Hey everyone! I have not posted on here in a while, but I am looking for advice. I am finding myself at a crossroad in my life. I have been employed at a large hotel chain in Boston since I moved from NJ three years ago. I am married to my wonderful husband and we have two cats. My uncle in law is our roommate and we do not have children, but would like to adopt someday. We both work full time and do not rely on assistance in any form.
So I have worked in the hotel restaurant for three years as a buffet attendant, busser, server, and host. I have received two small raises and am about to be named employee of the month for a second time. I work extremely hard despite having aspergers and dyslexia. I do enjoy my job, but the bills are barely getting paid. In order to save any money I must work save days and 8 to 9 shifts a week and no that the interns have arrived that is no longer possible. I also commute an hour and a half each way to work (two trains, one bus) and must take a cab