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Discussions About Being Bald => Reactions to being Bald => Topic started by: shinyinflorida on December 24, 2008, 03:16:32 PM

Title: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: shinyinflorida on December 24, 2008, 03:16:32 PM
So, I have this shiny head and it is o.k. and I'm used to it.  In fact, I think I like it.  It is who I am.   However, living in Florida, close to the beach, it is hard to want to go... the hair that was on top on my head has decided to grow on the back.  It bothers me more than it should and hate it. 

Anyone else with this problem?  What do you do? 

Shave, wax, lazer, leave it alone?
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on December 24, 2008, 03:24:32 PM
Shaving is easiest, waxing lasts a couple of weeks and is painful and costs.  Depends on what you want do to handle this issue.  Getting rid of it is a common reaction, no matter how it's done.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Razor X on December 24, 2008, 03:26:48 PM
If it bothers you, do something about it.   I had my back lasered.  It was expensive and not without discomfort.  It's been two years since the last treatment and I'm starting to have some regrowth.   I don't have the money, or frankly, the desire to go through all that again.  I may get it waxed at some point in the future.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: TheSlyBear on December 24, 2008, 03:34:45 PM
Maybe I'm atypical but I fail to see why guys freak out over back hair. I just let it be.

Now my ear-lobe hair, that's gotta go!
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Razor X on December 24, 2008, 03:45:29 PM
Maybe I'm atypical but I fail to see why guys freak out over back hair. I just let it be.


It can be very uncomfortable, depending on the texture of the hair.  My chest was covered with a very dense layer (think Austin Powers) of very wiry hair.  It was constantly itching me.  I didn't have as much on the back, but it still caused some discomfort.  The laser pretty much eliminated the back hair (at least temporarily) and got the chest hair down to a more normal level and it doesn't itch anymore.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: TheSlyBear on December 24, 2008, 04:16:04 PM
Interesting... I know lot's of well-furred guys and that's the first I've heard of it causing discomfort. That is, of course, a completely different matter.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: shinyinflorida on December 24, 2008, 04:41:44 PM
I've done the shaving thing a few times and it's o.k.  It is actually itchy for a couple of days when it grows back.  My wife waxed it one time and it was too painful.  Plus, the area that I waxed became very irritated and pimply. 

Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Brkeatr on December 24, 2008, 05:30:45 PM
My whole body is covered with hair. I don't have a problem with it, but on the other hand I don't walk around on the beach etc either. I think it bothers the younger guys mostly who want to look buff on the beach or wherever. Maybe I'm wrong with thinking that, but most of the guys I hang with who are in their 50's and 60's aren't concerned with back hair etc...
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: wpruitt on December 24, 2008, 09:27:17 PM
I've got a hairy back and chest, but said "To heck with it".  It's how I was made.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: marshd1000 on December 24, 2008, 09:47:34 PM
While I am not the "Austin Powers" type of hairy, I am pretty hairy with a fairly even distribution of hair all over my chest, stomach and back.  The only place on my back that is not hairy is my shoulder blade and the top of my shoulders.  Fortunately, I have no discomfort from my body hair.  I actually like my body hair and think that the contrast of my hairy body and face with the balding, shaved head is a very manly look.  To each their own in terms of embracing their body hair.  But when I had a operation a few years back, the stomach hair did itch when it grew back.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: SBG Math Guy on December 24, 2008, 09:48:40 PM
Hi shinyinflorida, english is my 3rd language so let me ask you if I understand you.  Are you saying you are haing unwanted hair on your back?

If so, why not get it removed PERMANENTLY by electrolysis?  It might be a bit expensive but it's worth every penny.  Contact one of the best practitioners in your area and get a consultation.   It will not hurt too much if your practitioner is good. 
This is permanent hair removal and it takes 9 to 18 months for most people but laser hair removal is NOT permanent as it is commonly believed (that's why Razorx is seeing some regrowth).   
There is a great discussion forum on hair removal (look in particular in the electrolysis section).  The people there offer great advice and you can check in previous posts for stories similar to yours.
Here is the link:  http://www.hairtell.com/forum/ubbthreads.php
Best wishes.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: shinyinflorida on December 24, 2008, 09:57:28 PM
Thanks for the posts.  Still thinking about what I want to do.  By the time I have money to do anything about it, I probably will learn to come to terms with it. 
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Razor X on December 24, 2008, 10:11:42 PM
Hi shinyinflorida, english is my 3rd language so let me ask you if I understand you.  Are you saying you are haing unwanted hair on your back?

If so, why not get it removed PERMANENTLY by electrolysis?  It might be a bit expensive but it's worth every penny.  Contact one of the best practitioners in your area and get a consultation.   It will not hurt too much if your practitioner is good. 
This is permanent hair removal and it takes 9 to 18 months for most people but laser hair removal is NOT permanent as it is commonly believed (that's why Razorx is seeing some regrowth).   


I don't think they'll do electrolysis on such a large area as the back.  Don't the hairs have to be removed one by one with a needle?  It would take forever.  Also sounds painful.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: foodfor4 on December 24, 2008, 10:12:29 PM
You could try nair, but that stuff smells like sh*t and is uncomfortable and itchy so I would not recmend it. Good Luck.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: warhawk on December 25, 2008, 12:57:59 AM
hey shinyinflorida:  welcome 2 the sly fraternity.  glad 2 C another florida chrome dome.  headshaving is probably the easiest, cheapest, & less invasive way 2 keep the dome smoooooth.  give me my fusion (manual) & i'm good 2 go.   O0 O0 O0

WARHAWK O0
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: warhawk on December 25, 2008, 01:01:16 AM
You could try nair, but that stuff smells like sh*t and is uncomfortable and itchy so I would not recmend it. Good Luck.
MEMO:  2 ALL  "NEW" HEADSHAVERS STAY AWAY FROM "NAIR"!!!!  it is NOT intended 4 the dome.  it will irritate & cause rashes.  i've learned that from other headshavers who have tried this product.  again... stay away from "nair" & get a quality razor 2 keep the noggin' slick.

WARHAWK O0
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Razor X on December 25, 2008, 02:20:50 AM

MEMO:  2 ALL  "NEW" HEADSHAVERS STAY AWAY FROM "NAIR"!!!!  it is NOT intended 4 the dome.  it will irritate & cause rashes.  i've learned that from other headshavers who have tried this product.  again... stay away from "nair" & get a quality razor 2 keep the noggin' slick.

WARHAWK O0

Click on the link below and scroll down the page a bit to see what  can happen when you use Nair on your head:

http://household-tips.thefuntimesguide.com/2007/02/tips_for_shaving_head_bald.php
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: SBG Math Guy on December 25, 2008, 01:24:35 PM

I don't think they'll do electrolysis on such a large area as the back.  Don't the hairs have to be removed one by one with a needle?  It would take forever.  Also sounds painful.

Yeah it would take a long time, need to be patient.  But electrolysis does not hurt much (hurts a bit less than tweezing...is that painful?)  if your practitioner is skilled.  That's why it's important to search for people who have lots of experience and know what they are doing.   Laser can get you permanent hair reduction but usually no permanent hair removal.  My practitioner did laser on her son's back and the hair grew back.   She told me she will do electrolysis on his back soon.  She does the back of my neck because below the natural hairline I shouldn't have dark hairs but I do.   It doesn't hurt much because she is skilled.  But man if the practitioner is not skilled may God help you with the sessions.   A different lady was doing my first 3 sessions, and she wasn't that good at it, and I can tell you it hurt a lot. 
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: DJ_Bald on December 26, 2008, 08:33:01 AM
I dont think I have back hair but I do get very thin hairs on my shoulders...I just shave em every few weeks...doesnt really bother me or my wife.  I cant imagine shaving it with a trimmer could cause THAT much irritation...
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: J Digory on December 29, 2008, 02:03:08 AM
Maybe I'm atypical but I fail to see why guys freak out over back hair. I just let it be.

Now my ear-lobe hair, that's gotta go!
Any ear hair at all...I tweeze my inner ear hair and a few strands here and there every few days. I have a few patches of back hair, but I also have leg and chest hair. I am a guy. I have been known to keep the body hair trimmed up, but I don't know why a guy would want to be hairless all over. Shaving my face and head is one thing, but I'm not shaving anything else. Legs? Back? Not for me.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: marty22 on December 29, 2008, 05:49:13 AM
ear hair gets tweezed here once a week; periodically i wax the back.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: baldy46 on December 29, 2008, 06:07:22 AM
I've got a hairy back and chest, but said "To heck with it".  It's how I was made.

I am the Austin Powers type of hairy on my chest and my back is pretty hairy too.  I have trimmed it in the past, but I'm with Pruitt, to heck with it, it's how I was made.  The contrast of the shaved dome with the hairy body is a manly look.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Scott on January 01, 2009, 12:51:58 AM
I got the Austin Powers thing going on on both my chest and back, arms, legs, etc.  only times 5.  I don't really care if others like it or not because to shave, wax, or etc. would be costly and ultimately not worth it in my opinion.  However, to those who chose to do so, more power to you!  I kinda wish I wasn't so hairy but that's life.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: Alexander215 on January 03, 2009, 08:20:44 AM
My woman shaves my back periodically with a hair trimmer
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: hammerdrill376 on January 03, 2009, 09:09:38 AM
Hairy backed SLY guy here too. I do let my wife trim it down several times a year though she tried waxing me once. I won't EVER do that again!!  OUCCCCCCCCCCCCHHH. Only time it truly bothers me is summer since it causes alot of discomfort. I don't mind the hair on my chest but the back hair can be a nuisance.
Title: Re: It looks good on top, but...
Post by: jmcmana on January 30, 2009, 12:07:28 AM
Cheapest and what I find most effective as a summer volleyball player- Get a dark enough tan where it's pretty unnoticeable...