Think about it, do any of you watch American Most Wanted (AMW)? That's one of my favourite shows. You know the host John Walsh, imagine if you were him. In case you don't know, John's son Adam was abducted. Later, his severed head was found in a drainage canal more than 120 miles away from home. His other remains were never recovered.

John is still sad about it even though it occured in 1981 when his boy Adam was little. Today, he would have been a great man. 34 years of age. Instead, he died at age 7.
For years and years John has been wondering why would anyone do that to such an innocent child. John is still sad about it. Think about it, since 1981 this man has had to live through 2 things. (1) his little boy, who was expected to grow as a great man, die at such a young age, (2) dealing with the pain of thinking what Adam must have gone through when he was killed, and why anyone would be that to such a child.
Now brothers, that is something difficult to live with. I have always admired John Walsh for his strength in dealing with Adam's death. That is seriously probably the most difficult thing to live with. So, when you compare MPB to that, it is not even close.
Count your blessings, just remember you are in some ways lucky that it's only MPB.
Those here who are fathers will probably understand this more than those of us who are not. You know how difficult losing a child can be, especially when he was murdered.
So,the biggest advantage of MPB is that it's only MPB.