I don't have a problem talking or walking up to people, but the hardest part for me is figuring out what to say. Most people love to have a conversation, even with a stranger. Again, the hardest part in talking to women, to me, is finding something to say that we both would find interesting. So here's a twist to the thread: what do you say to a stranger (man or woman)? If you ask a woman out, how do you go about it?
I think its funny that I'm pretty shy around new people, but my best friends are some of the most outgoing people around!I think they help me warm up, and i help them quiet down
Plant a 100 seeds, and one will grow. So, talk to a 100 women, and at least 1 will turn out well.
Quote from: BlackJamesRackham on August 18, 2008, 08:38:44 PMPlant a 100 seeds, and one will grow. So, talk to a 100 women, and at least 1 will turn out well.I see where you are going with this but when it comes to the matters of the heart (haha, I really just wrote that) I take a different road. (The 100 seeds may work for other parts though ) While looking for women is something we all do, I only concentrate my charms and efforts with girls that I seem to have a real pull towards. I am still polite with everyone, but would rather put my efforts towards girls I think are also putting effort towards me. I also find that when I am not like every other guy throwing myself at a girl with stupid lines and stunts, she wants to know why and starts talking to me! This may not work with everybody, but I like it.
I find walking up to a woman and saying, "Whats up biotch?" works really well.You get a quick read and can continue the convo or move on... sometimes very quickly!
Quote from: champ007 on September 16, 2008, 08:24:10 PMI find walking up to a woman and saying, "Whats up biotch?" works really well.You get a quick read and can continue the convo or move on... sometimes very quickly! get right to the point huh Champ? I bet your a blast to go drinking with.
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