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Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: Crapola! on December 17, 2011, 10:53:31 AM

Title: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Crapola! on December 17, 2011, 10:53:31 AM
Well, my hairline's receding and I think I've gotta pull the trigger and buzz.  Def can't go completely sly just yet. I've always wanted to buzz my head , so I think I'm gonna do that on New Year's Day.  I've always wanted to do this, so I'm kind of excited in a way, but I've always been so afraid to do it  -- worried about my head shape/size/facial features/hairline/you name it.  So I'm super nervous, to say the least.... my question to you all is how stupid am I going to look with a buzz?  Pictures below



Current haircut:  http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/2805/frontnow.jpg
Current haircut 2: http://img820.imageshack.us/img820/7741/leftsidenow.jpg
Current haircut 3:  http://img39.imageshack.us/img39/5615/rightsidenow.jpg

Hair pulled back to get idea of hairline/head shape/etc.:  http://img707.imageshack.us/img707/4664/frontpullback.jpg
#2   http://img576.imageshack.us/img576/3902/rightpulledback.jpg
#3   http://img542.imageshack.us/img542/6853/leftpullback.jpg

Honest opinions appreciated.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Mike on December 17, 2011, 11:12:23 AM
You wont look bad, it will make you look more normal and approachable
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Slynito on December 17, 2011, 11:20:15 AM
I say give the buzz a try and see how you feel about it...welcome.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: The Noggin on December 17, 2011, 11:49:44 AM
Try it, feel it, love it ... or not  :o
You won't look more stupid than now.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: TheSlyBear on December 17, 2011, 11:50:26 AM
You will not look stupid. It will be different than what you are used to, naturally. But that's something you will get used to, and I predict it will be a considerable improvement.

What would look stupid would be, as hair loss progresses, resorting to comb-overs and other means to "hide" what cannot be hidden.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: mrzed on December 17, 2011, 12:47:36 PM
A buzz you look GREAT.  Sly, even better.

About 5 years ago, a buddy encouraged me to go with shorter hair.  (We did it together).  I went to about 1/2 inch long, buzz and the barbers.  I found that I needed a repeat about every 2-3 weeks.  Got expensive, so I bought clippers and did my own.

Started at #4 (1/2 inch).  Then tried #3. Then tried #2. Then tried #1.  Last summers no guard!  Each time it got shorter, I liked it more.  Really like the 'feel' of no guard. 

Next month I'm going to shave sly.  Pretty sure I'm going to like it.

Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Paul the Headblader on December 17, 2011, 12:59:14 PM
hey,  Crapola!
Wanna bet you'll look awesome as a sly guy?:D
I'm offerring you 1.000 $ if you won't like it.
I'mma get from you 1.000 $ if you will.
deal?:D
joke, ofc.
dude, you'll see that sly suits just perfect on everyone :)
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: aaronduke on December 17, 2011, 01:11:16 PM
Dude- you will look AH-MAZ-ING!  Go for it!  Try it!  You will like it!
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on December 17, 2011, 01:26:27 PM
Buzz would be appropriate--start at a #3 guide [that's what it is on a Wahl, about 3/8"] and then progress down as you're comfortable with it.  Looks like you're around a Norwood 3, so you're very smart to get a hold on this early and understand the process.  Remember, you're the 24/7 guy here, what makes you feel comfortable in your own skin (and head  ;)) is the right thing to do--and no one else's opinion really matters.  So enjoy the buzz--it will make your hair look more natural.  Then when and if you're ready to try the full Sly, you can. 

(https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi316.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fmm321%2Fstchas%2Fnorwood.gif&hash=cd05d5fb2ebbfbe0be2f6057cafa93aa481c7801)
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Itall on December 17, 2011, 01:39:10 PM
You will look great. You won't regret it. Just do it.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: KDusk on December 17, 2011, 01:40:01 PM
Hey Crapola! I also think you'd look great bald. You have very nice, dark and prominent eyebrows and great beard stubble, that's IMO always a nice combo with a sly head. It would most definitely not look stupid!!!

Or you could also try the suggestion made by other members: start buzzing it to a length you feel comfortable with, keep up with that length for a couple of days/weeks and then repeat going shorter until completely sly  ;)
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: marty22 on December 17, 2011, 01:55:53 PM
shave it!
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Laser Man on December 17, 2011, 02:10:25 PM
Buzzing down or completely shaving your head will not make you look stupid at all.  On the contrary, you'll look like a guy who's confident and in control of himself!
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: foodfor4 on December 17, 2011, 03:15:16 PM
You're not gonna look stupid at all, dude. I'm sure you'll love it! You have a great shaped head and shaving (or buzzing short) will bring out your eyes and facail features. I think you should just jump in the water and shave it bald. You will take some time getting used to it (seeing yourself in the mirror, store windows) and reactions may very (some people will love it and wanna rub it and some will be idiots), but you will begin to love the look and feel. Go for it and give it 30 days!
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: kalbo on December 17, 2011, 03:19:53 PM
Basing on your pictures, looking stupid is the least you would end up with. Your hair is thinning and you have to accept that it will not grow thicker. The buzz is a good idea to start with. When you feel comfortable enough, do what all of us do here....shave it smooth and wear bald with pride.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: buddha on December 18, 2011, 08:36:32 AM
I've always wanted to buzz my head , so I think I'm gonna do that on New Year's Day. 
Honest opinions appreciated.

Why wait?
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Acme on December 18, 2011, 08:51:51 AM
Oh!  Wow!  You're gonna look like a dork  :/O

Just kidding  ;D.  I think the buzz is gonna look really good and you're gonna like the look and feel.  The buzz will probably hold you for a little while but eventually you will want to shave as the hair loss progresses.  You will feel so much better than crapola when you stop worrying about the hair loss.

Let us know how it goes or if you need any support.  Buzz isn't such a drastic step so you should feel good after doing it but if you're a little adventurous, just go for sly.  It's awesome once it's done  O0.  I never thought I'd like it and I instantlay loved it like just like a lot of guys on this forum have said.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: mrzed on December 18, 2011, 11:54:46 AM
I've always wanted to buzz my head , so I think I'm gonna do that on New Year's Day. 
Honest opinions appreciated.

Why wait?

I can think of a reason to wait.  Shaving bald is not an emergency. So you don't have to do it today.

If the delay is just indecision, then I agree, why wait. Just do it.

But there is advantage and reason to associate giving sly a try that may coordinate nicely with some special event, like New Year's Day.  Like for me, I started growing my beard on New Year's Day 1980.  It's an easy date to remember and reflect back on.

Going sly on New Year's Day 2012 is a great milestone. We are so close to NYD, that I don't see a rush. I see value in associating the event with a memorable day.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: Itall on December 18, 2011, 12:10:47 PM
I say that is a good reason. U do what's right for u.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: mrzed on December 18, 2011, 12:46:15 PM
Oh!  Wow!  You're gonna look like a dork  :/O

A Real DORK!  (not)
Quote

Just kidding  ;D. Buzz isn't such a drastic step so you should feel good after doing it but if you're a little adventurous, just go for sly.  It's awesome once it's done  O0.  I never thought I'd like it and I instantlay loved it like just like a lot of guys on this forum have said.

And once you Buzz, going from buzz to shaved is not that big of a step.  I'm rather expecting that when I shave next month, I'll agree with the other guys here that I'll instantly love the new look.  

Mr. Z.
Title: Re: So How Stupid Am I Gonna Look?
Post by: DCdome on December 18, 2011, 03:54:41 PM
With a short buzz or a shaved dome, you're going to love the way you look.  I guarantee it.

Apologies to Mens' Wearhouse.