Well let me put it simply.. as the father of a 16 year old daughter. Dress the way a young man SHOULD dress. Not like some gang-banger A-Hole. I once had a young guy who wanted to see my daughter come to my door, pants low, boxers showing, ball cap on sideways you know the typical gang-banger crap. I told him if he ever walked on my property again he needed to show up dressed appopriately. Apparently he never figured out what I ment as he hasn't been back. And I'm not really crazy about the Goth look that seems to be so popular (God himself only knows why).