Oh, and on the subject of chat

Overnight, I had three friend/buddy request thingy messages on Yahoo messenger, but I don't know who they're from, because I don't recognize the user name/screen name/whatever they're called

I assume they're from SBG's because I don't really talk to anyone else online.
I'm always happy to chat, but preferably I like to know who I'm chatting to

I got into a situation a few months ago where I was chatting to a guy who had requested to join my buddy list, and I thought I knew who he was, but it turned out I didn't have a clue and it was all quite hair-raising. Not that I have any hair...
So if you add me to your Yahoo buddy list, let me know who you are

and if you added me yesterday and I didn't approve the request (or whatever the technical term is), dont take it personally, but for all I know, you could be my scary stalker from school (Juliet) who had an epileptic fit every time she was close to me, and if you think I'm kidding, I aint! Her eyeballs used to roll around in their sockets for about 10 minutes and she used to go as stiff as a board, then she'd snap out of it and carry on as usual. I felt sorry for the girl, but there wasn't much anyone could do, and it can be a little off-putting for a 12 year old boy when he's trying to eat spam fritters and overcooked cabbage.