Sly Bald Guys Forum
Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: william on July 25, 2008, 03:58:35 PM
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Its 3years now since I noticed that I was loosing my beautiful blond hair. I was 18years then, just taken my upper-secondary final examination. Had a lot of cool friends, girls, got my driving licence, got into the university of Stockholm in Sweden. I simply loved myself even tho I had broken my anterior Cruciate Ligament half a year earlier which also have caused a lot of trouble for me. Made me stop doing sports on a high level since I never wanted to believe this was a serious injury nor did I wanna ask anyone for help.
Anyways when I realized about my hair loss I got into a total shock position, got totally confused. Didn't know what to do or how I ever was gonna accept myself. I lost everything I named above and a ot of other things. I have been a total zombie over these 3years but my bald dad have been saying some really strong words over the last year, words like if i continue to live like a zombie, he would kick me out of the house or send me to some psycho clinic. And that sort of scared me even more than getting bald. So I started google about bald men and how they look the last 6months and realized that f**k hair. I really cant live like I have done. By time i have gotten more confident about my hair loss and step by step I have starting to accept myself as the person I'm gonna be.
Think it is like 4-5 months since i made my first post here. Must say i have really gotten some reality into my head + the things my dad have threaten me with. I'm simply to smart to care about my f***in hair loss, is what i have started to think. I have to learn to take responsibility over myself and my life.
Like my knee injury is something i need and want to get fixed, and it is also gonna be fixed since I went to a knee clinic some months ago. Have been training up my leg muscles and stability in the knee so I can be operated.
But to the big problem again, I shaved of my thin hair and went on a trip so i had time to get used to bald look, also took some tanning ofc. Anyways i think i can be fuckin hottie again just need to build up my attitude and learn how to speak with ppl again. Cuz that something i cant do, whenever i speak to some girl nowadays i start stutter and forgot what to say, my eyes also starts going right,left,up and down. But that dosn't bother me at all.
Well I don't got pics of the zombie i was then but i have taken some bald looking pics on me.
I know my English grammar sucks but hope you can read and understand it. Just want to share with me of my experiences!
Thanks again for all the good information this site have been giving me!
/William
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That's a cool picture William. No need for you to be a zombie. :o
A young guy like yourself should have no trouble attracting hot babes.
One of the advantages of having a shavedhead is the CDI- factor. :@`
C = Chicks
D = Dig
I = It
Welcome William. O0
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William, welcome to Sly Bald Guys! I was just commenting to my friends Warhawk and Jer on how well you write English for being from Sweden.
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Dude..you're a good looking dude..
bald or with thinning hair you should have NO problem with girls..
I say, if that's YOU in the pic...keep it shaved though...
it's a great look on you!
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That's a cool picture William. No need for you to be a zombie. :o
A young guy like yourself should have no trouble attracting hot babes.
One of the advantages of having a shavedhead is the CDI- factor. :@`
C = Chicks
D = Dig
I = It
Welcome William. O0
No more zombie life, hated being a living dead!
I'm sure I'm gonna get some nice girls and I'm gonna choose them very carefully :)
Thanks Bj
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and I'm in agreement with BA, welcome to the forum :)
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William, welcome to Sly Bald Guys! I was just commenting to my friends Warhawk and Jer on how well you write English for being from Sweden.
Thanks, I wish to improve my English knowledge though since I know I lack writing skills, also in my mother tongue.
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I say, if that's YOU in the pic...keep it shaved though...
it's a great look on you!
What more evidence do you need BA?
William's photo has a time stamp on it.
Cheers William to a happy hair-free life.
Jubelropet Vilhelm till en glad hår - fri liv. O0
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Dude..you're a good looking dude..
bald or with thinning hair you should have NO problem with girls..
I say, if that's YOU in the pic...keep it shaved though...
it's a great look on you!
I know you are right but my mind is basically overloaded with thoughts of life and problems. And with my hair loss I lost all the little confidence I had back then. And my hair loss have f'''ed me up so much together with other problems. Hard for me to explain.
Back then when I had hair the girls came to me. I think I never have taken the first step with a girl actually. Yep, its all in my head, I know that now. Just need the right attitude and style and with that I might stop stutter along with my eye problems when I talk to someone.
And yes its me on the picture. taken last Thursday.
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and I'm in agreement with BA, welcome to the forum :)
Yep, I'm gonna stay like this for sure!
And thanks.
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Cheers William to a happy hair-free life.
Jubelropet Vilhelm till en glad hår - fri liv. O0
Thanks, and yes I hate my blond hair now, don't want it back :D
Someone else from Scandinavia I see! :)
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good pic! keep it shaved.
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compliments about the shave!!
You look GREAT bald!
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Welcome! Stay sly, it looks good on ya!
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What more evidence do you need BA?
William's photo has a time stamp on it.
Because if I was that good lookin' I'd have to fight the girls off...what girls is he going for anyways?
Here in the good ol' US tan, bald, good lookin' surfer boys can still get chicks...
hair or NOT!
That is my point!
So it can be looked at as a "dis" or a compliment...
THAT'S why I questioned the photo.
William take it as a compliment on your very SLY look! O0
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Looking good William. I could definitely see a couple head rubs from the ladies coming your way !
The head on your shoulders...before anyone mentions anything...lol
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What more evidence do you need BA?
William's photo has a time stamp on it.
Because if I was that good lookin' I'd have to fight the girls off...what girls is he going for anyways?
Here in the good ol' US tan, bald, good lookin' surfer boys can still get chicks...
hair or NOT!
That is my point!
So it can be looked at as a "dis" or a compliment...
THAT'S why I questioned the photo.
William take it as a compliment on your very SLY look! O0
I can defiently understand why you question my picture.
Everyone does so, my mum, brother, sister, dad, my only friend I have left. None understands my problems or my personality since I can hide it *under the surface*. Because I don't speak about my problems for anyone and have never wanted to tell anyone about my problems. And I have never spoken with my mum/dad since they divorced as I was a very young kid. And my mum even left the country we lived in back then to a new country. I never even got the chance to say goodbye to my best friends or anything. One day she told me and my brother/sister that we are moving out of country. I was 9years then. I have a 3year old younger brother that never understood what happened but me and my sister took this very hard. Atleast I did, because my sister stayed to live with my dad and thats what i wanted too. But she never let that happen and its here all my problems start.
I have never spoken to anyone of my parents until now. I mean the only words I have said to my mum is, yes/no, hi/goodbye and goodnight. She has always had to ask me about things and I have answered yes/no, nothing more. And my dad, I have never really spoken to him since we have lived in different countries. So I have never really spoken to anyone, until now. No one could think of me like someone with problems because even tho I have never open my tongue, I have gotten very good exams and been doing well in sports and girls have liked me. Always been a very good looking boy but with a lot of hate and thoughts in my mind.
I have always said to myself that I don't wanna be like anyone else. I don't need to speak up since I have grown up by myself and my thoughts. Never ever asked for any homework help or money from my parents or anything. I have always said to myself that I don't need any help from anyone. Because I have been doing very well in life except that I got all the hate and thoughts in my head.
This is why it has taken me 3years of zombie life to realize that I need help with my knee injury and my depressions about hair loss.
Maybe its easier now to understand, why I'm the one I'm. Why I cant argue or speak about stuff since I have stayed quite and only spoken to myself in my head about everything. As I said earlier I also got a little problem with stuttering and it surely most because I speak with my thoughts all the f***in time.
And yes it is a compliment to here from all you guys that I look good this way. Only wish that I can change myself to something normal now. To have the attitude that you got. Learn how to talk/argue without stuttering in my mind because it is really a problem that dosn't need to exist.
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Hey William,
You look great Sly. No need for hair. Welcome to the crowd.
Unfortunately, I don't have any problem speaking my mind! Get's me in trouble. ;D
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Hey William, I'll trade my ugly mug for your looks any day of the week. Your features are striking with the shaved head. If you were in the states, I think you'd be fighting off the women. Just put yourself out there with your shiny dome held high, and you should be just fine. By the way, your English is better than most kids in the U.S. All they seem to be able to do is text-speak... who needs complete sentences with correct spelling?
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Hey William, I'll trade my ugly mug for your looks any day of the week. Your features are striking with the shaved head. If you were in the states, I think you'd be fighting off the women. Just put yourself out there with your shiny dome held high, and you should be just fine. By the way, your English is better than most kids in the U.S. All they seem to be able to do is text-speak... who needs complete sentences with correct spelling?
Yea, sounds strange I got problems with girls but the problems is not the girls I could get. It's my confidence, my personality, its just terrible. Even If I attracted nice ladies I simply don't know how speak or be with them because I get so nervous or when I try to tell about something I get the most insecure person you can think of. Thing is that I look good in front of the mirror or camera but when I cant see myself there anymore, I forget how I look. I got some really strange confidence problems.
This is not a fight over my hair loss anymore, more of the person I'm changing to. That much I have realized now. Need to grow up and take responsibility of myself and life.
Yes, I agree that I can spell correct but some writing improvements wouldn't hurt.
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Hey William,
You look great Sly. No need for hair. Welcome to the crowd.
Unfortunately, I don't have any problem speaking my mind! Get's me in trouble. ;D
Thank you, and I don't think I need more hair, just better A LOT better self confidence and attitude. Like most men that suffer from hair loss or got problems with anything in life.
Hehe, good for you that you don't have the same problems I have :P
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Wil. If I looked like you I would have a harem.
Dude I'm not gay, but have you looked in the mirror.
You look like a GQ model.
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Because if I was that good lookin' I'd have to fight the girls off...what girls is he going for anyways?
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I would like anyone that likes me. I guess someone with the right attitude and self confidence could attract any woman with my looks but that is something I don't have.
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Wil. If I looked like you I would have a harem.
Dude I'm not gay, but have you looked in the mirror.
You look like a GQ model.
Thanks again, I have started to realize that it's all in my head. And its gonna take some time for me to build up my attitude / self confidence so I can start acting in a normal way when I speak.
What does GQ stand for ?
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What does GQ stand for ?
GQ is a men's magazine. It is the male equivalent to Vogue.
It's all about men's fashions and stuff like that.
It stands for Gentelmen's Quarterly.
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What does GQ stand for ?
GQ is a men's magazine. It is the male equivalent to Vogue.
It's all about men's fashions and stuff like that.
It stands for Gentelmen's Quarterly.
GQ is full of chiseled guys that I have no hope of ever looking like! ;D
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Posted by Gasslick
GQ is full of chiseled guys that I have no hope of ever looking like!
You and me both Bro. But Wil does. Damn to be young again.
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GQ is full of chiseled guys that I have no hope of ever looking like! ;D
TOO funny, and unfortunately... TRUE.
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Keep at it, William. It's good to talk to others about what's going on in that bald head of yours, and this is some good practice. I wish I could help you out with your confidence level, but I can't. Seriously though, you worry too much to have a bad personality. All the people I have known with horrible personality never bothered to worry about theirs. O0
So you look good...and you have a nice personality...it sounds like all you have left is the self confidence. For that, I personally recommend you cut out any negative talk when you are talking to yourself. That includes thoughts! Speak positively! Also, I don't know how you dress, but take a little time and dress yourself well. Dress how you would like to FEEL on the inside.
I used to have bad self esteem. I used to be very thin, but with some joint trouble running got very hard, and then one thing led to another, and now I am a bigger guy. I always thought it was my size women didn't like, but it was my own attitude toward myself. Nervousness and shyness around women is nothing, bro! Some women even find it cute when you get clammy around them! But no one finds it cute or attractive when you don't love and respect yourself.
So just keep at it, man. And keep sharing your thoughts with us. We're a fraternity here, and you're a member now.