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Discussions About Being Bald => General Discussion => Topic started by: zcaz on December 23, 2014, 10:39:48 PM

Title: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: zcaz on December 23, 2014, 10:39:48 PM

this smoking hot, amazing girl that had a crush on me in highschool has been trying to hang out with me but i know she won't like my new bald look... I miss my hair.. not gonna lie

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: TheSlyBear on December 23, 2014, 10:54:41 PM

You consulted your crystal ball?

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: agentfortyseven on December 23, 2014, 11:02:06 PM

Give it a go, you certainly will not have a chance if you do not get in touch with her. And who knows she may very well like the shaved look. Anyway good luck mate

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: mike609 on December 24, 2014, 07:03:42 AM

Go for it man!  All she can do is say "um, no..."  I bet you have heard that before. she might say Yes.

After high school and college hair matters very little to most ladies.

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: socknoggle on December 24, 2014, 09:58:03 AM

Hey zcaz!  You can only be who you are.  If she really digs you as a person, your hair isn't going to matter that much.  Either way, you won't know until you get together with her.  You never know, she might like it!

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: reddog on December 24, 2014, 10:23:35 AM

When I was first talking about shaving my full head of hair, my s/o was totally against it. Finally got her to agree to a one time buzzcut, she didn't know I was going to shave it. So I shaved my head and she was shocked, but an hour later she said I should keep shaving for a while. She actually said she loved by bald head. So, some like bald guys, some don't. Some don't think the do, until they see it.

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: slybeard on December 24, 2014, 02:03:21 PM

Its only your "hairstyle" and I bet she has changed her hairstyle as well.  Don't put yourself in a box because you do not have hair on your head.

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: Cave Dweller on December 25, 2014, 03:35:38 PM

I am in agreement with the others before me. Don't set yourself up for failure like that.

Since she knew you in high school, her desire to hang out with you now probably is based more on who you are than what your hair looks like. If that crush really was based solely on your physical appearance, I never would put much hope for there to be any real success in something between you two (then or now) even if you had a full head of hair.

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: DOC_OSMC on December 26, 2014, 02:21:02 PM

You won't know unless you try.  You wanna have that "What If..."  hangin over your shoulder?  Just go for it man!

Title: Re: hot girl that i used to date..
Post by: Dome of Steele on December 26, 2014, 03:06:55 PM

A sly head is a wild card.  Some girls don't like, many do. 

Let your freak flag fly and walk proud, you will find a nice one!  You can't be focused on any one girl until you decide to stick with one.