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Offline Brian12

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Young girl showing interest in me
« on: April 10, 2011, 07:53:08 PM »
 
 I'm 32 going on 33 this year and I've noticed in the past year or two several younger girls showing interest in me. I find it strange because most of my 20s I spent alone due to be bald. One in particular can't be more than 22 I think. I know she's a college student and from what I can see she has to be somewhere around 18-22. I really like the way she treats me and she seems like a nice girl. I'm just curious why she and other women are showing interest now when I didn't get much when I was younger. Are these girls truly interested in me or do they think I am financially secure and just want someone to take care of them?  If they are interested in me I have no problem being with them but if they are just looking for someone to take care of them I want no part of it. I'm sure there must be someone else on this board who has gone through this same ordeal who could give me some insight.
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #1 on: April 10, 2011, 08:13:49 PM »
there are several things that could be going on

she may just like older men,she may find them to be more mature/stable/experienced.

she might just be a very nice person

she might be a flirt

she might think, as you say, that your financially secure etc

if you're truly attracted to her (and not just in a flattered way or a physical sense) there's only one way to find out what's going on - chat her up, see where things go, maybe dinner and a movie.  Just make sure she's at least 18......
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Offline Brian12

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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #2 on: April 10, 2011, 08:27:11 PM »
Quote from: sailor61 on April 10, 2011, 08:13:49 PM
there are several things that could be going on

she may just like older men,she may find them to be more mature/stable/experienced.

she might just be a very nice person

she might be a flirt

she might think, as you say, that your financially secure etc

if you're truly attracted to her (and not just in a flattered way or a physical sense) there's only one way to find out what's going on - chat her up, see where things go, maybe dinner and a movie.  Just make sure she's at least 18......
I know for a fact that she is in college, so she surely must be 18. Although I guess there are a few 17 year olds in college. She looks about 22 to me but I'm horrible with ages.
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2011, 07:29:57 AM »
Does she know how old you are?
Maybe ask her out but go someplace where you have to talk, not a movie or a play where silence is golden. Casual lunch or dinner, a long walk on the beach or in the park. Or if you're a ball player take her to the batting cages. Try to find out what her interests are and let her know yours as well.
Be observant! If she spends an inordinate amount of time staring at diamond tennis bracelets or other big ticket items in store winows this might be an indication of what she's looking for in a relationship.
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2011, 10:54:24 AM »
Some women prefer the company of older men. It doesn't have to be a bad thing, some people just prefer men who are more grown up/settled and have a sense of who they are. She also may think that you're younger than you actually are. I wouldn't go in assuming bad motives, but since you're naturally wary of them i'm sure you'll see them if they exist.
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM »
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2011, 05:26:55 PM »
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Well for me that WOULD be an ordeal because I'm 50 years old...... now if that 22 year old's hot Mom liked me I might have a problem.....
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #7 on: April 11, 2011, 07:36:58 PM »
I try not to date anybody over 32. 
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #8 on: April 11, 2011, 07:40:07 PM »
Quote from: Mikekoz13 on April 11, 2011, 05:26:55 PM
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Well for me that WOULD be an ordeal because I'm 50 years old......

There are worse problems one could have.   ^-^
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #9 on: April 12, 2011, 06:10:41 AM »
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Uhhhh, 'cuz that's a ticket to a fatal coronary! If things go right, that is.
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #10 on: April 12, 2011, 07:45:15 AM »
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Quote from: buddha on April 12, 2011, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Uhhhh, 'cuz that's a ticket to a fatal coronary! If things go right, that is.

That's the whole point of staying in shape. ^-^  Besides there are worse ways to go.  ^-^ >:D
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2011, 03:30:46 PM »
Quote from: Razor X on April 12, 2011, 07:45:15 AM
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Quote from: buddha on April 12, 2011, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Uhhhh, 'cuz that's a ticket to a fatal coronary! If things go right, that is.

That's the whole point of staying in shape. ^-^  Besides there are worse ways to go.  ^-^ >:D

Right on the head, Razor. Good argument in favor of working out occasionally.
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #12 on: April 12, 2011, 05:13:36 PM »
Quote from: Mikekoz13 on April 11, 2011, 05:26:55 PM
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Well for me that WOULD be an ordeal because I'm 50 years old...... now if that 22 year old's hot Mom liked me I might have a problem.....

Dude, you can window shop, you just can't test drive.  `Dr!v
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Re: Young girl showing interest in me
« Reply #13 on: April 12, 2011, 06:19:25 PM »
Quote from: schro on April 12, 2011, 05:13:36 PM
Quote from: Mikekoz13 on April 11, 2011, 05:26:55 PM
Quote from: Razor X on April 11, 2011, 03:55:46 PM
Explain to me how having an attractive 22-year-old woman being interested in you is an ordeal??   ??? ??? ???

Well for me that WOULD be an ordeal because I'm 50 years old...... now if that 22 year old's hot Mom liked me I might have a problem.....

Dude, you can window shop, you just can't test drive.  `Dr!v


He's right, nothing wrong with window shopping.  ;)
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