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Various Non-Bald Discussions => General Discussion => Topic started by: frostillicus123 on August 20, 2007, 07:32:26 AM
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Working at the bar I get to see a lot of people (I live in a small town and know a lot of the regulars) hooking up randomly with different people.
And something that always disgusts me and always has is, some dude picks up some chick on the dance floor and they start making out. I think it is so disgusting to kiss someone you barely know..... Mind you i do not see an issue taking her home and having a night of fun as long as there is no kissing.
in 2005 my birthday fell in a Sunday, and I was working that Saturday night and a kid came in witha november 13 birthday.... so I wished the kid a Happy Birthday, and told him it was mine too. Any way the girl behind him wished me a happy birthday and gave me a hug, which is cool she's hot, than she kissed me on the cheek and that's cool i can live with that, than she re adusted and tried to kiss my mouth and i gave her my cheek again.... than she did something so i could not pull away and she got me on the mouth, i damn near vomitted on the spot.
However had she told me she had a birthday surpire for me at her house i would have been there.....
Basically I think kissing is personal and don't want to do it with just anyone, where as having sex is just getting my rocks off and i'm done.
Anyone else feel this way?
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I don't know man, I think sex is just about, if not more personal, than kissing. Unless you don't go down on them, or put your mouth anywhere on them, and just get off real quick and thats it...but thats not too easy to get to without even a kiss.
I kinda know what you mean tho, I guess its just the exchange of saliva that disgusts you, I could kinda understand that. But making out with a CLEAN, hot chick is a great feeling to me, even if I did just meet her that night
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Any woman that I don't want to kiss is a woman I don't want to touch in any other intimate way.
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Frost I cant see where you are coming from.
So you are not willing to share saliva and kiss a stranger and risk a possible airborne mouth infection yet you are comfortable taking that same stranger home and having sex with her which poses a myriad of more risks than the simple act of kissing.
Kind of an odd way of thinking but okay,its your life.
I've heard stranger ideas.
Like the time a 23 year old cop with no children trying to tell me about how newborn babies are "Narcissitic"
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Basically I think kissing is personal and don't want to do it with just anyone, where as having sex is just getting my rocks off and i'm done.
Anyone else feel this way?
No, not really :-\ ... but everyone has their own way of doing things.
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No, not really :-\ ... but everyone has their own way of doing things.
Speaking of which --- what the heck is that avatar photo??
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Any woman that I don't want to kiss is a woman I don't want to touch in any other intimate way.
razorx.... i'm with ya on that.
chico,jdog & x .... i agree.... having sex is wayyyy more intimate than kissing on the mouth BUT hey.... what do i know i've been married to the wifey for 8 years. i try NOT 2 put myself in situations like that. TEMPTATIONS..... r something i try 2 avoid as a married man. when i get 2 a situation like frost, i always remember that movie FATAL ATTRACTION. damn.... that movie freaked me out.
WARHAWK O0
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No, not really :-\ ... but everyone has their own way of doing things.
Speaking of which --- what the heck is that avatar photo??
I was bad over the weekend and had to be restrained gu!l+)
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chico,jdog & x .... i agree.... having sex is wayyyy more intimate than kissing on the mouth BUT hey.... what do i know i've been married to the wifey for 8 years. i try NOT 2 put myself in situations like that. TEMPTATIONS..... r something i try 2 avoid as a married man. when i get 2 a situation like frost, i always remember that movie FATAL ATTRACTION. damn.... that movie freaked me out.
WARHAWK O0
Married here as well. Even when I was single though, I always took these matters fairly seriously. Agree with Fatal Attraction. Also try Takashi Miike's Audition ... that one's even worse!
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...i do not see an issue taking her home and having a night of fun as long as there is no kissing.
huh? ???
Can't say I've every looked at things that way....been married for 14 years now...so don't think about it much.
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Frosty, I think you might find yourself in the minority on this one, but hey, who knows? If you use the middle school language, kissing is getting to first base, and having sex is hitting a home run. It's really hard to cross home plate without touching first on the way.
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No, not really :-\ ... but everyone has their own way of doing things.
Speaking of which --- what the heck is that avatar photo??
I was bad over the weekend and had to be restrained gu!l+)
Reminds me of the story "The Man With The Iron Mask."
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Frosty, I think you might find yourself in the minority on this one, but hey, who knows? If you use the middle school language, kissing is getting to first base, and having sex is hitting a home run. It's really hard to cross home plate without touching first on the way.
Yes, I'd like to know how one would go about implementing a "no kissing" rule during sex without highly offending the other party.
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Any woman that I don't want to kiss is a woman I don't want to touch in any other intimate way.
Yeah, I agree w/RazorX on this one.
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As a side note, kissing can mess you up too...caught mono once from makin out with a stripper....so frosty, damnit, you might be onto something
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Yes, I'd like to know how one would go about implementing a "no kissing" rule during sex without highly offending the other party.
Excellent point...
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Yes, I'd like to know how one would go about implementing a "no kissing" rule during sex without highly offending the other party.
Excellent point...
According to the movie Pretty Woman, just hire a prostitute.
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As a side note, kissing can mess you up too...caught mono once from makin out with a stripper....so frosty, damnit, you might be onto something
LOL good one Chico.
You should've known better bro, God only knows where the mouths of strippers have been. :*))
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I find kissing is personal about love... where as sex it's about getting my rocks off, it's about me..... way less personal
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I agree with Razor and Chico on this one, kinda tough to do one without the other. Unless maybe the person looked like Rosie, in which case you wouldn't even be in that position, lol.
Jdog good point about the strippers too.
And if you're with a woman who wants to badump -badump with no kissing, you may have to pay by the hour now, or with something worse later.
Like Warhawk, I'm a married guy, so what do I know, lol.
Joe
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Here are a few things to think about IF, you desire to kiss someone you just met.
Transmission of Hep B and C as well as anything else she may be carrying... like maybe AIDS?
I can tell you as an Ex LEO where I got bit once, I had to under go a series of Anti Aids shots that were $1,200.00 each at 2 per session for 6 months as well as blood work up each and every visit, to check for Hep A, B and C.
If I met a woman who wanted to make out, sorry I want to get to know them first.... I don't want a transmission from what ever they have put in their mouth or injested prior to meeting me.
Think about it, do you want to kiss someone who may have just given someone a BJ prior to meeting you?
I don't think so
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J-B, I don't think there is an anti AIDS shot, so you might want to check on what you got, probably vaccinated against Hep A & B.
I think there all different levels of sexual activity from kissing, masturbating by ones self, oral/anal to intercourse. I tend to follow safe sex guidelines on whatever level of sex I am inclined to be doing at the moment and how well I know the person I am doing it with. Kissing is probably low risk and everything you can get from it is treatable. AIDS is passed mainly from unprotected anal/vaginal sex. If they don't ask you to use a condom when doing it, my philosophy is I won't do it as they probably have it. Have fun!
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I find kissing is personal about love... where as sex it's about getting my rocks off, it's about me..... way less personal
I agree .... There is sex and there is love ... and the two are very different
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Alright, I know everyone has been waiting for my take on this topic.
My rule of thumb is....... As long as the chick didn't just step out of the back seat of a 68 Camaro wiping her mouth off with the sleeve of her shirt !B@ she is good to go. Buy her a shot of tequila, have her suck a lemon, then let the party begin!! P@^
I figure the alcohol will kill most everything, live for today...tomorrow may never come!!
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champ, I like your outlook on life, lol. ;)
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J-B, I don't think there is an anti AIDS shot, so you might want to check on what you got, probably vaccinated against Hep A & B.
I think there all different levels of sexual activity from kissing, masturbating by ones self, oral/anal to intercourse. I tend to follow safe sex guidelines on whatever level of sex I am inclined to be doing at the moment and how well I know the person I am doing it with. Kissing is probably low risk and everything you can get from it is treatable. AIDS is passed mainly from unprotected anal/vaginal sex. If they don't ask you to use a condom when doing it, my philosophy is I won't do it as they probably have it. Have fun!
If I remember correctly it was an anti HIV but will find the name of the stuff and post here later, but was told that the next time I was bit, scratched by another I would have to under go a more painful series of shots that flat out make you very sick. I'm thankful that I no longer work in that inviroment or with criminals. I've actually gotten to a point in my life from everything I have done.... to have a very layed back or as some would say.... "Man don't you care any more?"
Yes I do... I care that I am not in the middle of it, and I don't care to get involved unless someones life is in danger.
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here is a cocktail outthere for high risk jobs, nurses doctors, police offices and correction offices can have injected if they come in contact with blood infected or not. I got to learn about it in an infectious dieases course i took for corection services, a college course i graduated from a few year ago.
As for not kissing durning sex, i've only had on girl offended by it. and i've done it a few times.
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That is correct regarding an accidental exposure, however there is no immunization, that I am aware of, that is given to prevent HIV infection, like an immunization for measles, mumps etc.
Funny that a person won't kiss during sex, but will gladly deposit a load of sperm!
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There are mainly 4 ways to transmit HIV.
1.Blood
2.Semen
3.Vaginal fluids
4.Mother's breast milk.
Everything else is low risk.You cannot get Aids from kissing unless both partners have bleeding gums.
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That is correct regarding an accidental exposure, however there is no immunization, that I am aware of, that is given to prevent HIV infection, like an immunization for measles, mumps etc.
Funny that a person won't kiss during sex, but will gladly deposit a load of sperm!
Won't deposot sperm either...... i keep that sh*t wrapped.... gonna be a special lady that gets me sans condum\rubber\safe whatever the hell you want to call it...... and when i'm done i purelle that little guy.... i ain't catching herp or some this lke that either
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There are mainly 4 ways to transmit HIV.
1.Blood
2.Semen
3.Vaginal fluids
4.Mother's breast milk.
Everything else is low risk.You cannot get Aids from kissing unless both partners have bleeding gums.
not so much worried about aids with kissing. I know that the 3 hep's can be transmitted, as well so can herpies, i don't wnat/need any of that.
and the not kissing thing is about respect.... chances are if i met her tonight, and am getting it on with her, she doesn't have much self respect so why should i show her any ( on the same note i obviously ain't being all to self respectful either)
For me kissing = passion.
i'm not sharing any passion by my defination with someone i just met and do not respect.
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Anyone who doesn't want to use a condom these days, either has something or is a real fool.