hey fellas! i've been saved! and no, i'm not talking about some celestial force. i was saved from having to live a life of constant worry, low self esteem, and ridicule. maybe a few of you might remember me from the short time i was here. it's been a year and a half since i first posted (and almost two since i started "lurking" the forum). anyhow, i'm 25 years old. very bad receeding hairline, "island" up front, thinning on the rest of the top, and crown bald spot getting worse. just typical MPB.

 i had alot of things going on in my life before, and the hairloss(starting at around age18) just added to my list of mounting problems. as a youngster, and up to low 20's, i was a very self-confident, happy fellow. by 22 i had very, very low self esteem, could not go out without a cap, and hated/feared: the wind, rain, sweat, sports, certain lighting, and i had stopped approaching women. the only reason i still was lucky enough to be with some women was because i am a front man in a band on guitar and vocals. (you can be ugly and get women in a band, look at mc jagger!) anyhow, so luckily some women still hit on me. but i wouldn't DARE approach one of them first. basically, i had stopped doing all of the activities and general things in my life that i had loved. since i didnt care about myself, i treated myself accordingly. i started playing with questionable substances at gigs and at afterparties, slept with various women,(of course none of this lead to any meaningful encounters/relationships) and drank heavily. all of this made me, of course, feel even worse about myself. i didn't feel like "me" and i certainly didn't look like me with this MPB. at least, i didn't think so. when i looked in the mirror i thought, "i don't know this fella, why should i care about him?”

I woke up one day and decided I needed to change - I had an epiphany. I bought clippers and I buzzed my head. Then I actually went clean with the mach 3 after a few months of buzzing. My family and friends HATED it and ridiculed me relentlessly. But I’ve stuck with it, and It helped my self esteem tremendously. I no longer had to fear all those things I listed above. I felt exposed, liberated - I felt like a man. And I felt true to myself as well. No more hours looking in the mirror. No more hairspray. I went to alcohol rehab and have been doing well living clean, my head included! I met a gorgeous woman who’s been my live-in girlfriend for 8 months. My self esteem, sense of humor and confidence have all come back to me.

And most importantly of all, now,  I love the man in the mirror.

Thanks for reading

WOW!! What a great turn-around, HoodooMan. Congratulations! 

Good for you!!!  You have really had a journey, and I'm glad to hear that it has worked out for you!  Keep it up!

Welcome back HoodooMan! What a great story!

Congrats to you for pulling yourself out of that funk and getting on with your life. EVERY guy that comes here looking for help or advice should read that post.
It's all about confidence....that confidence willl breed other good things.

RIGHT ON, HOODOOMAN! 

I loved reading your post and am glad to hear of your transformation.
It's funny you mention the "island" you had on the front of your head. I had the exact same thing going on back in high school and my hair hung in there 'til about age 27. Knowing what I know now, I wish I would have shaved my head years ago instead of waiting 'til age 40.

WOW!

What a testimonial of true SLY transformation. Way to go Hoodoo!

Hey HoodooMan,
Post up some pics!

Congrats dude. Great story.