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Discussions About Being Bald => Bald Stories => Topic started by: BaldMike on November 11, 2012, 05:26:50 PM

Title: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: BaldMike on November 11, 2012, 05:26:50 PM
I saw a picture of myself for the first time since I started shaving.  We go to a small church, so we know everyone pretty well, but today at church, I saw this picture hanging on a bulletin board.  I had to look at it for a couple seconds to identify the people.   It was my father-in-law, out guest Pastor for that week, and then the mystery person...myself.  In my defense, it was taken from the side with my head turned. 

Mike
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Frontier Guy on November 11, 2012, 07:29:37 PM
I saw a picture of myself for the first time since I started shaving.  We go to a small church, so we know everyone pretty well, but today at church, I saw this picture hanging on a bulletin board.  I had to look at it for a couple seconds to identify the people.   It was my father-in-law, out guest Pastor for that week, and then the mystery person...myself.  In my defense, it was taken from the side with my head turned. 

Mike

OK, so I'll be "the guy" and ask "the question" ...

Mike, what did you think of the new person's appearance?
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: BaldMike on November 11, 2012, 07:39:44 PM
When I started shaving, I asked about the "gray" shade even right after shaving, and was told it was something only I would notice and not to worry about it.  In the picture, I didn't see the "gray" shade.  After getting over not knowing who was in the picture, I like my new look.  I'm no Vin Disel or Bruce Willis, but I'll keep it.  I guess a picture captures what you look like better than a mirror.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Frontier Guy on November 11, 2012, 08:28:44 PM
When I started shaving, I asked about the "gray" shade even right after shaving, and was told it was something only I would notice and not to worry about it.  In the picture, I didn't see the "gray" shade.  After getting over not knowing who was in the picture, I like my new look.  I'm no Vin Diesel or Bruce Willis, but I'll keep it.  I guess a picture captures what you look like better than a mirror.

And the amazing thing is that in a month or two (or thereabouts), when you see yourself in the mirror you'll think you've always looked this way ... that's when you truly "own" it.

Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Beardman on November 12, 2012, 04:09:11 AM
Funny how it works out hey! I've been sly for 5 months now, and while I can ID myself in a photo, I still have some WTF moments when I got to scratch my head and there is no hair, or try and run my fingers through my hair haha.... you'd think I would be used to it by now, but I seem to relapse every once in a while
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Razor X on November 12, 2012, 05:45:52 AM
I can remember seeing myself in store windows, mirrors, etc and not recognizing myself right away. 


Funny how it works out hey! I've been sly for 5 months now, and while I can ID myself in a photo, I still have some WTF moments when I got to scratch my head and there is no hair, or try and run my fingers through my hair haha.... you'd think I would be used to it by now, but I seem to relapse every once in a while

Give it a little more time and one day you'll be looking at a photo of your gleaming dome -- or standing in front of the mirror -- and it will be hard to imagine that hair ever grew there.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: waine on November 12, 2012, 06:07:11 AM
It's all about perception - a fascinating concept indeed...
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: mangosink12572 on November 12, 2012, 09:29:17 AM
No hair  - - -Smooth dome  - - -much better to feel  - -
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: theman on November 12, 2012, 09:44:31 AM
I am sure you look great , but would like to see a pic..
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: BaldMike on November 14, 2012, 07:42:56 PM
Man, I was looking thru our pix and I never noticed how much I wear my hat.  If I'm outside, I have a hat on.  But here is one of us at the Indy 500 where I had my hat off, this is also before shaved (obvious from the pix).

Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Bilko1 on November 15, 2012, 10:35:08 AM
The first time I saw myself bald I got a shock. After the barber had buzzed my hair off I was ok with that as I was used to short haircuts, but BALD is totally different look. After my head was shaved smooth I hardly recognised myself at first & still after several weeks of having a smooth head I would have to have a second-take every time I saw myself. Eventually I got used to the shaved head & others did, too, but it was a dramatic change from having hair to no hair.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Mr Jules on November 15, 2012, 01:03:19 PM
Been bald for nearly 10 months. So there's now plenty of 2012 summer holiday snaps and YouTube videos of the sly appearance. Really cant visualise myself with hair.



Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Laser Man on November 15, 2012, 03:34:20 PM
I've been sly for nearly 18 months, but my company ID badge shows me with hair and no goatee.  I look at that picture now and wonder "who is that guy?" 

I admit that early on, I'd see my bald reflection and be startled, but after about a month I started forgetting how I looked with hair.  Now the ID picture looks strange and the bald reflection looks completely normal.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: F77Scot on November 16, 2012, 01:25:45 PM
Still catch myself looking in windows whilst walking past them, seeing my reflection, then thinking...that is me!?
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: mangosink12572 on November 16, 2012, 01:34:33 PM
You should see me in Macy's Department Store walking past the mirrored columns - -as I walk by each one  -  I always check out my shine  - - -and it l looks  glossy  as ever  in every one  - - -I have been doing it for years - - -
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Beardman on November 16, 2012, 11:57:38 PM
I've been sly for nearly 18 months, but my company ID badge shows me with hair and no goatee.  I look at that picture now and wonder "who is that guy?" 


When I got my new phone recently the guy checked my ID and admitted he had to double check because I look so differently on my Drivers Licence then I do now, skinnier, no hair... and I used to add in no full beard, but I've grown that puppy back now :D
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Razorhead on November 17, 2012, 04:39:45 PM
Give it a little more time and one day you'll be looking at a photo of your gleaming dome -- or standing in front of the mirror -- and it will be hard to imagine that hair ever grew there.

haha....so true! at a certain point...you are just become a regular sly guy. Eventually, you'll add new people into your life who will only know you with a gleaming dome and can't imagine what you looked like with hair. I love pulling out some old photos!
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Razor X on November 17, 2012, 05:00:56 PM
Eventually, you'll add new people into your life who will only know you with a gleaming dome and can't imagine what you looked like with hair. I love pulling out some old photos!

Exactly.  Hardly anybody that I work with has ever seen me with hair.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: mikesj on November 17, 2012, 05:11:14 PM
When I had hair (aka a "system") I avoided looking in mirrors or glass reflections....deep down I knew what a fake it was. After going sly, I love to see my head gleaming. I almost immediately got a new driver's license and passport with a new shaved head photo.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Laser Man on November 17, 2012, 06:11:47 PM
I've had several people at work tell me recently that they can't remember what I looked like with hair.  It's kind of funny because my badge shows me with hair and without goatee, so they just have to look at that! 
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Mr Jules on November 18, 2012, 03:42:14 AM
haha....so true! at a certain point...you are just become a regular sly guy. Eventually, you'll add new people into your life who will only know you with a gleaming dome and can't imagine what you looked like with hair. I love pulling out some old photos!

Agree with you, Razorhead. This is happening to me, too.
Title: Re: Seeing myself bald...
Post by: Mr Jules on November 18, 2012, 03:43:22 AM
Hardly anybody that I work with has ever seen me with hair.

Indeed. Seeing you with hair would be a shock.  ;)