Most of the guys I knew were in the military, so hard to run into them, when everyone has gone to different locals.
one ex is a teacher at my oldest son's school. but we are civil. she is a nice lady.
The best way to avoid that crap is to not live near any of your ex's......
I very rarely run into an ex but I did run into a girl I dated when I was about 18 and I was really gone on her... she ended up cheating on me so I broke up with her and she kinda stalked me for awhile...
I ran into her a few years back at a coffee shop, it was nice to see her but there was definitely no "spark" left but we were both happy to see each other.
My wifes boyfriend before we started dating was my old roommate who left town shortly after they broke up... He tried to get back with her while we were dating. He showed up one day at our apartment when my car was not there (I had just soldit) so I think he was asuming I was not home. The look on his face when I opened the door was priceless, I gladly accepted one of the 2 beers he brought over

... but no worries, once you go Marz you never go back... or something... it was weird to run into him like 8 years later as a married couple.
I very rarely run into an ex but I did run into a girl I dated when I was about 18 and I was really gone on her... she ended up cheating on me so I broke up with her and she kinda stalked me for awhile...
I ran into her a few years back at a coffee shop, it was nice to see her but there was definitely no "spark" left but we were both happy to see each other.
My wifes boyfriend before we started dating was my old roommate who left town shortly after they broke up... He tried to get back with her while we were dating. He showed up one day at our apartment when my car was not there (I had just soldit) so I think he was asuming I was not home. The look on his face when I opened the door was priceless, I gladly accepted one of the 2 beers he brought over
... but no worries, once you go Marz you never go back... or something... it was weird to run into him like 8 years later as a married couple.
Did you drink the beer in front of him? I would have lol
Left'm all in Southern California!!!
Ain't seen'm fer ages.....
I very rarely run into an ex but I did run into a girl I dated when I was about 18 and I was really gone on her... she ended up cheating on me so I broke up with her and she kinda stalked me for awhile...
I ran into her a few years back at a coffee shop, it was nice to see her but there was definitely no "spark" left but we were both happy to see each other.
My wifes boyfriend before we started dating was my old roommate who left town shortly after they broke up... He tried to get back with her while we were dating. He showed up one day at our apartment when my car was not there (I had just soldit) so I think he was asuming I was not home. The look on his face when I opened the door was priceless, I gladly accepted one of the 2 beers he brought over
... but no worries, once you go Marz you never go back... or something... it was weird to run into him like 8 years later as a married couple.
Did you drink the beer in front of him? I would have lol
Yeah, I sat and talked with him as I drank the beer. It was really uncomfortable for him as he knew I was pissed but it didnt bother me so bad as I knew there was no chance in hell for the guy.
Left'm all in Southern California!!!
Ain't seen'm fer ages.....
Yeah, untill your band reunites... the will come crawlin out of the woodwork.
Not very often, which is just as well....I am sure my wife would not want to be introduced...
I'm still in touch with several ex-GFs, and actually hang out with two of them quite a bit...