As of late, I have noticed that different individuals that were a part of this group hardly come in here anymore.  I also notice that I don't post as frequently anymore.  When I do, it is often about stuff that doesn't have anything to do with being sly.  So here are some observations.

I know that for myself, for quite awhile when I first went sly and several years after, I was very enthusiastic about the look.  I was intrigued.  For me as a people pleaser, it was one of the first "edgy" things I have done.  I was doing something for myself and not because I was trying to please anyone else.  I felt better about myself.  It was freedom.  Not just freedom from caring whether or not my hair was thinning but also freedom to have some self expression.  So when I was first part of SBG, I know there was a lot of talk about head shaving techniques, products, peer pressure to grow hair back, etc.

But I have noticed that as I have  embraced the sly lifestyle, something else has happened.  It has just become a normal part of my life.  So now, I don't think nearly as much about it as I had.  Most of my questions have been answered.  I also have seen that I am not alone in my feelings about sly related issues.  I have found "community" here.  I also feel that while I may have talked alot about my balding sly noggin in the past, that  I don't always feel like it is that interesting anymore.

So I am guessing that is why there are many who have come and gone from this community.  Their use  for this forum is less now because their needs have been met.  That is not a bad thing. 

I am grateful for the brotherhood of the bald that I have experienced here.  I can't believe the diversity of this place.  I have experienced encouragement and friendship here.  I have had prayers lifted up here.    I am amazed at how most peole here have been well behaved.  We have had Christians, Jews, Moslems atheists and others here.  We have had men, women, straights and gays here.   Plus we have had textiles and naturists here!  It has been neat to interact with all of you!

I also have to say that I am grateful to Tyler and the other moderators for keeping this place a safe functional place to talk about being sly or about other things.  Years ago, I had been part of another group that started out as a place where all could come and talking about headshaving issues.  It eventually went dormant and another group started from that.  It was  mainstream at first but then it became a place where  men were wanting to hook up with each other to shave each others noggins for pleasure.  Since  I was not remotely interested in any of that, I left.  So I am thankful that Tyler found me on another site and told me about SBG!

I know this sounds like I am leaving this group. I am not.  I may not post as often.  I will probably always check out what is going on here.  But I just wanted to give my observations about this group.  About what I see, what the group has done for me!  I am glad this group is here.  It is a great, safe resource for new people who are curious about sahving their head.  I will probably be more likely to chime in on my experiences  as compared to asking questions about shaving.  With very thin hair, I know that I will be sly for life!

Anyway, SBG Rocks may it live long!!!!             

yes, this site is about going sly and helping other interested in head shaving. But I think it's more than that that.It is a group of people who can discuss other issues , problems,good times,bad times, jokes , motorcycles, whatever.Because we each have that one thing in common there is a form of bonding . So I still look forward each day to maybe add my two cents .

I enjoy participating in "Paying It Forward" and helping someone else that's struggling with MPB ...

I was just about to say something similar.  When you've been shaving your head for a long time, you can sometimes forget how difficult it can be for someone who's still about to take the plunge.  The look has become so common that sometimes we tend to think that it's not such a big deal anymore.  But we get enough posts from new members, particularly younger ones, that make it clear it's still a tough issue for them. I think it's important to help them out as much as we can.

Very good posts!
I like to be member of this great forum, again thank you, Tyler.

Have a nice week, greetings from this side of the pond.

J

I agree with all the above sentiments and by the way Happy Fat Tuesday to all.

Some of us have to work, but at least I'm close to a BATHROOM!!  

 - Cap'n Noodles -

Ditto on the comments already posted above.

Like many of you, I've learned so much about the proper art of shaving since coming to this site, and, as so many of you have already stated, maintaining our SLY is a part of our daily routines now - like brushing our teeth -  that we do it automatically, without giving it a second thought.

The bonds and friendships that we have developed between one another stand strong, and here's hoping they may never be broken!  
                      
While we may have our techniques and routines down pat, I too, see many newcomers, still discoering SBG, for the very first time, searching for answers, just as we all have on our initial visits. When (and if) the opportunity presents itself, I know we would all extend our hand to those newcomers who seek the knowledge of the "SLY GURUS"!

Have a Wonderful FAT Tuesday, Guys!!  

              Eat, Drink, and Be Mary!!
        
        

Quote from: Tom Gallagher on March 08, 2011, 04:25:54 AM

Happy Fat Tuesday to all.

Yeah, you right.  Enjoy, live, laugh and be happy! Excuse me gents, I'm going to get a breakfast of Milk Punch, Popeye's, King Cake--and have some fun in the streets.  Hail Rex!

Laissez les bons temps rouler.

I think it has a lot to do with the nature of the information on this site. It is for the most part a source of great tips and tricks for starting and maintaining a shaved head. Like others have said, after you've being doing it for a while the novelty of this site may ware off for some. However, with some members,  there have been great friendships formed during the initial visits to the site - I'm guilty of this this  . I for one plan on sticking around because I enjoy the comradery and I do still learn new tips or tricks on here from time to time. I may not post a lot but I do come to the site daily.

Thank you Tyler and all the rest of the gang for making this such a wonderful site! 

Saintc, I'm jealous.  Was in New Orleans years back for business and discovered cajun   Have a great Fat Tuesday.