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Close cut, but not sly yet. by ynmaker on 04 May, 2010 09:52
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Hello all. I'm a long time lurker to this site. I'm in my mid 40's and have had thinning hair for the last several years. My hair on top is very thin and fine and I've been getting shorter hair cuts over the years. Until last Saturday I've been keeping my hair about 1/2 - 3/4 inch long on top. (I gave up parting my hair several years ago.)
I knew I didn't want to go the comb-over or drugs route. Surgery and hair systems where also out of the question for me. All of the above are neither a remedy, or a solution.
I don't think I suffer from any lack of confidence. I was never one to spend too much time with my hair. I just didn't like the way my hair looked, and I know things where only going to progress...
Last Saturday I asked my barber to buzz it down short. He tried a #2 on the sides and a #3 on top. I thought it looked as silly, if not more silly, than usual. I went with a #1 all over.
As you all have said, the instant relief and satisfaction are very real. I didn't discuss this with anyone. I just did it. My wife is not too excited. She thinks it looks worse than before. Our ten year old son really dislikes it. But both are coming around. (I think.) I've have some snickers and complements both at church and work.
I know a #1 buzz isn't sly, but I really like it. I look at photos from the last several years and see quite a bit of scalp shining through. Last Christmas my 98 year old Grandmother mentioned my hair was thinner each time I visit. She told me "Going bald is nothing to be ashamed of."
Anyway, I don't know if I'll go further with this. I bought a Headblade and some HeadSlick a couple weeks ago, just in case. I just wanted to say, THANKS!!! All of you on this forum are an inspiration, particularly those who have, after years of other methods, embraced your fate and genetics, and started down the road of the rest of your lives. The rest of my days, or years, or whatever, will be spent being focused about things that are important, not things as silly and superficial as hair, or the lack of it.
I don't spent much time in front of a mirror, but now when I do look, I really like the guy looking back.
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#1 by D.A.L.U.I. on 04 May, 2010 10:00
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Welcome. At least you're prepared to do what it takes. At #1 the urge to finish the job can be pretty strong--so yielding is one way to find out if you like it. If you don't like it right now, you'll be back to a #1 in a week or so anyway. And, this is just one of my many personal things: sunscreen is important to avoid skin problems, and it's a lot easier and neater to apply to a smooth melon. So if you're not comfortable w/ a hat-smooth is the safest for your scalp.
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#2 by SlyBaldDude on 04 May, 2010 10:08
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Life is only so long. You are going to wonder why you waited so long .. its true!
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#3 by Papa Don on 04 May, 2010 10:25
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Hello and welcome ynmaker. I really like your attitude and confidence. Good for you. Please come often and join in on the conversations and information.
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#4 by ozzie on 04 May, 2010 15:54
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I don't spent much time in front of a mirror, but now when I do look, I really like the guy looking back.
That's the key thing right there! Congratulations!
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#5 by OzPete on 04 May, 2010 20:46
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Welcome!
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#6 by Gambrinus on 04 May, 2010 21:02
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Welcome!
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#7 by lifeinthesouth on 05 May, 2010 08:01
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People will come around to it. Don't worry about comments they are harmless. If you like the #1 stay with it a while. I stayed at a #1 for about 2 weeks then decided to try it without any guards. which is where I have stayed for a while now and do it every third day. The freedom of it all was the best part for me as well. I went from it being in the back of my mind all the time to being happy I don't have hair to have to worry over. If your family sees that it makes you happy it won't bother them after getting used to the new look.
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#8 by Mikekoz13 on 05 May, 2010 13:04
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Welcome!
My son was also 10 the first time I shaved my head.......... he cried and ran out of the room when he saw me.
It sounds to me like your 98 year old Grandma is a lot smarter than some of the people you work with........... -
#9 by xnewyawka on 05 May, 2010 17:18
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"I don't spent much time in front of a mirror, but now when I do look, I really like the guy looking back".
I agree with ozzie on this one, that's the feeling of freedom that comes with taking control.
If you like the guy looking back in the mirror now, wait 'til you shave it down smooth. You will love it.
Welcome to the forum yn, enjoy the new you.
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#10 by ynmaker on 06 May, 2010 08:35
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Thanks for the encouragement guys. I'm not sure what the next step will be. I'm going to have to do something soon 'cause what's left is growing out and will look weird if I don't get some clippers and go #1 again. I may have to go with the urge and shave. I'm a little worried about bumps and a rash drawing attention to my dome. I don't have a problem with my face, and I shave daily with a Mach 3. I've used the Headslick on my face for over a week, and it agrees with my skin. The menthol is a bit intense on the face, at first. Anyway, thanks again all.
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#11 by wpruitt on 06 May, 2010 15:36
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Welcome Yn. Go for it !
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#12 by xnewyawka on 06 May, 2010 23:15
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I don't have a problem with my face, and I shave daily with a Mach 3. I've used the Headslick on my face for over a week, and it agrees with my skin. The menthol is a bit intense on the face, at first. Anyway, thanks again all.
Yn, you may want to try your first headshave with the Mach III. I used it for my first shave and it was very easy on the dome. The HeadSlick will be a good choice also, and once you get used to the menthol feeling, over time it's not as strong. Good luck and keep us posted. -
#13 by Gambrinus on 07 May, 2010 08:02
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DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!
Listen to the Yankee and use your Mach3. The Headblade has the unique ability to find every bump that you never knew you had. You know you want to, all the cool kids are doing it
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#14 by ynmaker on 07 May, 2010 10:07
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Are you guys saying use the Mach 3 for the 1st shave, then use the HB for later shaving?
I'm just a little chicken about cutting up my head the first time I shave.
That would sort of defeat the "I know what I'm doing" attitude I'm trying to project....LOL.