Get yourself a gay wingman. We're chick magnets, much like cute dogs. Red
Quote from: SimplyRed on February 25, 2010, 08:06:23 AMGet yourself a gay wingman. We're chick magnets, much like cute dogs. RedRed you AIN't right..lol
Back on a serious note, Fred, your married friends are good sources for finding nice women to date. Stable single people of all persuasions are best met through social channels not the bar scene.Red
Hi Baldtribesman,Women tend to like kind, successful, ambitious men who are attentive but not weak. Men ought to take a vested interest in what the woman likes/dislikes, what she is interested in and what her opinions are about things while at the same time being aware that too much eye contact and too many questions will kill the mood for women. You have to be interested while playing it cool like you may know something about what she is saying and strong like she is in charge but you are protecting her.Where to meet women:If you are not an exerciser maybe its time you start. Join a yoga class and be patient (tons of women). Join a palates class or a swim class but don't be lecherous (tons of women). Look into joining some clubs or groups that do some of the things you like. There are likely going to be women in there or at least it creates a window.Online dating. Always a possibility for (tons of) women. But kindness is key. KINDNESS without being too gazey. Women want to know that they are safe, so staring can be uncomfortable. Open doors, pull out chairs (if its convenient), offer the woman to go first (almost always) but don't look desperate; just smile and make some minimal eye contact. Be cool and relaxed. And expect nothing.Another way is to make girl friends. You know, some chicks you are not interested in. You can meet them online or through a club or class or at work and begin to get comfortable around women. Even when rejected be cool. Rejection hurts but be cool. The more you try (without being a lecherous creep) the more possibilities you will encounter. Remember that physical exercise always helps you shine from the inside out and women will see that.Good luck.
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