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Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: twhacker on October 10, 2011, 08:53:48 PM

Title: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: twhacker on October 10, 2011, 08:53:48 PM
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Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: Chavster on October 10, 2011, 08:55:42 PM
I dont see anything wrong with the way you look. The buzzed look suits you, especially as its connected to your face fuzz.

No idea what an HT is.
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: twhacker on October 10, 2011, 08:57:06 PM
HT = hair transplant

I also hate being a white guy with a shaved head. People are already calling me a skinhead and I feel like darker skinned people the shaved head blends so much better on.
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Post by: Razor X on October 10, 2011, 08:58:16 PM
You're practically there now.  If you shave it will only take 2-3 days tops to grow back to where it is now.  It's a no-lose proposition.  And as Chavster said, there's nothing wrong with how you look.
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Post by: Chavster on October 10, 2011, 09:01:07 PM
HT = hair transplant

Oh. Why the hell would anyone want one of those? :o

I also hate being a white guy with a shaved head. People are already calling me a skinhead and I feel like darker skinned people the shaved head blends so much better on.

Hmmm. When are we (as a human race) ever going to learn to be happy with what we've been given?
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Post by: chgobuzzbald on October 10, 2011, 09:10:59 PM
You are a very handsome guy and the short buzz looks great. You have a very strong jaw that matches your nose, a really strong well balanced face. Do not even think of an HT... I did and still regret it.... These days 35% of men are tightly buzzed or head shaved. It works perfectly on you. Try a 3 day weekend and smooth shave and I bet you will like it. 35% of guys cant be wrong! You must see  shaved or tight buzzes everyday where ever you live, right ?

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Post by: MikeBrke on October 10, 2011, 09:26:29 PM
Like others have said, you are basically there. Shave your head with a razor after work on Friday and it will almost be where you are now by Monday morning. You will be amazed at how quickly hair grows!

I personally think that you will look pretty good with a razor shaved head. The least you can do is try it out and see what you think. I will warn you though, once you shave it with a razor it will be hard to go back to shaving with clippers!
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Post by: Slynito on October 10, 2011, 10:04:09 PM
You can give a shave a try just to see how good it feels...dare to be different.

 O0 O0
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Post by: Ming the Merciless on October 11, 2011, 04:48:50 AM
Less hair on top; more hair down below.  That's my suggestion.  Of course, I might be prejudiced (see my photo).

As is, your look seems neither here nor there.  It seems tentative.

"Shave boldly, where so many [here] have shaved before!"
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: BaldHDbiker on October 11, 2011, 06:02:37 AM
You look good with the shaved look.

As previously mentioned try shaving on a Friday and see how you like it. It's only hair and it'll grow back before you know it. It feels so much better when it's shaved.
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Post by: bennett11 on October 11, 2011, 06:03:16 AM
i had hair of that length in college and earned the nickname of cue ball.   I loved it.  Now being much older i shave my head with no regrets.  I am white also.  Professional occupation.
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Post by: baldaholic on October 11, 2011, 06:38:56 AM
Hi twhacker,

you have nothing to worry about.
Your headshave looks fine, like it does for most others who worried about it.
Many guys worry about their headshape, but once you try, you will see, that there was no reason.

Your clippershaved head looks good and blends well with your beard.
And as the others said:
You're almost there, so you might as well try it on a weekend and you'll be back to the clippershaved length by monday.

For me:
I tried the shaved head once, about 2 or 3 years ago, and didn't like the look on me at first and let it grow out again to clippershaved, or 3mm.

But eventually I got back to shaving it smooth and liked it when I tried it again and now I am hooked. ;-)

Regards
baldaholic
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Post by: buddha on October 11, 2011, 06:39:36 AM
I also hate being a white guy with a shaved head. People are already calling me a skinhead and I feel like darker skinned people the shaved head blends so much better on.

Others have posted concerns with being mistaken for a "skinhead" because they shave their heads. On the surface watch your choices in attire. Doc Marten's with red laces and bomber jackets may be an invitation to trouble.

The other part is the attitude that you project. I doubt that anyone would figure the Dalai Lama for a skinhead. Aside from his Buddhist attire he projects an attitude of caring for his fellow man and a relaxed nature attributable to his level of enlightenment. In public be helpful to others, hold open doors, remember that everybody you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Remember that other peoples' opinion of you has very little, if anything, to do with you.

And as you said, an HT costs $15K, a HeadBlade costs $12.99. Remember that this is nothing more than a haircut. You can always spend the $15K later if sly just doesn't work for you.
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Post by: tomgallagher on October 11, 2011, 07:48:14 AM
HT = hair transplant

Oh. Why the hell would anyone want one of those? :o

I also hate being a white guy with a shaved head. People are already calling me a skinhead and I feel like darker skinned people the shaved head blends so much better on.

Hmmm. When are we (as a human race) ever going to learn to be happy with what we've been given?

Amen brutha.
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: Paul the Headblader on October 11, 2011, 09:09:06 AM
I'm sure shaved will suit you :)
Go for it :)
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Post by: mangosink12572 on October 11, 2011, 09:11:42 AM
Go for it  - -it looks great - - -and you will enjoy it
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Post by: usmcpelon on October 11, 2011, 11:08:39 AM
There is nothing wrong with how you look and you are almost there.  I'm the type of person that doesn't really care what other people say.  To hell with everyone else, I'm comfortable bald whether they like or not.  Just shave it and give it a try.  Like everybody else says, you'll like it and will keep it.
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: Acme on October 11, 2011, 11:11:27 AM
I definitely advise against the HT. There is nothing wrong with your look.  You just need some confidence.
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Post by: baldjoeg on October 11, 2011, 04:30:18 PM

I agree with the other guys. Go for it. It will always grow back in a couple od days if You don't like it. I don't see anything wrong with the shape of your head.

Welcome to Sly Bald Guys.
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: DCdome on October 11, 2011, 06:26:10 PM
The feel of a completely shaved head is altogether different than the feel of a tight buzz.  And a bald dome feels great!  You'll never know what it feels like if you don't try it.  So give it a go.  It'll grow back fast enough if you decide against the bald look.
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Post by: quantex on October 11, 2011, 07:23:51 PM
Man, not telling you what to do, but I was in the same boat.  I love the slick look.  I thought the little bit of hair felt good, but man, its better to shave it.
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: twhacker on October 12, 2011, 12:01:47 AM
Since I dont care what I look like during the week I will do it next Monday. I will buy one of thesee fancy head shaver things from this website unless you guys recommend just using a normal razor?
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: baldaholic on October 12, 2011, 06:54:55 AM
Hi,

you can use a regular razor like a mach3 or a fusion.
I recommend to do it in the shower and to let the warm water soften the stubble from your clippershave.
You can use shaving cream or gel (a matter of taste), and don't put to much pressure on the razor, to prevent you from cutting yourself.
And a aftershavebalm doesn't burn, as regular aftershave might.

Regards
baldaholic
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: D.A.L.U.I. on October 12, 2011, 11:47:09 AM
For your first shave I'd use a regular stick cartridge razor like a Fusion if it's available to you.  The HB has many fans but even they will admit it can be a learning curve.  Get a good hot shower and shampoo--leave the conditioner on your head.  Fresh blade, take your time and enjoy--this will be a really memorable event for you and a pleasant one too. 
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Post by: shavedslick123 on October 12, 2011, 05:31:40 PM
You look awesome with the buzzed look and I am sure that you will look great shaved. No worries, man! Keep a little facial hair, it will help. Best of luck to you!
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: twhacker on October 22, 2011, 06:26:29 PM
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Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: Slynito on October 22, 2011, 06:55:08 PM
It looks good, amigo and a nice shine, too.  O0
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Post by: Razor X on October 22, 2011, 07:29:40 PM
Looks fantastic to me.  It's normal to be unsure about it in the beginning.  That's where the 30 day rule comes in.  And don't worry about what your mom thinks.  You're not trying to look good for her.
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Post by: good to be bald on October 22, 2011, 08:17:39 PM
Wife here....   In the first photos you posted, I did not notice the hair at all but your eyes!  You have beautiful eyes and the lack of hair distraction brings them out nicely.  Having grown up in redneck country, I understand your concern but think that you were given good advice about confidence.

My husband had long hair and went bald just like that - no transition.  I told him I'd give it 6 months for me to get used to.  Truthfully, it did take me a couple of months to get used to it.  Now I love it, love to shave it for him and get annoyed when he lets it grow.... 
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Post by: Arnie on October 22, 2011, 09:23:42 PM
Way to go!!! O0
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: Timmer on October 22, 2011, 10:10:16 PM
Dude, you rock the sly look.  Keep it that way for 30 days, if you don't like it, you can always grow what ya got back.

I've never heard anyone get anything but scars and pain out of HTs.  Look around the site.  You'll find more guys who regret the HT than you will anyone who thought it was worth it.

Welcome to the sly brotherhood.
Title: Re: Afraid to shave my head.....
Post by: Acme on October 22, 2011, 10:32:56 PM
You didn't give a face view but so far it looks good.  Maybe you'll like it better with a beard or goatee.
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Post by: chgobuzzbald on October 22, 2011, 10:48:19 PM
Looks good. Try a regular razor like Fusion or extreme 3 instead of headblade which is difficult to master. The color will even out with son sun aexposure or a little Jergens self-tan. You really have to stay with it for a while. You didnt say how it feels, do you like how it feels ?  That is also a part of a shaved smooth head, the great feel of it.