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Head Shaving, Grooming & Care => Miscellaneous => Topic started by: wonderer on August 06, 2012, 10:19:13 PM
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Ok me again as you know from before my girlfiend stab her self on needle while working with patient that previously went through a kidney transplant (2010).And now she is tripping again what if,maybe... well she has some imaginary HCV i went to school with many great guys that actually had an HCV and i would not even be bothered by this but every day i am convincing her that that patient was a friggin NEGATIVE(there was and there isn't any virus in his system what so ever ) and her way of thinking is sort of like listening some malicious program in her brain registry that she made for her self and it makes her think about something that does not exist in real life ,maybe it is easier to be considered ill and take the first thing you can maybe her subconceus mind is dealing with some other issues by feeding her brain by negation of truth -the virus is just not there -i've tried it all you name it i did it to convince her I was in her Registry (trying to understand and partially i do-actually my BDD gives me that opportunity -i don't wanna she to suffer like me anyone shouldn't ) so to speak hopping to break this pattern of wrong logic but i am loosing battles -she is like bright new CD -every time you listen you start from the well-start she automatically rewind and forget all we previously talked about and starts from the beginning i't is like everything i say she automatically denial (why isn't she more like VHS it would be easier )in her own mind with the most powerful word is "What if " Now i am battling with my family situation ,with my demons and the desire to help her ....what am i missing :-\SHE IS TRIPPI'N and i am losing my mind -so i ask you guys how would you help your friend if you think that he is trippin !?
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Maybe she is getting taking information from this place uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Main_Page
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Ok i 'll try it again then stop www.uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Main_Page
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Just an ABUNDANCE of information uncyclopedia has open my eyes and showed me that being stupid is COOL therefore i am cool too O0
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This does seem strange indeed, very strange...
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Hypochondria ....
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Milan.... punctuation is your Friend. If you use it, your posts will be easier to understand.
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Ok Mike I appreciate that ! O0 Next time i will ,thank you!
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Punctuation can be your friend....but it can be your worst enemy if you misuse it...See the thread "English Class" in Jokes.
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Commas and full stops are your friends. P.s that was mind boggling to read.
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Thanks guys i enjoy to participate on this forum but sadly my English is garbage really ;D so next time i'll try to keep it short
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I made it through just fine mate, I know what it is like trying to communicate with people in your non-native tongue (It was always a battle with Japanese at high school).
When did the needle stick happen? You mentioned 2010, was it really that long ago? Has she had any tests done to see if she has contracted anything? Maybe she needs to have one/another one to put her mind at ease. The most important thing is not to let your frustrations shine through. I know it is hard, but you just need to take your time with her and be patient, and hopefully she will come back around.
Best of luck, hope it all works out for both of you.
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Hey thank you but -the thing is that she stab her self on the needle she worked with few months ago while drawing blood from patient who had a kidney transplantation 2010(so she think that this patient might be infected because of the false belief that he(the patient) went through dialysis ).Before any kind of transplantation some measures must be taken(and after) -mostly screening on AIDS ,HCV or any kind of virus or autoimmune disease that could potentially lead to organ rejecting and that patient is proven not infected negative on HCV !She is trippin hard ....But she is a Woman therefore she is not a logic being :*)) www.uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Woman :*))
ps. man i am struggling wit a language ,i would like to know Japanese language though O0
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Lol, I understand mate, women are quite an interesting bunch... But did she get herself tested? If the patient was negative then she has nothing to worry about, but it sounds like she needs that little bit of extra reinforcement to help her move on.
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Hey beardman -she want to stay on the complicated side and refuse to be tested ,but there is no need for it as i see it .But as you can imagine I AM LOSING MY MIND (God hates me ;D )
Two years ago she stab her self first time but that was on HCV positive needle(she is a blonde need i say more ;) ) and she was tested and negative but during that waiting period for the results she made me lose half of my mind -and now- again HORROR--- the other half of my mind is gone (or at least 99,9 % ) huh :px
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Now you see why I started losing my hair at the first place :/O hair was frustrated so she left my head (hair was smarter than me lol ;) )
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If it was me I would tell her to pull her head in and go and get tested, just so she can put her mind at ease. As you have clearly demonstrated it isn't helping either of you.
I am sure you have already offered to go with her, but if not, maybe suggest it.
Other then that mate I am all out of ideas other then swinging her over your shoulder and taking her to the clinic to get tested yourself (I am guessing that isn't an option? hahaha)
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Beardman -she have no virus ...it is just she use too much bleach ( guess she is suffering from side effects now ...)My hair (in a bag ) would go wit her I woldn't :*)) you just think that I should be tested because of my stupid comments and jokes but it has noting with HCV -that's just me I am slightly mad >:D
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No no, I don't think you need to be tested at all!!! I don't think there is a test in the world that would pick up what you have :P
I just meant as moral support haha.
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Beardman i kid you not my psychiatrist just came from psychiatric treatment -and he don't wanna see me any more :'(
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I think that my everlasting question is white and black REALLY a color might cause short circuit in his brain ,but i guess i'll never know now :'(
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You mean he has finally made enough money off you that he can retire happily? :*))
In all honesty though, that is awesome news that he has released you from his care! Either he thinks you are better or he realised he couldn't cure your kind of crazy haha, and I wouldn't have it any other way!
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Beardman -no he has psychologist working with him in office just in case somebody mention any question about black or white or any kind of color question really :/O
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Really? That is interesting... I wish you found out why, so you could share the answer haha
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The color problem is fairly common among population www.uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/The_Color_Problem and may lead to silliness ::)
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That was a great read lol! It really is quite a problem, even in today's day and age it would seem!
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Yesterday i fell as a victim on the battlefield of words...me- " no honey you are fine" -she "I am not fine" -me "Why won't you test your self and be sure " she-"it is not your problem" ...then last thing i remember(you see my brain was numb because of repeating the same things for the millionth time :px ) things that don't usually fly flew towards me and i was heading to hit the deck,anyway I am not some kind of sadist so we are "friends"now (the word that woman always use when she want you R.I.P.-AND I AM TOO YOUNG TO DIE )
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Sorry to hear it mate, some people just don't want to be helped... How are you holding up?
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Hey mate -nothing serious just a few flesh wounds should be healed after couple of days :)
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Haha glad to hear it, next time you might be a bit quicker on your feet