Sly Bald Guys Forum
Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: silverking on August 28, 2012, 12:04:51 PM
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hey.
shave it off. Once you see how easy shaving is, you'll love it.
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hey.
shave it off. Once you see how easy shaving is, you'll love it.
I agree completely.
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Welcome, silverking.
I say:
1) Shave it off.
2) Let it grow back to a buzz.
3) Compare the two.
4) Choose wisely.
O0
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Welcome! If you have the urge to shave your head, go ahead and go for it...If you don't like it you could always grow it back to a buzzcut or longer....I think both the buzzcut and the shaved head would look good; you certainly have the facial hair to complement it.
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thanks for the help, I think I'm going to start with a buzz next time I get my hair cut, but I'll go for full shave anyway. Lots of my friends here are saying to keep it as it is for now, but if I shaved or buzz cut now it be almost on my own terms.
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Hey silverking: 1st of all welcome 2 the sly fraternity. Glad that ya joined us. Anytime one has thoughts of shaving one's head; one will never be satisfied until the deed is done. Keep us posted 2 your road to slyness.
WARHAWK O0
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Welcome Silver...by all means if your friends say to leave it be I'm sure they are making the best decision for you. Good luck!
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not sure I like your tone!!
I'm just saying what I was told no need to roll eyes.
I want to go short myself because it's also easier to maintain, if it ends up looking alright then I'd be pretty stoked to be honest.
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Hi Silver, and welcome.
Buzz down and see how you like it. It's just a haircut - next time you can go shorter or longer until you find what's right for you NOW. And later you'll want to do the same thing as your hair density and coverage change. Do what's right for you.
But don't be surprised if you get a lot of encouragement to go with a really tight buzz or shave it entirely - after all, you are at the Sly BALD Guys website and we're kind of biased.
A large portion of the guys here saw the writing in the mirror ("The Receding Hairline Mystery") and decided to take control of when to become bald [or BOLD as Kahuna would insist] rather than letting Father Time do the damage at an excruciating pace. Being in control is very powerful to your inner being.
And then there's another group of us that choose to be Sly (tight buzz or shaved) simply because the look works best for us - visual style, gets rid of the gray, low maintenance, etc. Nothing wrong with that either.
You're a good looking guy. Either cut will work well for you NOW.
But know that your "thin hair at the front" and "receding hairline" [your words] will not improve as time moves on, so be prepared for continuing thinning or migration of the hairline. When/if you become obsessed with trying to hide your hair (excessive time styling, combover, drugs, artificial "hair systems," hats) then you need to stake your claim and take action. Otherwise you are being held hostage by your hair.
And, it's only hair. Seriously, have you looked around and see how many guys of all ages are out and about - and carefree. It really is a great feeling.
I hope that was of some help, and gentle (as requested). Keep us posted on what you decide and how it goes. We all learn from every person's unique experience and perspective on "dealing with hair."
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You have a great head shape! If you choose to shave it, it will look great!
All of us are probably biased because we have already made the choice and shaved it off; the only advice I would add is that I didn't do it the first time until I was 32 years old. I regret not doing it a lot sooner. Until you have run your hand over your naked scalp for the first time, you won't ever have known how good it feels!
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Welcome to the bald brotherhood Silverking. You look good with and without hair basing on the pictures you shared. However, since you have the urge to go smooth, might as well give it a try. Best regards.
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Welcome to the forum!
Buzz cut vs sly... why wait and torment yourself with this question when you have a simple solution: get it shaved.
It's the only way to find out if you like the look on yourself or not. From your photos I think you'll look good, but it's more important what you will decide.
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Hi,
I started with the buzz cut, but once you go smoooth there's no turning back! O:O
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Hi,
I started with the buzz cut, but once you go smoooth there's no turning back! O:O
Ain't it the truth. And visually there's really very little difference - but the difference in feel is sublime.
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Amen! It is all in the feel - cool pillow cases on a smooth dome, the breeze, the sun - it all feels better without the buzz cut.
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If you have the itch then scratch it. Buzz it first and then try a shave you will love it I promise. The confidence boost is the greatest feeling in the world. Keep us posted and post a new pic when you do the deed.
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you've already had a buzz cut. I would say shave it, worst case your back to a buzz in a week or two.
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Hi, Silver !
I'd say that a short buzz would look very good on you.
But if you are wanting to experience the best "haircut" a man can get, then it is time to get that head shaved, young man.
All the best with what you decide,
Bill
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You don't have to be 'going bald' to enjoy a shaved head.
From your photos, I imagine that you would look excellent with a fully shaved head. I agree with the others who say that if you've even entertained the possibility of shaving your head, you'll never be satisfied until you do it. The hardest part is making the first cut. (It's emotional). After that, it's time to enjoy the bald head. If the testimonies of the guys on this site are any indication, there are very few guys who shave their had and they go back to hair (at least for any length of time .... right Doug?).
Better than the LOOK of a bald head, is the FEEL of a bald head. It's incredible. Post a picture when you shave bald. Remember the 30 day rule.
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Silverking, Have you shaved that noggin, yet?
You will not be satisfied until you have done the deed. When you do shave, please make sure that you are very careful especially around the ears area.
Best wishes,
Bilko
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First, do NOT listen to your friends. Don't solicit their opinions, don't follow whatever advice they may have. This is your head and your state of mind. As many others have commented, if you don't like it, just let a little time pass. Or, in the case of genetics and Father Time, let a little more time pass and you won't need to bother about what to do.
My own experience was that I had a full head of hair when I went SLY and it was the shock to others, though not to me, that occasioned much comment. Oh, and at the time I did it I was an anchor on network television and so had the benefit (?) of what hundreds of thousands thought. Again, it was the shock rather than the "look" that took everyone by surprize. On the other hand, had I announced what I had in mind, I would have been besieged by comments, none of which would have been welcome. Do what you want to do and, again, do not be guided by what others think you should do.
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I don't believe in half measures. Shave it. The reaction you get will be the same either way so you might as well go all the way.
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shave smooth bald !!!! you'll be very happy !!!
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Just do the 30 day thing, shave your head everyday and at the end of 30 days I'm sure you'll either love it or hate it.
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First, do NOT listen to your friends. Don't solicit their opinions, don't follow whatever advice they may have. This is your head and your state of mind. As many others have commented, if you don't like it, just let a little time pass. Or, in the case of genetics and Father Time, let a little more time pass and you won't need to bother about what to do.
My own experience was that I had a full head of hair when I went SLY and it was the shock to others, though not to me, that occasioned much comment. Oh, and at the time I did it I was an anchor on network television and so had the benefit (?) of what hundreds of thousands thought. Again, it was the shock rather than the "look" that took everyone by surprize. On the other hand, had I announced what I had in mind, I would have been besieged by comments, none of which would have been welcome. Do what you want to do and, again, do not be guided by what others think you should do.
my friends gave me good feedback though, they basically said I could do either really.
and for the most part that's what people here said.
so does that mean I shouldn't listen to people here either?
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First, do NOT listen to your friends. Don't solicit their opinions, don't follow whatever advice they may have. This is your head and your state of mind. As many others have commented, if you don't like it, just let a little time pass. Or, in the case of genetics and Father Time, let a little more time pass and you won't need to bother about what to do.
My own experience was that I had a full head of hair when I went SLY and it was the shock to others, though not to me, that occasioned much comment. Oh, and at the time I did it I was an anchor on network television and so had the benefit (?) of what hundreds of thousands thought. Again, it was the shock rather than the "look" that took everyone by surprize. On the other hand, had I announced what I had in mind, I would have been besieged by comments, none of which would have been welcome. Do what you want to do and, again, do not be guided by what others think you should do.
my friends gave me good feedback though, they basically said I could do either really.
and for the most part that's what people here said.
so does that mean I shouldn't listen to people here either?
Thats just being petty... that's not what he meant at all. I'm pretty sure that what Blitz meant to say is that, don't listen to the negative stuff they have to say, as long as you are happy with the look that is all that matters. You like everyone else that comes to this forum are more then welcome to take or leave the advice that we give.
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I would buzz it shorter and shorter and then one day shave it. I kept mine buzzed very short for many years before shaving - obviously your friends will accept it
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Shaved head and keep it smooth.
When I wake up in the morning, I know I'm bald because my ears have stuck to the side of my head and then spring back into normal position !
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Just do it.
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not quite sure what to do.
I have no bald spot or thinning at the back
but I'm not happy with my thin hair at the front or receding hairline.
I had a buzz cut before but I'm not sure if thin hair buzz cuts work.
advice is welcome but be gentle
I'm not sure why you posted this. You obviously do NOT want to shave your head. So why did you waste everyone's time? All of the members that responded took time out of their day to help you and you turn around and blast them with rude comments. I only saw one sarcastic remark and you have realized that it was just that, sarcastic.
Apparently you have other issues beyond a thinning hairline. Lighten up, man!
You say that you don't like the thinning hair / receding hairline. You did a logical choice by buzzing it. You should know if you like it now or not. If you still don't like it, the next step is to just get rid of it. Life is way too short to stress over MPB.
Advice is just that, advice no matter if it is from your friends or people on this board. You have the ultimate decision as to what you do. If you don't want to accept the advice, then don't ask for it.
Good luck with your decision.
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not quite sure what to do.
I have no bald spot or thinning at the back
but I'm not happy with my thin hair at the front or receding hairline.
I had a buzz cut before but I'm not sure if thin hair buzz cuts work.
advice is welcome but be gentle
I'm not sure why you posted this. You obviously do NOT want to shave your head. So why did you waste everyone's time? All of the members that responded took time out of their day to help you and you turn around and blast them with rude comments. I only saw one sarcastic remark and you have realized that it was just that, sarcastic.
Apparently you have other issues beyond a thinning hairline. Lighten up, man!
You say that you don't like the thinning hair / receding hairline. You did a logical choice by buzzing it. You should know if you like it now or not. If you still don't like it, the next step is to just get rid of it. Life is way too short to stress over MPB.
Advice is just that, advice no matter if it is from your friends or people on this board. You have the ultimate decision as to what you do. If you don't want to accept the advice, then don't ask for it.
Good luck with your decision.
Woooaaa! I think you're being quite rude to the poster! He is asking for advice.
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Time out guys....I think that maybe some of the questions and responses may have been misunderstood here. I think Silverking is just trying to get a feel for how would it be if he shaved. We can offer opinions, but ultimately it is his choice and decision if he follows through or not. I think that Blitzed, like Beardman said, was trying to tell Silverking not to listen to the negativity from his friends and to just "do him". I guess Silverking must have just misunderstood Blitzed's response, hence the "sarcasm" in his response that followed. I don't see the need for us to all get upset. While the majority of the members on this forum shave their heads, there are members who are balding but simply prefer a short haircut. That said, a little diversity here never hurts and we should all just get along. If a member is just becoming a troll, the mods will spot it and take the appropriate action(s). So let's just enjoy the forum and diversity. Take Care Guys!
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Well said Harry
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I would like to take a moment and apologize to Silverking. I did not mean to come across as being rude. That is not the type of person that I really am.
Everyone is entitled to seek advice on things within their life. That is a huge part of this forum. Even though this forum seems to lean more toward those that have shaved heads it does not dismiss those that are just not quite there. We are all here to offer advice when it is asked for and to encourage those that need it. This is a great forum.
I have no ill feelings because Silverking is not ready to shave his head. If and when he is ready, it will definitely be his choice alone to make. He has to be comfortable with whatever decisions that he makes.
I just got a little upset when I read the string of posts. It seemed to me that he was not quite ready to accept the advice that he had requested and a few of the conversations had turned a bit nasty. I should not have let my emotions get the best of me, for I in turn contributed to the negative vibes. For that, I am truly sorry.
Silverking, please accept my sincere apologies.
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I would like to take a moment and apologize to Silverking. I did not mean to come across as being rude. That is not the type of person that I really am.
Everyone is entitled to seek advice on things within their life. That is a huge part of this forum. Even though this forum seems to lean more toward those that have shaved heads it does not dismiss those that are just not quite there. We are all here to offer advice when it is asked for and to encourage those that need it. This is a great forum.
I have no ill feelings because Silverking is not ready to shave his head. If and when he is ready, it will definitely be his choice alone to make. He has to be comfortable with whatever decisions that he makes.
I just got a little upset when I read the string of posts. It seemed to me that he was not quite ready to accept the advice that he had requested and a few of the conversations had turned a bit nasty. I should not have let my emotions get the best of me, for I in turn contributed to the negative vibes. For that, I am truly sorry.
Silverking, please accept my sincere apologies.
Don't sweat it , Trust me some people just misread, and can't have fun here. Oh well, so they aren't any better with words than we are ! Fergetaboutit and let's move on ! I know what you were saying , and so do other's !
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I read this as negative. and I still thought it was negative, then the second even more negative comment was weird, yes? I see my first post me kind of being the baby. I admit that french is my first language and maybe lost in translation. (from laval)
I was more looking for a route to go when the time comes, and this forum made me completely not fear going bald (it wasn't a big fear) I was also going through a time where my fiance left me she was from east germany and she was much different than me. I knew it was right we didn't get married but it very upsetting me. I had the lowest selfesteem for a month or two.
I know I could always give the try. but I think I am happy with my situation currently. but I also know that the time will come when I will make the choice to shave. I have these friends that have less hair but it's not quite at the point that they have to shave I see when I look. but one has shaved and it looked good. and he let it grow back when the hair was back it also looked good.
I feel this could be for me, and maybe I should do this, shave it, then grow back. maybe a few times. then I could do both, and then one day it will be shaved head forever.
I think comments helped me saying it would look good and I agree fully. time will tick and it will be a new chapter and I do not fear it, I am not upset with it. I will have confidence on my side.
so thank you, especially the poster with the ring is his nose!
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No worries Silverking, as you said you'll know when the time is right. Thank you for sharing your story, even though you didn't have too, every now and again I think people need to realise we are talking to real people.
Hopefully you hang around still and join in the conversations, you don't have to be completely shaved to have join in on the fun! O0
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I will hang around! I think I would be able to offer some different advice. :) but I'm not anti head shaving at all.
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I will hang around! I think I would be able to offer some different advice. :) but I'm not anti head shaving at all.
If you were, you wouldn't be here at all I guess ;D
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Hey, late to the party, but I think a buzz cut suits you very well, and you'll look great with a bald head too.
The trap I fell into was that I buzzed my head not short enough for my thinning hair, which looked horrid and made the thinning extremely obvious. I was hesitant to give a buzz cut (let alone shaved head) another chance after that...no-guard-buzz or shaved looks fine though, you don't see any thinning at all. So rather buzz too short than too long.
This is the picture of that revealing buzz cut (sorry for the circle, don't want pics of my niece on the net):
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To be bald, or not to be bald, that is the burning question...
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Stan, bald looks good on you.
Better than the buzz.
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Well said Sir Harry.
Good luck Silverking on your decision on when you are ready to go sly. You have our support.
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Stan, bald looks good on you.
Better than the buzz.
Thanks! I'll never let it grow out that long again, a few days of growth is the maximum I can endure now.
I think too many people make the mistake of trying to buzz their hair successively shorter instead of just shaving it from the beginning (or buzzing it extremely close to the skin). Longer buzz cuts just look awful with advanced MPB, even worse than long hair, in my opinion.
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Stan, you are so right.
You look great sly. I like it much better than the buzz cut you previously had.
O0 O0
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Stan, I agree with baldjoeg, the sly look is great, a lot better than the buzz cut.
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Thanks guys, sly is the best thing happening to me since my hair started to fall out. ;)
But silverking's buzz still looks great. If he doesn't want to shave, he should just watch out carefully not to miss the point where buzzing is no longer a viable option. MPB can be sneaky if you see yourself in the mirror every morning...