder to do with family and friends, but you have to just push through and do it. After the first time, it gets easier. And the anticipation of what might happen is always scarier than what actually does happen. Most of the time it's a huge non-issue.
Quote from: SBG Math Guy on January 31, 2009, 07:19:28 PMand the thing I would say is why don't you shave it and wear a hat whenever possible? You know if you think you will be nervous showing your shaved head then wear a hat at places where you can (such as going to a store, going out for a walk, etc.). You can do that until you gain the confidence you need. If you shave your head it might take some time to get used to your new looks, and so during that transition time you can wear a hat as much as you can until you are pleased with what you see.What do you think?I think wearing a hat would be counterproductive. The only way to get over being self-conscious about showing your bald head to the world is to just brazen it out and do it. It's much easier to do out in public around strangers that you'll never see again. It's a little harder to do with family and friends, but you have to just push through and do it. After the first time, it gets easier. And the anticipation of what might happen is always scarier than what actually does happen. Most of the time it's a huge non-issue.
One step at a time Razor. I understand what you are saying but for a guy that has not shaved his head yet, it might be too much pressure. A guy who hasn't shaved his head yet and is nervous about it probably doesn't want to think of having to show his bald head to everyone he sees. Once he shaves his head there will be opportunity to grow in confidence. He needs to understand that he doesn't have to show his bald head to everyone he meets. Once he realizes that a shaved head is good then he will consider showing his head to everyone around.
RazorX, you got that right. I am still using a clipper, not sure when or if i get to shaving, but it's the same going down to a clipper shave. It's really not a big deal to anyone. We create this fear, because it's such a change. It was intimidating to ask my barber to clipper shave it all off; got used to that; then it was intimidating to buy a clipper and commit to doing it myself. But everytime I do, I look at myself and say, gee, this tight buzz looks better than that spikey sparse stuff. My wife even complimented me on doing it myself today.
you kinda mislead me. your head looks FINE i would hardly say your hairlines receding. take a look at my hairline. when i grow it out i look like jason statham lol. and you forehead isnt big AT ALL. i thought you were joking at first when you said that. it looks normal to me? i have a very long face and big forehead so trust me i know big foreheads lol.