Sly Bald Guys Forum
Discussions About Being Bald => Reactions to being Bald => Topic started by: Ghost1988 on May 12, 2009, 08:07:06 PM
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I have this particular picture on my facebook of me making a crazy face (see bottom pic) and this girl commented the pic so we went back and fourth with comments until she made a certain comment that pissed me off a little cuz it seems like she was calling me ugly because i shave my head. The thing is I cant tell if im just looking way too far into it or i have a reason to be annoyed. Whats your guys opinion of her comment.
heres the pic and the conversations under it. the comment that im talking about is her last comment.
(https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi437.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fqq94%2Fghost_capone%2F1234.jpg&hash=c8724be90bea5671fb05a8b0d724426d8d5274d0)
HER- haha i was going to yell at you for not making this your default. but apparently ya did... so some props nonetheless lol
ME- lol according to nick this is my serial killer look lol. i guess it doesnt help that im holding a frisbee as a strangulation device either lol.
HER- haha i'm pretty sure serial killers don't make the kissy face. i'm not intimidated by the strangulation frisbee either lol
ME- shes got guts! lol no.....im not a very imtimidating person. the only people that seem to HATE me are babies haha. must be the shaved head lol. i literally look at em and they cry. its kinda cute.......in a way lol.
HER- they look at you, thinking "nooo, that's what i'll look like if my hair doesn't start coming in!" lol/b]
maybe it was just a bad joke?
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Sounds to me like she was trying to be funny. I wouldn't take it to mean anything mean or hateful.
IMO you should be enjoying this time of being SLY! It sounds to me like you still might be a little insecure with your SLYness, but you shouldn't be.... You look GREAT with a shaved head. O:O
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I think she was just being funny. You need to get out more often bro. Soon all those comments that you think are negative will just pass thru one ear and out the other.
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geez bro! why the negativity? dude, she was trying to be funny. i see alot of negative in your posts. not attacking you in any way here bro. just an observation. stress less dude. O0
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i guess your right. like i said...i was just looking way too into it lol. we were messin around then when she said that it made me stop and think "did this chick just insult my shaved head?" lol.
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Dude, lose the chip. And even if she wasn't trying to be funny, what's the BFD?
If you let some anonymous person on the Internet get to you, you're gonna spend a lot of your life pissed off.
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Dude, lose the chip. And even if she wasn't trying to be funny, what's the BFD?
If you let some anonymous person on the Internet get to you, you're gonna spend a lot of your life pissed off.
lol wow........
bad day?
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Bro..
I wanna buy ya a beer....
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Bro..
I wanna buy ya a beer....
Make that 2
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Bro..
I wanna buy ya a beer....
Make that 2
I'm thinkin' six pack.... and a nice manly talking to you about your confidence. I know you're trying hard with the confidence thing and your's has improved tremendously since you first came to the Forum.
I don't mean to be overly critical.... when I was your age I was a real piece of work....... and we're all works in progress to some extent.
Put out positive energy Dude...... good things will be drawn to you.
And I too think the girl was just being funny..................
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A baby would LOVE to have the smooth head I just got!
BTW She was flirting with you.
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KEGGER!!! ;D :*)) :*))
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I feel a party coming on!
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Hey dude!
You invited her comment with your prior statement saying that you make babies cry and suggesting the reason was that you shave your head.
Her comment was a natural progression in the discussion.
I agree that she, at least in a general sense, was flirting.
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I wouldn't take anything I read on Facebook too seriously my friend.
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BTW She was flirting with you.
I totally agree! O0
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Thats just facebook humor man. People like to do random jokes on there. I had one pik of me with a screaming face, and one of my friends was like "That's you getting ready for a bukkake video" lol. People make fun of a photo or comment when you set yourself up for it. When you wrote your comment she was just trying to come up with a good comeback to what u said, even tho u said nothing bad to her it was her way of joking, puting another spin on what you said. Plus I agree with the guy who made the statement "I wouldn't take anything I read on Facebook too seriously my friend.". That is basically what facebook is for, to make fun of your friends to admiting the stupid sh*t they do on there status updatess and making fun of ridiculous photos they post lol. (Dont read to far into that I am not saying your photo is ridiculous! lol) That was a kick-ass photo man.
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Agree with the comments on this one. It was just a joke that you actually started. Plus, she was probably flirting with you.
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i have to agree you walked into that one. dont take everything to heart
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Hey Ghost dude!
I would seriously take that as a joke, in UK we are pretty big on self depreciating humor, its not an insult, that facebook flirting!
If people do rip into you about your bald head it is for one reason only, jelousy!! People bully and insult people that are different because they do not have the guts to step away from the crowd like you have!!
I can totally relate with the confidence thing, but once you realise that you are who you are and you come to terms with the fact that you are a good looking bald dude (which believe it or not, do excist) you will be a demon with the ladies!! *trust me*
If you do need any help with the confidence thing, feel free to PM me, I have alot of experience in this and would be happy to help you if you need it!!
But as far as the comment goes, forget it
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she wasn't probably flirting with you. she WAS flirting with you. gett itt mannn!!! i have gone through a severe anxiety disorder which had me taking stuff like that way too seriously all the time. the best thing that helped me was neil strauss's books (the game, rules of the game) and letting some friends in on that stuff and goin out and gaming with them! look up this guy freal! hes sly too! my friends got full heads of hair and i pulled more than they did bro. seriously, neil strauss. read his sh*t. a f**kin hero to the sly.
aight will do man.