Love it but still feel strange

[Timmer]

Seriously.  My wife and I have an understanding.  She can make me do exactly what I want, I can make her do exactly what she wants.  If we think it might piss off the other, we talk.

It's always better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.  I think that's one of Gibbs' Rules as well.

[Big Kahuna]

I was in the same boat. My wife absolutely did not want me to go sly. I decided to go for it anyway. I think the 30 day rule goes for significant others too. She's chasing me down now. It's all good.