stop worrying about fitting in or pleasing others. the coolest people are the ones who stick out in the crowd.
You have to be you
Don't worry about fitting in be confident in who you are, and what makes you happy
Peer Preasure...hmmmm.... I guess that makes you a pothead, a band geek, a jock, a criminal, emo, goth, a skate punk,... I could go on, peer preasure leads you to be what others want you to be or what they can't be themselves.
Be who and how YOU want to be not just one of the masses.
If your girfriend is afriad of bald people then she has much bigger problems. If she doesn't like or love you for you then its time to find one who loves you for you.
If you love and enjoy being sly and bald then do it