Welcome Dan,
As suggested here by so many of us who have been EXACTLY where you are right now, try the "30-DAY CHALLENGE"! You can read about it more here within the forum.
You said you were considered to be a "HOT" guy in high school! Well, my friend, if there is anything that women love MORE than a hot guy with hair, it's a hot guy WITHOUT hair!!
Take the 30-day challenge - you'll be hooked and wonder why you waited so long to go SLY!!
- Cap' Noodles -