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Discussions About Being Bald => 30 Day Rule / Beginners Section => Topic started by: Keith183 on December 19, 2011, 03:32:57 PM

Title: I did it...for good
Post by: Keith183 on December 19, 2011, 03:32:57 PM
I went sly a about three or four years ago due to my "mohawk" See next pic.
(https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/gallery/7422_19_12_11_2_53_11.jpg)

I stayed sly for a while, but shaving became a PIA. I didn't mind the sly look; I always kept buzzed or very short hair after I buzzed my pony tail at 20 lol. Short hair was easy and fit me and the people I socialized with. Anyway, I went back to short/clippered hair. I can't remember how long I stayed sly, but I doubt it was for 30 days
As time passed, I began to HATE my "power alleys" and the "helipad". See next pic
(https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/gallery/7422_19_12_11_2_43_57.JPG)

So, the day before Thanksgiving I razored it down to the bone.
(https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/gallery/7422_19_12_11_2_47_17.JPG)

Well, I'M BACK. My 30-days is almost up, but I can honestly say that I'll be sly for life.

More of my story and for those contemplating this commitment...
The shaving becomes easier with time, as I guess facing shaving did as a teen. 30-days is a GOOD benchmark to make shaving an easy habit and get you used to the new look. Shaving one or two times, or a couple of weeks isn't enough.
I have had buzzed hair for a very long time, many of friends have buzzed hair, and two are sly. This was still a little difficult for me. So, I can relate to those that struggle with this decision. But, I got over shock and you will, too. The shock is your own self-image conflicting with the new face in the mirror. As others have said, the world doesn't care. While I was thinking about doing this, I made it a point to spot all the sly guys I saw out in the world. I tried to force myself to see shaving as a non-freakish element of society. After doing this one Saturday afternoon, running errands, I noticed I didn't have to force myself to think this way....slyness WAS perfectly normal and natural. Try it, or look around this site.
But what did look out-of-place was my level of MPB...unacceptable.

Sorry for the long post...I'm pumped  :D


Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: marty22 on December 19, 2011, 03:34:24 PM
congrats....looks great!
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Laser Man on December 19, 2011, 03:56:19 PM
You look great as a sly guy!  Congratulations, too, on realizing that being sly is a completely normal and natural.  Once you accept that, it's a great feeling!     


Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: mrzed on December 19, 2011, 04:18:51 PM
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I can honestly say that I'll be sly for life.

YES! O0
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: TheSlyBear on December 19, 2011, 04:45:39 PM
Vast improvement! Congrats.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Itall on December 19, 2011, 06:43:36 PM
Looking good.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Keith183 on December 19, 2011, 06:57:37 PM
Thanks, all. SBG.com is a wonderful community. I look forward to giving back.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: outsider82 on December 19, 2011, 07:01:39 PM
Looks great mate, well done :)
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Acme on December 19, 2011, 07:08:07 PM
Welcome.  Looks good  O0.  I've been shaving the head for about 4 months now.  I agree it can be a PIA but it's worth it.  I love the look and really love the feel and convenience.... after that morning shave.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Razor X on December 19, 2011, 08:51:34 PM
Good decision. Shaving can be a PIA but remember, so can hair maintenance.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Slynito on December 19, 2011, 08:53:43 PM
Lookin' good!
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: kalbo on December 19, 2011, 11:37:56 PM
You look really good shaved bald...sly becomes you.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Paul the Headblader on December 19, 2011, 11:38:51 PM
bald looks awesome on you!
congratz!
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: good to be bald on December 20, 2011, 05:25:41 AM
hi wecome keep up the sly work :x! O0 O:O ???
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: valldo on December 20, 2011, 05:27:50 AM
Keep it, the sly look suits you well  O0
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on December 20, 2011, 06:56:45 AM
Welcome, looks fine.  The "power alleys" and "helipad" of the Norwood 3 to 4 stages of mpb are tough to get over--there's that part of you that says, "It looks okay if it's cut right" but reality dictates otherwise.  You've made the right move--and even shaving can be rewarding if you get into the "zen" of it. 
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: DCdome on December 20, 2011, 11:12:50 AM
You are lookin great as a bald man and have made the right decision not to go back to the MPB look!
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Keith183 on December 21, 2011, 06:31:04 PM
saintc was on on point. I got the "It looks okay if it's cut right" line from my parents today. (They have seen me bald before) I told them "I know, that's why I kept it so short and you nagged me about that. Now that I'm shaved, I look better than OK. I look GREAT" My step-mom said, "You know...I think you looked better with hair". I said "I know think that and its OK. You'll get used to it"
The best part is my step-sisters fiance's MPB is waaaaay worse than mine. She won't let him do it...probably because of the upcoming wedding. He told me he did it once, and he thought he "looked goofy". I'm not too close to him; I only met him a handful of times. As I get to know him better, I will tell him "Dude, you "look goofy" now. I think he'll be my first convert.  :)
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on December 21, 2011, 06:49:15 PM
saintc was on on point. I got the "It looks okay if it's cut right" line from my parents today. (They have seen me bald before) I told them "I know, that's why I kept it so short and you nagged me about that. Now that I'm shaved, I look better than OK. I look GREAT" My step-mom said, "You know...I think you looked better with hair". I said "I know think that and its OK. You'll get used to it"
You're the 24/7 guy here--that's the only one whose opinion really matters. 
The best part is my step-sisters fiance's MPB is waaaaay worse than mine. She won't let him do it...probably because of the upcoming wedding. He told me he did it once, and he thought he "looked goofy". I'm not too close to him; I only met him a handful of times. As I get to know him better, I will tell him "Dude, you "look goofy" now. I think he'll be my first convert.  :)
Well he can do it and get in front of the issue, put it behind him and move on, or his only, and I do mean only, other alternative is for it to happen hair, by hair, by hair--Mother Nature's cleaning his scalp--she's not neat but she is relentless.  Don't push him, he'll follow your example as Mother Nature does her thing.  You could remind him now and then that hair #1227 is out of place since #1429 and #1652 aren't around to support it anymore? >:D 
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Post by: devonlad on December 22, 2011, 01:56:30 PM
looks great fella
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Post by: aaronduke on December 22, 2011, 02:33:36 PM
Hey bald bro,

You look great!  KEEP IT!  It suits you very well!
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Razor X on December 22, 2011, 03:21:17 PM
saintc was on on point. I got the "It looks okay if it's cut right" line from my parents today. (They have seen me bald before) I told them "I know, that's why I kept it so short and you nagged me about that. Now that I'm shaved, I look better than OK. I look GREAT" My step-mom said, "You know...I think you looked better with hair". I said "I know think that and its OK. You'll get used to it"


Boy, does that sound familiar ....    ::)
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Keith183 on December 22, 2011, 04:37:22 PM
RazorX, what's with the mean mug, what happened to the friendly faced avitar photo. LOL...still, you look FBA in the new pic
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: warhawk on December 22, 2011, 05:31:47 PM
u look like a natural.  enjoy the sly life.  it gets better each & every day.  8)

WARHAWK O0
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Arnie on December 22, 2011, 06:22:33 PM
Looks great!!! O0

Welcome to SBGs!!! 8)
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Razor X on December 22, 2011, 08:38:31 PM
RazorX, what's with the mean mug, what happened to the friendly faced avitar photo. LOL...still, you look FBA in the new pic

That's not a mean mug.  ???  And what does FBA stand for?
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Keith183 on December 22, 2011, 09:31:38 PM
"Freakin' Bad Arse", as in tough. The whole line was a compliment, I hope you took it that way
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Razor X on December 23, 2011, 04:10:47 AM
"Freakin' Bad Arse", as in tough. The whole line was a compliment, I hope you took it that way


Of course. No problem.  ;)
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Slyfive on December 23, 2011, 03:21:39 PM
I think it looks awesome, I got the same from my mum 'what did you shave it off for etc etc', but they are our heads and we like them bald, so that never really matters!
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: Papa Don on December 23, 2011, 06:12:06 PM
Nice "DO", Waiting.  Welcome aboard and so glad you found us.  Come often!!! O0
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: kalbo on December 23, 2011, 06:42:55 PM
I think it looks awesome, I got the same from my mum 'what did you shave it off for etc etc', but they are our heads and we like them bald, so that never really matters!

So true Slyfive. Been shaving for almost 15 years, and my mom still does not approve.
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: xnewyawka on December 26, 2011, 06:36:01 AM
Waiting, I suggest you keep your dome the way you like it. I don't understand why people let what others say influence them so often.
I echo what saint says: You're the one who lives it 24/7, so do what feels right for you.  O0
Title: Re: I did it...for good
Post by: thebbqguy on January 28, 2012, 07:51:31 PM
It looks good.