Best I've found is Banana Boat, spf 30, but it's dry. I haven't found anything stronger that isn't greasy or doesn't sting--particularly on a freshly shaved noggin. Unless I want to wear a hat, and I don't like them mainly because I have a huge head, 7 7/8 barely gets on, I will use the spf 70 from Neutrogena, but it is shiny, really shiny and oily and it stings. I also didn't like the BaldGuys product--mine separated into a real mess in the drawer.
The Banana Boat will slightly reduce the gleam of a noggin, not to pure buff, but I never found anything that did that. Like a lot of guys, freshly shaven, I really have a lot of natural shine before anything is added anyway.
If you locate a stronger product than the spf 30, please post it up.