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Discussions About Being Bald => General Discussion => Topic started by: kojakJR on January 19, 2008, 05:54:38 AM

Title: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: kojakJR on January 19, 2008, 05:54:38 AM
Hey bros,

First off I would like to apologize for not contributing these past few months. I have just been going through some family and work issues and thankfully they have been resolved. Last week I actually came back and started to read all of the new intros that people have been posting up and I noticed most of the new guys that have joined are fairly young like me(23). Many of us are probably or have already felt the pain of losing hair at such a young age but believe for me, it has been a blessing in disguise at least for me. Some people reading this will say WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!?!?! HOW CAN YOU EVEN THINK OF MPB AS A BLESSING!?!?!?! Well let me tell you why it has been a blessing for me. When I had hair I never worked out, I ate really fatty food and my overall health was not that good. I was very very shy and I could barely get through a presentation in front my peers. All in all I was weak. When MPB hit at the age of 21 I realized I could either try to hide it and live my life out like a little girl or I could do something about it. I chose to DO something about it and first thing was to shave off the rest of my hair. Once I shaved it off I felt as if I took a huge weight off my head  :*)), it's a hard feeling to explain but after doing the deed I was able to change my life for the better. Now I am successful not only professionally but socially. Even in my community kids see me as a role model and my peers respect me. I could go on with all of the good things that have happened to me and OH YEAH! I forgot to mention the opposite sex :). Met this beautiful girl at work and well she chose me instead of the SKINNY GUY WITH HAIR! I will give more details later and hopefully with her permission I can post up a picture of her and you all be the judge  O0. So to all the young bros out there, don't let MPB OR ANYTHING ELSE take over your life. We got one life so LIVE it.
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: PBurke on January 19, 2008, 06:21:16 AM
bravo  kodakjr.
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: schro on January 19, 2008, 06:50:40 AM
Great post, Kojak! It is empowering to go sly. It IS about a positive attitude.
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: SLYinKC on January 19, 2008, 07:18:42 AM
Great post, Kojak! It is empowering to go sly. It IS about a positive attitude.



Yeah, .... What Schro said....
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: Razor X on January 19, 2008, 07:25:01 AM

When I had hair I never worked out, I ate really fatty food and my overall health was not that good.


Same here.  I think shaving your head is like redecorating one room in your house.  There's a spill-over affect and you realize that the rest of the rooms need refurbishing as well.
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Post by: andrew on January 19, 2008, 07:45:20 AM
Words of wisdom, Kojak.

-- Stavros
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: BaldRob on January 19, 2008, 08:48:35 AM

When I had hair I never worked out, I ate really fatty food and my overall health was not that good.


Same here.  I think shaving your head is like redecorating one room in your house.  There's a spill-over affect and you realize that the rest of the rooms need refurbishing as well.

I'm in that boat right now... painted one room and now realize the rest need painting too!

KojakJR, great affirmation of what that seemingly large step of shaving your head can do for confidence in most, if not all areas of life!!
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: Zeekev on January 19, 2008, 09:31:33 AM
Right on the money!i was very shy before I went sly ,always thought MPB to be a curse but has turned out ot be a blessing for me as well, both at work and in my personal life.

Great to hear of your personal and professional success. O0

KC
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Post by: Timmay on January 19, 2008, 09:32:32 AM
That right there my friend....deserves a Standing Ovation!  Rock on Bro!
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Post by: joergHH on January 19, 2008, 09:52:40 AM
Great post, Congratulation!!!!!!!!!

J
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Post by: Kyfho on January 19, 2008, 12:16:53 PM
This is the kind of story and attitude that encouraged me to go clean and join this group myself.
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: kojakJR on January 19, 2008, 03:14:42 PM
This is the kind of story and attitude that encouraged me to go clean and join this group myself.

Proud to say if I had a choice of being the old/hairy me or the new/sly me I would hands down choose being SLY! Ky SHINE ON BROTHA!
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: BALDANDRE on January 19, 2008, 04:49:12 PM
Awesome post ...

I'm glad you made that realization so early in the game...

a bald head is truly a powerful thing..

too bad some will never know it!

Congrats my young bald bro! O0
Title: Re: Baldness a Blessing in Disguise?
Post by: warhawk on January 19, 2008, 09:36:40 PM
kojak,jr.....well said and a very strong and powerful message 2 anyone who is sitting on the fence. O0

WARHAWK O0
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Post by: Phil Man on January 19, 2008, 10:29:52 PM
Very well said. I'm around your age and I wholeheartedly agree. I am starting to really take care of myself now that I do not have to worry about hair and all the hassles that came with trying to make it look good and whatnot.

Hopefully more of the younger brothers read this and jump to our side of the fence!  O0
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Post by: Tyler on January 21, 2008, 08:31:41 PM
Wow!  Awesome post Kojak!
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Post by: Mikekoz13 on January 22, 2008, 05:17:01 AM
that's an incredible post Kojak! You're way ahead of where some of us were at your age.

                   Mike 8)