Quote from: SlySurfer on July 25, 2008, 04:26:33 PM

What more evidence do you need BA?
William's photo has a time stamp on it.

Because if I was that good lookin' I'd have to fight the girls off...what girls is he going for anyways?

Here in the good ol' US  tan, bald, good lookin' surfer boys can still get chicks...

hair or NOT!

That is my point!

So it can be looked at as a "dis" or a compliment...

THAT'S why I questioned the photo.

William take it as a compliment on your very SLY look!

I can defiently understand why you question my picture.

Everyone  does so, my mum, brother, sister, dad, my only friend I have left. None understands my problems or my personality since I can hide it *under the surface*. Because I don't speak about my problems for anyone and have never wanted to tell anyone about my problems. And I have never spoken with my mum/dad since they divorced as I was a very young kid. And my mum even left the country we lived in back then to a new country. I never even got the chance to say goodbye to my best friends or anything. One day she told me and my brother/sister that we are moving out of country. I was 9years then. I have a 3year old younger brother that never understood what happened but me and my sister took this very hard. Atleast I did, because  my sister stayed to live with my dad and thats what i wanted too. But she never let that happen and its here all my problems start.

I have never spoken to anyone of my parents until now. I mean the only words I have said to my mum is, yes/no, hi/goodbye and goodnight. She has always had to ask me about things and I have answered yes/no, nothing more. And my dad, I have never really spoken to him since we have lived in different countries. So I have never really spoken to anyone, until now. No one could think of me like someone with problems because even tho I have never open my tongue, I have gotten very good exams and been doing well in sports and girls have liked me.  Always been a very good looking boy but with a lot of hate and thoughts in my mind.

I have always said to myself that I don't wanna be like anyone else. I don't need to speak up since I have grown up by myself and my thoughts. Never ever asked for any homework help or money from my parents or anything. I have  always said to myself that I don't need any help from anyone. Because I have been doing very well in life except that I got all the hate and thoughts in my head.
This is why it has taken me 3years of zombie life to realize that I need help with my knee injury and my depressions about hair loss.

Maybe its easier now to understand, why I'm the one I'm. Why I cant argue or speak about stuff since I have stayed quite and only spoken to myself in my head about everything. As I said earlier I also got a little problem with stuttering and it surely most because I speak with my thoughts all the f***in time.

And yes it is a compliment to here from all you guys that I look good this way. Only wish that I can change myself to something normal now. To have the attitude that you got.  Learn how to talk/argue without stuttering in my mind because it is really a problem that dosn't need to exist.

Hey William, I'll trade my ugly mug for your looks any day of the week.  Your features are striking with the shaved head.  If you were in the states, I think you'd be fighting off the women.  Just put yourself out there with your shiny dome held high, and you should be just fine.  By the way, your English is better than most kids in the U.S.  All they seem to be able to do is text-speak... who needs complete sentences with correct spelling?

Hey William,

You look great Sly.  No need for hair.  Welcome to the crowd.

Unfortunately, I don't have any problem speaking my mind!  Get's me in trouble.

Thank you, and I don't think I need more hair, just better A LOT better self confidence and attitude. Like most men that suffer from hair loss or got problems with anything in life.

Hehe, good for you that you don't have the same problems I have

Because if I was that good lookin' I'd have to fight the girls off...what girls is he going for anyways?

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I would like anyone that likes me. I guess someone with the right attitude and self confidence could attract any woman with my looks but that is something I don't have.

What does GQ stand for ?

GQ is a men's magazine.  It is the male equivalent to Vogue.

It's all about men's fashions and stuff like that.

It stands for Gentelmen's Quarterly.

Posted by Gasslick
GQ is full of chiseled guys that I have no hope of ever looking like!

You and me both Bro.  But Wil does.  Damn to be young again.

Keep at it, William. It's good to talk to others about what's going on in that bald head of yours, and this is some good practice. I wish I could help you out with your confidence level, but I can't. Seriously though, you worry too much to have a bad personality. All the people I have known with horrible personality never bothered to worry about theirs. 
So you look good...and you have a nice personality...it sounds like all you have left is the self confidence. For that, I personally recommend you cut out any negative talk when you are talking to yourself. That includes thoughts! Speak positively! Also, I don't know how you dress, but take a little time and dress yourself well. Dress how you would like to FEEL on the inside.

I used to have bad self esteem. I used to be very thin, but with some joint trouble running got very hard, and then one thing led to another, and now I am a bigger guy. I always thought it was my size women didn't like, but it was my own attitude toward myself. Nervousness and shyness around women is nothing, bro! Some women even find it cute when you get clammy around them! But no one finds it cute or attractive when you don't love and respect yourself.
So just keep at it, man. And keep sharing your thoughts with us. We're a fraternity here, and you're a member now.