I guess it's hard for those of us who love being totally bald to understand the stress you're feeling about this doc. We all react to situations differently. I started losing my hair in my 20's and I don't remember it bothering me - but there were a lot of other things in my life that made me feel the way you do. I look at your photos and yeah, I see a good-looking guy who happens to have a scar on the back of his head. I also see photos of a guy who has a great life, filled with friends and fantastic opportunties. Focus on the good stuff 'cause that's what life is all about.
I just wanted to say thank you for all taking the time to write back and giving me some great advice. I'm just so angry with myself for spending so much money and putting myself in this situation. I wish that I had had the courage to seek some advice prior to going through with the surgery.
At this point, I can pretty much pull off the BBC look but I know that there's a high likelihood that the mpb is going to progress quickly once i'm off the propecia/rogaine. No offense to anyone on here but I've struggled so long to to keep from going down this road that I have a hard time seeing the sly look as being attractive. In fact, up to this point it makes me cringe every time I see it. I know that I need to change this mentality but it's very difficult. Still struggling...