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Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: Libris on February 09, 2013, 04:56:46 AM

Title: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Libris on February 09, 2013, 04:56:46 AM
Hello everyone,

much like the title says, this is another one of the long list of "help me decide" threads....

A little background info: I am 190cm (~6ft3" I think) and 23 years of age. I had long hair in a ponytail for a very long time (6+ years). However I am growing tired of it. I do not think I am losing hair, so this is a choice, not a necessity. I did my best in photoshop to see how I would look, and this was the result:

(https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg26.imageshack.us%2Fimg26%2F47%2Fbaldvshair.jpg&hash=0b1d467c89ca7147f050989f28c0b4a68391a6c5)
The image seems to be resized automatically, so here's a link to full size:
http://img26.imageshack.us/img26/47/baldvshair.jpg

That's me in the centre at my local airsoft match.

The more I look at it, the more I like it, however, it does make me look very young I feel. That is my main concern, because ideally I need to look if anything older than what I really am for my chosen career.

I welcome any input, and thanks for helping me decide.

:)
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: mrzed on February 09, 2013, 05:31:04 AM
Nice photoshop, sir.  The bald head suits you well. I, too, and bald my choice, and I really like the look. 

And the bald head with camo gear looks very well.  If you're looking for a head count, I'll vote for bald. Hope you do it, even to just try it out. Give it a minimum 30 days. See 30 day rule.  I really enjoy the extra smooth dome after the morning shave.  Very satisfying.



Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: marty22 on February 09, 2013, 05:31:49 AM
Go for it and welcome!
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: isleepinthebuff on February 09, 2013, 07:02:57 AM
Why not try a short haircut rather than the long hair?

at the end of the day for you shaving your head would just be another haircut as you have hair, so you can grow it back so there is no real issue.
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Libris on February 09, 2013, 07:42:13 AM
I'm a bit of an extremist in some sense - either all hair or no hair!

Like I said, that "young" look is more or less the only thing keeping me back. That and the winter chill, lol! I can use my tail like a scarf! (No, not really)
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: baldjoeg on February 09, 2013, 10:19:28 AM
I like the sly bald look in the picture. Go for it! If you don't like the look, you can always grow it back.
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Hingatao on February 09, 2013, 11:15:56 AM
Here's another vote for GO FOR IT!

And welcome to the club.
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Andrei on February 09, 2013, 11:40:19 AM
I'm still surprised you're asking what to do after you seen the photoshoped after. :)
Since words are required then i say shave all that hair.
So, are you going to shave?
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: bella on February 09, 2013, 01:37:08 PM
First, great photoshop skills!

If you are an "extremist" as you say, go for it.  I'm much the same way-- go big or go home.  And once the "go big" seed is in your head the "go home" option seems really unsatisfying  ;D

I've cut off really long hair a number of times in my life and never regretted it, even if I did end up growing it back relatively quickly in some cases.   In others, the hair stayed off for years.  And I'm only 30!

I had shoulderblade length hair before deciding to shave it off (and I'm a girl!  Imagine!).  It's been about 3 weeks and I have days of doubts, second guesses, declarations to grow it back immediately -- But more often than that is greater confidence and genuine fun with a new look.

So that's my experience/wisdom after *almost* a month around here.  Welcome either way!

And you could probably get more than a few fence sitters to pay you beaucoup bucks to do the photoshop jobs for them  :*))

I will concede the cold issue but hey hats are not expensive and have served me well. 
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: guido57 on February 09, 2013, 03:54:27 PM
I'm a bit of an extremist in some sense - either all hair or no hair!

Like I said, that "young" look is more or less the only thing keeping me back. That and the winter chill, lol! I can use my tail like a scarf! (No, not really)

Me too, Libris, I say go sly or go home. Most of my adult life I've sported long hair and long beard.......gone, no regrets!
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Crusher0209 on February 09, 2013, 05:45:51 PM
usually I wouldn't tell anyone this but I say go for it all the way and do it tonight or tomorrow the sly look works for you a lot better I think. I say though that the sly look will make you look more mature and that could help you a lot  O0
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Libris on February 09, 2013, 07:08:35 PM
Hey all, thanks for all your replies!

I've done a few more half-arsed photoshops real quick and I think I am decided now. I will do it - not right now, but after payday I will buy myself some clippers and maybe buzz it down to #3 or #2 - I would like to let my scalp see some sun before I go all the way, otherwise I will have a great big patch of paper white skin on the top of my head! Because of my hair my scalp hasn't seen any light for years.

Oh and if you are interested - there you go, just beware, the shopping is quick and awful:
http://imageshack.us/a/img805/2799/bald4.jpg
http://imageshack.us/a/img841/5261/bald3.jpg
http://imageshack.us/a/img571/8161/bald2.jpg

I guess I will keep my tail as a memento lol :)
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: kalbo on February 09, 2013, 07:42:17 PM
Hi Libris, add one more vote to you should get rid of the hair. Welcome aboard. Great photo shopping skill, you might want to add head shaving to your skills in the days to come.
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Sir Harry on February 09, 2013, 07:48:55 PM
Welcome, nice photoshop, you would look good bald if you decided to shave.
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Switchy on February 09, 2013, 08:04:31 PM
Nice Kevlor Gloves !
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Disbikerdude on February 09, 2013, 08:52:26 PM
If you haven't already done so, I say just do it!  Understand that once you do it, you may not want to grow your hair back.  It IS that great!
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Lynchy on February 09, 2013, 11:13:24 PM
Welcome mate,

Nice photoshop skillz!

Bald definitely looks like it would suit you.

Let us know how you get on.
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Libris on February 10, 2013, 05:58:48 AM
Hi all, thanks for the encouragement, much appreciated!
Did any of you have a problem with white scalp?


Nice Kevlor Gloves !

They were ultra thin leather gloves from www.toughgloves.com . The most amazing thing after sliced bread. They did not last long and are pretty expensive, but I could literally pick up needles from the ground with them and use my phone's touchscreen with gloves still on! I must get them again,
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Switchy on February 10, 2013, 10:07:30 AM
Hi all, thanks for the encouragement, much appreciated!
Did any of you have a problem with white scalp?


Nice Kevlor Gloves !

They were ultra thin leather gloves from www.toughgloves.com . The most amazing thing after sliced bread. They did not last long and are pretty expensive, but I could literally pick up needles from the ground with them and use my phone's touchscreen with gloves still on! I must get them again,
Really, I have a pair of Kevlor Gloves just like them and they are sweet !  Have had them for a good 4 years now , but these that done very well for me. 

It will turn to a normal color sooner than you think !  Just get out in the weather , if you want some shine to your head also use sunscreen that way you are doublely protected  ;) O0 8)
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: balddaniel on February 12, 2013, 07:11:36 AM
I think you look friggin hot!  Not only do you look more mature you look more confident.  I think you should take the plunge.  I am sure you will be very happy with the results.  Good Luck!

BaldDaniel
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Libris on March 02, 2013, 04:35:21 PM
Well, I did it - sorta.

I bought a pair of clippers and buzzed it to No. 5 at the sides and No. 3 at the top. This way I will give my scalp a bit of sun before going all the way, and it will not be as drastic of a change!
I have counted 38 "Oh my gosh you've cut your hair!" so far...
Title: Re: Yet another - Should I or not?
Post by: Frontier Guy on March 02, 2013, 05:15:06 PM

I have counted 38 "Oh my gosh you've cut your hair!" so far...

Once you get 100, be sure to stop at the SBG Prize Window to redeem them. /jk, of course.