Welcome, and lots of young guys go through this. Look through the Forum and you'll see their stories--take away #1, You're not alone, take away #2, there is a safe and sane way to handle it that is time tested and works--go sly, or if you're not quite there yet, a short buzz. Oh, our experience shows that the girls LIKE it, and some like it a whole lot. You're going to be fine.