My wife and I, together 16 1/2 years, have had plenty of arguments about how I dress, mustaches, goatees, beards. My response always has been, "I don't tell you how to dress or how to wear your hair. Don't care if your hair's long, short, grey, colored, or if you shave it off."(Which she never did). I've had to teach her that there's a line you don't cross but she'll be forever a student and I'll have to keep teaching her(until I get fed up). If she can't live with the SLY look, the war begins anew.