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New Member Section => Introductions => Topic started by: Glottonymy on January 06, 2015, 12:04:16 PM

Title: First post
Post by: Glottonymy on January 06, 2015, 12:04:16 PM
I never had a full head of hair. But partly as a result of psoriasis and partly due to my genes, I started losing my hair in my late teens. Nothing could have been worse, the Elton-John-fate – bald and glasses – was looming (I still wore contacts most of the time then), my worst nightmare. For years, I simply avoided facing the facts simply by not using a mirror. It is amazing how you can do this. By my mid-twenties I was practically completely bald on the top of my head.

Life became a bit easier when I bought my first shaving machine. I never shaved my head completely, but I kept it very – 3mm – short (and I still do).

At some stage in my life, I don’t know why, a girlfriend loving me despite my baldness and Andre Agassi, the first guy I found attractive because rather than despite his baldness and despite the fact that he was naturally bald, I came to terms with my hairlessness, trying to feel attractive (rather than actually being it) as far as possible. If I could choose, I would choose hair over baldness, but then it probably would not be me. So the Elton-John-fate is not so bad after all. The lesson is not to be afraid to face who you are, and starting to like yourself, no matter what.
Title: Re: First post
Post by: tobler1 on January 06, 2015, 05:54:49 PM
Nicely put.  Glad you've joined us.
Title: Re: First post
Post by: Cave Dweller on January 06, 2015, 08:17:21 PM
The lesson is not to be afraid to face who you are, and starting to like yourself, no matter what.

Very well stated, sir. Welcome to the board.
Title: Re: First post
Post by: Adamski1972 on January 07, 2015, 03:00:37 AM
Great attitude! Welcome to the group!
Title: Re: First post
Post by: Sir Harry on January 07, 2015, 05:58:48 AM
Welcome to the board! Nice story and intro.
Title: Re: First post
Post by: Bizarro on January 07, 2015, 07:14:06 AM
Welcome Glottonymy!

Nice story. Is really important to love yourself!
Title: Re: First post
Post by: TheSlyBear on January 07, 2015, 09:09:22 AM
That's a great and important lesson for you to teach others: if you like yourself, so will others.