Hi guys, I wanted to share with you a few unexpected things that happened in the past 3 weeks. I think it might help people who are in a similar situation.
Right after I shaved I went on a trip and met quite a few people there. They would look at the scar when they first saw me but then didn't really seem to care that much. And then something that I didn't see coming happened. A girl I liked asked me about my scar, and she told me she liked it and wanted to know what was the story behind it. After a few days I noticed she was getting more and more attracted to me and she told me that she really liked me but she had a boyfriend.
Then I went back home and attended a birthday party with a lot of my friends who hadn't seen me shaved yet. Same reaction, they looked at it but weren't horrified or anything. By now I was a bit more confident about it in my every day life. I would even start to smile at people I caught staring at the scar on the street or in shops.
Now the last bit that surprised me the most is when I went on a date this weekend with a girl I met a few months ago. I only saw her a couple times before and still had hair at that time. She told me I looked much better shaved, and in the morning, after I spent the night at her place she said : "Did you shave to show off your scar and look cool?
". I wasn't expecting that...
So after thinking that being bald with a scar would scare girls off, turns out some girls like it!