Sly Bald Guys Forum
Confidence and Success => Relationships/Dating => Topic started by: ShavedForNow on May 19, 2009, 10:29:02 PM
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Or do you?
The bald look definitely seems to be one of those things that women feel strongly about - one way or the other. And there's also the whole "bald men are threatening" stereotype that we have to get past.
Got any secrets for how to work a club or a party?
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Regardless of what you hear, women are not attracted to looks, they are attracted to confident men. They may not realize it in the beginning, but in the end, it's always about a man's confidence.
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Or do you?
The bald look definitely seems to be one of those things that women feel strongly about - one way or the other. And there's also the whole "bald men are threatening" stereotype that we have to get past.
Got any secrets for how to work a club or a party?
Smile, but not like a deranged wacko.
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Smile, but not like a deranged wacko.
I can do that, as long as I'm not looking into a camera lens... :D
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the best advice I can give is to approach each woman as if they already like you. Act as if you have known them for years, and this tends to take the edge off a bit...There is no way how to weed out ones who don't like bald dudes, you just have to assume they don't care. It has worked for me a charm, I have not been rudely rejected once, the worst that has happened is that she smiled and said it was nice to talk to you, I have to go back with my friends now...
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the best advice I can give is to approach each woman as if they already like you. Act as if you have known them for years, and this tends to take the edge off a bit...There is no way how to weed out ones who don't like bald dudes, you just have to assume they don't care. It has worked for me a charm, I have not been rudely rejected once, the worst that has happened is that she smiled and said it was nice to talk to you, I have to go back with my friends now...
thats cuz youre built like a greek god haha. what about for us "normal" guys lol.
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No need to "target" any specific kind of woman. Women of all types are interesting and will find you interesting.
When I first met my wife I thought she was gorgeous but not exactly my type. I was a bit of a "bad boy" in those days and wasn't exactly her type either. But here we are almost 15 years later and happier than we've ever been with a gorgeous Family.
A confident, funny guy can rock any woman in the room..........
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Just be normal, and have a good time in the process. Sometimes its like they just fall from the sky!
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Just be yourself it's the only way. Don't pretend, don't try to impress, just be you. Being yourself is easy to do and gives you confidence wich women love. Enjoy being you and women will enjoy you too.
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I dont really try to target any kind of woman. Down in Cali I was gettin all sorts of girls looking at me. And Alex, I am a 'normal' guy. Maybe its because I wear Wranglers and you know the old saying 'wrangler butts drive girls nuts'.
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the best advice I can give is to approach each woman as if they already like you. Act as if you have known them for years, and this tends to take the edge off a bit...There is no way how to weed out ones who don't like bald dudes, you just have to assume they don't care. It has worked for me a charm, I have not been rudely rejected once, the worst that has happened is that she smiled and said it was nice to talk to you, I have to go back with my friends now...
thats cuz youre built like a greek god haha. what about for us "normal" guys lol.
Hey man I'm your age and your size probably judging from your pic. and had more luck with women since I went sly. and honestly, I looked better with hair. Yet i feel its all the mind man. A woman doesn't like the view of a balding guy feeling miserable about his hair loss. Women like to go for the positive, successful(in any feild) with a sense of humour delivered with some intelligence.
I have a horseshoe shadow which doesn't stop me from dating women. It feels much better that I tossed the hats off with the feeling of insecurity and paranoid thoughts that someone jokefully would take it off.
I'm now hitting the weights to have a sharper look. i think a toned physique goes well with a slick head.
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to MIndTaker: great avatar. Andy Warhol-esque.
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Thanks Marty :)
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Thanks Marty :)
I say ink it!!!!!!
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"shave it and they will come!"
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"shave it and they will come!"
....Literally!
(sorry, had to go there. Champ hasnt been around that much to throw in dirty jokes, so someone has to keep it going just a little O0)
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shave it, work out in the gym and get some decent clothes.
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Don't know how to "target" them, but I agree that some women LOVE the look and some women don't. But the ones that love it, really love it.
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shave it, work out in the gym and get some decent clothes.
So now you're criticizing my wardrobe? :x!
(Just kidding; I'm sure that wasn't you're intention.)
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No need to "target" any specific kind of woman. Women of all types are interesting and will find you interesting.
When I first met my wife I thought she was gorgeous but not exactly my type. I was a bit of a "bad boy" in those days and wasn't exactly her type either. But here we are almost 15 years later and happier than we've ever been with a gorgeous Family.
A confident, funny guy can rock any woman in the room..........
Mike hit it on the head. CONFIDENCE and HUMOR make or break a guy's appeal to women.
You either have good humor or not. You can however, work on your confidence.
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To all the guys wondering what the deal with women is, Ty and Mike hit on the head. I am far form "normal" in the looks department, but I am funny as hell and very confident. I have no problem with the women, if you own the room or where ever your at and like Samoa said act like its know big deal to talk to them its easy. Money, clothes and working will only help, if it helps your confidence, but they're not necessary. You got to find yourself first. Go out there and throw the game at then and keep working it till you get it. if you get shut down at times, so what does it really matter in the big picture of your world.....NO it doesn't just means, NEXT.
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I dont think you need to target them ,as many women think a shaved head is a mean tough guy look :x! and many go for this look
I find i get more women looking at me now than when i had hair, But as i have a wife i must behave or get killed.
But with a shaved head you stand out from the crowd any way , you are differant from most other guys, and are confident enough to go bald, These things do attract women, :@` then you just need to sweet talk them.
So all you young guys shave your head and pick up chicks.
The only place you would have to target certain women is at a bald man convention
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You can use a sniper rifle with a scope. Sorry I couldn't resist. :o
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You can use a sniper rifle with a scope. Sorry I couldn't resist. :o
Epic :*))
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nice tatt work Peter the b!
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the best advice I can give is to approach each woman as if they already like you. Act as if you have known them for years, and this tends to take the edge off a bit...There is no way how to weed out ones who don't like bald dudes, you just have to assume they don't care. It has worked for me a charm, I have not been rudely rejected once, the worst that has happened is that she smiled and said it was nice to talk to you, I have to go back with my friends now...
That would've been useful information before I got married but I'll remember that if and when I need to upgrade.
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Just be yourself. Honesty is the best policy. Oh crap, I sound like my mother. :@`
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nice tatt work Peter the b!
Thanks Marty appreciate it, brand new and still healing! One more seating and its all finished!
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Just smile, and be yourself! :)
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For my bday I got a tribal band. Still healing.
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I glanced at some of the replies...and some are spot on.
Women can and will be attracted to you REGARDLESS of your looks. Even if you're ugly. That being said, take the time to care of yourself and look the best you can. With a little work, everyone can be handsome.
Women are attracted to personality first, look second. And looks are a very DISTANT second. You have to know how to approach them, and make them FEEL the attraction. Being a wussy around women isn't going to get you anywhere. Women like cocky/funny/confident guys (despite what they all say they're looking for a man). There's a reason "bad buys" and assholes get more women than the nice guy.
There's a ton of psychology that goes into this. Get into it, and you'll be successful with women. You can be extraordinarily successful with almost all women if you really get into it. :)
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If I am just looking for fun I target the drunk ones that can hardley stand up.
If I need her to speak.. LOL... then I walk over and introduce myself and see if she responds without slurring or spraying.
I mean its like trying to target women who like little bananas dude, haven't met one yet >:D
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Old topic but I want to add something. Talking about young women, looks really do matter! This may be against against what people want to think, but honestly...it's often heard that men are more visually inclined but I very much doubt if this is true. But I admit that looks are just one factor among others, namely confidence conveyed by posture, body language and facial expressions. These things speak before you get to talk.
Now about some women loving bald guys, I understand that bald is considered sexy by some women. I'm sure majority prefers it to a combover. I know some do really love the bald look more than others. But since I'm new to this game and besides living like a hermit now, so (this may sound stupid but just out of curiosity) is there something else about these woman that have the "bald fetish"? Any other common denominators you have noticed?
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Old topic but I want to add something. Talking about young women, looks really do matter! This may be against against what people want to think, but honestly...it's often heard that men are more visually inclined but I very much doubt if this is true. But I admit that looks are just one factor among others, namely confidence conveyed by posture, body language and facial expressions. These things speak before you get to talk.
Now about some women loving bald guys, I understand that bald is considered sexy by some women. I'm sure majority prefers it to a combover. I know some do really love the bald look more than others. But since I'm new to this game and besides living like a hermit now, so (this may sound stupid but just out of curiosity) is there something else about these woman that have the "bald fetish"? Any other common denominators you have noticed?
Dude. Looks don't matter when it comes to success with women.
HOWEVER...the only part where looks do matter is this: if you appear ungroomed or like you don't take care of yourself, YES it will turn most women off. Do what you can to look the best you can. The rest is confidence, attitude, and social skills. Get out there.