I have the same problem and following helps me:
Shave with a blade; no clippers or electric face shaver. These things seem the pull up and loosen skin cells or flakes. The blade seem to just take off that top layer of dead skin cells.
Head Lube Matte works for me. Using any moisturizer is best done with damp skin, imho.
I also keep humidifiers running in my home and keep an atomizing humidifier by my bed at night.