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Title: And another rite of passage
Post by: Cave Dweller on November 02, 2013, 09:37:56 AM
My adolescent son was invited to the symphony last night.

He came downstairs in his blue dress shirt and black slacks. Nice. I noticed he had shaved his light mustache and had used a little cologne as well. Very nice. He needed to borrow my dress shoes. They fit.

I went into my closet and found a tie to go with the shirt.

Then we stood in front of the mirror and learned how to tie a double Windsor. He had it mastered on the third try - including getting the lengths right. I didn't learn to tie one until I was in high school.

My wife teared up.
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: schro on November 02, 2013, 09:40:23 AM
Awesome post!
I think I'd have a hard time not getting a little choked up in that situation as well.
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: Mike E. P. on November 02, 2013, 10:31:29 AM
Bittersweet, for sure.
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: Timmer on November 02, 2013, 11:35:50 AM
Nice. 

I CAN tie a double Windsor, but by the time I'm done, the evening is over.
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: mrzed on November 02, 2013, 12:17:26 PM
OK, next time, a bow tie (tied by hand).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJv4Qh7zR3E

(this is the best video for learning).
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: CraftyGuy on November 02, 2013, 12:33:01 PM
I'll stick to a four-in-hand, much easier
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: Mikekoz13 on November 02, 2013, 12:39:08 PM
My son has been dressing up for dances since he started high school (he's now a Junior). He has great taste and cleans up real nice. He's WAY better looking than me...... but then again, most people are.  :)
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: stasiu on November 02, 2013, 02:41:04 PM
My adolescent son was invited to the symphony last night.

He came downstairs in his blue dress shirt and black slacks. Nice. I noticed he had shaved his light mustache and had used a little cologne as well. Very nice. He needed to borrow my dress shoes. They fit.

I went into my closet and found a tie to go with the shirt.

Then we stood in front of the mirror and learned how to tie a double Windsor. He had it mastered on the third try - including getting the lengths right. I didn't learn to tie one until I was in high school.

My wife teared up.

If I had a son or sons ... I would of teared up in pride with this occasion !  My dad was emotional with pride teaching me good grooming and proper clothes for special events.  As an adolescent, I thought life was just messy hair (or buzzed) wrangler cowboy jeans and tees and boots and buddies to get into trouble ....
Title: Re: And another rite of passage
Post by: slymyke on November 02, 2013, 03:01:31 PM
My adolescent son was invited to the symphony last night.

He came downstairs in his blue dress shirt and black slacks. Nice. I noticed he had shaved his light mustache and had used a little cologne as well. Very nice. He needed to borrow my dress shoes. They fit.

I went into my closet and found a tie to go with the shirt.

Then we stood in front of the mirror and learned how to tie a double Windsor. He had it mastered on the third try - including getting the lengths right. I didn't learn to tie one until I was in high school.

My wife teared up.

My son went to a dance a few weeks ago.  Your story is pretty similar to how ours went.  My wife said it is harder to see him grow up than it was for our older daughter.   ** none of it is easy, though.