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Discussions About Being Bald => General Discussion => Topic started by: Ghost1988 on April 17, 2009, 08:44:59 PM

Title: I need your guys honest opinions.
Post by: Ghost1988 on April 17, 2009, 08:44:59 PM
as you can see from my avatar ive recently grown a pretty long beard (about 2 inches). should i trim it like i used to have it or keep it? all my friends are saying it needs trimmed, but i kind of like it for some reason.
Title: Re: I need your guys honest opinions.
Post by: tomgallagher on April 17, 2009, 09:05:02 PM
Here's the rule partner. If you like it keep it.
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Post by: Razor X on April 17, 2009, 09:09:32 PM
I usually come down on the side of trimming, but I like it the way it is.  Suits you much better than the chinstrap beard, BTW.
Title: Re: I need your guys honest opinions.
Post by: BReady on April 17, 2009, 09:19:21 PM
You should grow it longer.  Then braid it, that would frikken rock!

Mine's so dang gray that I usually trim it fairly short.
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Post by: GASlick on April 17, 2009, 09:30:03 PM
I'm not a fan of facial hair, mainly because I can't grow any!  LOL

Looks fine to me the way it is.
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Post by: Ghost1988 on April 17, 2009, 09:35:30 PM
You should grow it longer.  Then braid it, that would frikken rock!

Mine's so dang gray that I usually trim it fairly short.

i was actually thinking of doing that lol. although its not the most conservative look.
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Post by: Razor X on April 17, 2009, 10:15:34 PM
You should grow it longer.  Then braid it, that would frikken rock!

Mine's so dang gray that I usually trim it fairly short.

i was actually thinking of doing that lol. although its not the most conservative look.

I'm not a fan of the braided look but if  you want to do it, go for it.  You don't need a "conservative" look at age 20.   Right now you can get away with pretty much anything.  That won't always be the case, so enjoy yourself while you can.
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Post by: Timmay on April 17, 2009, 10:31:12 PM
Go for it bro.  What you need to learn is ...you need to do what makes you feel good.  Looks fine to me.  I am not a fan of longer beards myself but it looks good on others who do.  Good Luck
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Post by: baldmancometh on April 17, 2009, 11:59:12 PM
Dude It looks great as is. I'd say no on braids but that's just me. You got a Scott Ian thing started right now. lol
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Post by: Stu on April 18, 2009, 12:07:52 AM
I think it kinda suits you the way it is.  It also looks like you have a pretty full beard, so I would be curious how you would look with a trimmed full beard vs. the chin strap.  Like the others have said, you're young, so now's the time to try whatever you feel like.
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Post by: Tyler on April 18, 2009, 01:24:01 AM
Whatever makes you the most confident.
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Post by: Kratos on April 18, 2009, 02:39:36 AM
Keep it, I'm actually praying that mine eventually gets to that length, it's taking way too long. Looks good brother  O0
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Post by: The Scottish Ambassador on April 18, 2009, 02:41:36 AM
Whatever floats your boat! Go for it  O0
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Post by: Jer on April 18, 2009, 03:07:55 AM
You should grow it longer.  Then braid it, that would frikken rock!

Or you can do something like I did about 8 or 9 years ago.  I had my goatee almost 3 inches long and I would change it regularly, gelled into one spike or two, and I was dying it also.  That was only for a summer and unfortunately I don't have any pics, but it WAS unique...
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Post by: Rob on April 18, 2009, 07:39:19 AM
It looks cool.  I like that length, but not sure about it being longer still: you'll have to ask our opinions when it gets longer!

Just always do what YOU want, when it comes to appearance, that's what I say.  It don't matter what others think in the end.  But its lookin good at the moment O0
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Post by: Timmay on April 18, 2009, 08:24:26 AM
you actually want an honest opinion from a guy who cuddles with a pink polka doted blanket???  lol
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Post by: Papa Don on April 18, 2009, 09:53:26 AM
So you're 20.  Don't do what I did at that age.  I always listened to everyone else, therefore I missed out on doing a lot of things.
I'm now over 60 and regret not have all the fun of appearance changes.  Please do as you want and hang everyone's opinion. Believe me, life is short and you can't live your life for other people. Just live it to the limit!!!!
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Post by: BReady on April 18, 2009, 11:30:54 AM
You should grow it longer.  Then braid it, that would frikken rock!

Mine's so dang gray that I usually trim it fairly short.

i was actually thinking of doing that lol. although its not the most conservative look.

Aren't you in school, college or something?  Who cares if it isn't conservative.  If you are out in the workforce, then yeah.. I guess your right.  IF you are, then I would suggest keeping the beard cropped short. 
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Post by: xnewyawka on April 19, 2009, 09:07:43 AM
Ghost, listen to Papa Don, he has it right. Do what you want for you.
You're a young guy, you should be having fun, experimenting and living life.

Good points by BReady as well; if you're not in a conservative type of job, then don't worry about it. If you aren't sure, then ask some people who you work with for an opinion.

Ease up dude, and enjoy yourself!     O0
Title: Re: I need your guys honest opinions.
Post by: SlyHigh on April 20, 2009, 08:01:27 AM
Have fun and grow it out.  Years from now you may be in a job or have a wife that won't let you do it.

I think the longest I got mine was around 2 inches.  I could put a rubber band around it.
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Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on April 20, 2009, 08:40:17 AM
I like longer, but stragglers cleaned up so it doesn't look ragged.  Yours looks fine.  I'm new to this--or at least it's been a very long time--so I'm going for a fuller more developed look, maybe even keep it so the tache can be curled at the end. 

Do what feels good for you, get outside the "comfort zone" and try something new.  There are some good examples at beard.org you might want to look at for ideas.
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Post by: Timmay on April 20, 2009, 08:51:15 AM
I, maybe even keep it so the tache can be curled at the end. 


Can I curl it for you?? LOL
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Post by: Rob on April 20, 2009, 09:06:05 AM
Definitely go for whatever YOU want, ghost. 

Like Papa Don was saying, at 20 I didnt tend to do what I wanted.  I did what other people wanted and thought was best. 

Its only within the last five or six years I've actually been doing what I wanted and looking how I want to look.  I was 'scared' of upsetting people or standing out in a crowd (or rather, THINKING I would stand out in a crowd) so I didnt 'express myself' by being and looking how I wanted to be...But you can't live your life for other people...

That just leads to regrets later on, and changing your appearence gets harder as you get older.  As you can see from the thread 'before and after', I changed my 'image' a lot over the last few years, and I'm really glad I had the ba££$ to do so!  I think its been an improvement, and that's all that matters.  If people love and respect you they will soon accept you how you are, if not, they werent worth knowing in the first place.

Go for it while you still can, and do what YOU want, bro O0
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Post by: DuffRyder17 on April 20, 2009, 09:09:38 AM
go for the braid, like razorx said, you are only young once...
I think the braid would be sweet if  you have the patience to grow it.
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Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on April 20, 2009, 09:22:18 AM
I, maybe even keep it so the tache can be curled at the end. 


Can I curl it for you?? LOL

Timmj, sometimes you really scare me.  Long answer short, NO.
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Post by: Timmay on April 20, 2009, 11:26:33 AM
LOL
Title: Re: I need your guys honest opinions.
Post by: Razor X on April 26, 2009, 06:32:49 PM
I, maybe even keep it so the tache can be curled at the end. 


Can I curl it for you?? LOL

Timmj, sometimes you really scare me.  Long answer short, NO.

Not just no, but HELL, no!   :o
Title: Re: I need your guys honest opinions.
Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on April 26, 2009, 07:05:25 PM
I, maybe even keep it so the tache can be curled at the end. 


Can I curl it for you?? LOL

Timmj, sometimes you really scare me.  Long answer short, NO.

Not just no, but HELL, no!   :o

Just to make sure we all understand, WHAT HE SAID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!