Sly Bald Guys Forum
New Member Section => Introductions => Topic started by: beardedbaldgerman on January 29, 2011, 02:57:19 AM
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Hi guys,
thanks to you I built up the courage to do the deed again. This morning all came off. I now might do it on a weekly basis. I think I keep the beard.
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Lookin' pretty sharp there, 1MM!!
The SLY look fits you like a glove!! (https://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi304.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fnn186%2Fvanieruz08%2Fgdpit_com_31277927_53.gif&hash=109ce75ae9fae1849dbacfedc5c08ebff8b2109f)
- Cap'n Noodles -
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Welcome back! Looks good with the beard.
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good work 1mm!
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Nice job, 0mm. ^-^ How do you like it?
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I may be biased, but it looks sooooo much better! O0
So, how do you like it? ???
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Good move, it's a nice clean look especially with the beard--that's a keeper.
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I must say I really like it. I like the feel, the shine in my head and the look. It feels so great to run your fingers over the smooth skin. And regarding the look: I think I now look a bit tougher than before - more manly I would say. My boyfriend wasn't that thrilled that I shaved it but he didn't complaint to much either. He is the only one who have seen it so far. So I'm a bit nervous about other reactions. I don't know yet if I now shave it only once a week or more often.
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Glückwunsch! O0
I'd recommend to shave at least every other day so everybody can get used to it.
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So I'm a bit nervous about other reactions.
Most people won't notice the difference.
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Congratulations for taking the plunge! Fantastic look. The bald head really suits you. You should also keep your beard.
Try the 30 day rule. Then if you like your new look, keep it, if not, your hair will grow back. As you repeat the process and become more confident, you will most likely make the bald look your new way of life. I would have never imagined how head shaving could be so addictive until I started to use the razor on my scalp. The look, the feel, the shine are what makes shaving your head so enjoyable. Have fun shaving, show off your new bald head around you, and tell us about progress. Oh, and by the way, you will need to change your screenname since 1 mm is no longer acurate ;)
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Welcome back to SBGs!!! 8)
Looks great!!! O0
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Glückwunsch O:O
Looking good! You finally did it.
Have a good time with it and try to keep it for a while to get used to it.
LG Baldaholic
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I shaved Saturday morning in the hope that some hair would be there on monday. But now (Sunday morning) no hair is showing up. I shaved against the grain, so propably thats the reason why. I might shave it again today as I will be bald on monday anyway. My original plan was to shop ups with at least some stubble on my head.
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Looking good. Welcome back! O0
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Shaved it again. I love the smooth feel. Only downside: I am a bit nervous about work tomorrow. And about what my parents will say when I see them again in a few weeks
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I shaved Saturday morning in the hope that some hair would be there on monday. But now (Sunday morning) no hair is showing up. I shaved against the grain, so propably thats the reason why. I might shave it again today as I will be bald on monday anyway. My original plan was to shop ups with at least some stubble on my head.
I usually don't have much stubble 24 hours after a shave, but within another 3 or 4 hours it starts appearing.
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Shaved it again. I love the smooth feel.
That smooth sensation can be very habit forming. And, you won't get that many reactions, it's huge for you--not so much for others. Just remember you're the 24/7 guy here, no one else lives it but you.
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Funny thing is, at work we have business cards with pictures. And my picture, that was taken not long ago, shows me with a full head of hair. I think this will lead to some weird reactions when I hand these cards to people. BTW: I work in an PR agency. Does anyone work some place similar? How did clients react?
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Funny thing is, at work we have business cards with pictures. And my picture, that was taken not long ago, shows me with a full head of hair. I think this will lead to some weird reactions when I hand these cards to people. BTW: I work in an PR agency. Does anyone work some place similar? How did clients react?
1MM,
I found that parents' reactions are usually the most unpredictable. I guess it really depends upon how often you see your parents and how open they are to changes also. My 87 year old mom lives about 4-5 miles from me, (my dad's and brother are both deceased) and because she doesn't drive, I am usually close enough to stop in every day, (or every other day at most). Her initial reaction was shock, but now she is so used to it, she says she can't picture me with hair ever again.
My wife and kids have long accepted it since day one. My crew at the firehouse got a huge laugh out of it, but it was widely accepted there also.
I think you're putting too much emphasis on being worried about what your co-workers will say and whether or not it will be "widely accepted" among them. Understand that NOT everyone is going to approve, but so what...that's why we are known as "individuals", and entitled to our own opinions.
Besides, it's YOUR scalp not theirs!! If you like the sly look, (and it appears that you do), then wear it and wear it proud!! But once again, the SLY look fits you like a glove... I can't imagine you getting a negative reaction from anyone!!
Come to think of it, you would get more of a noticeable negative reaction if you started sporting a rug, rather than the SLY look. So relax, and just let the day unfold as you would any other day!!
In fact, you will probably get more compliments on your new look more than anything!!
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PS: If really worried about your parents' reaction, you can always let them know ahead of time that you shaved your head!
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You look great - -go along with the 30 day rule and enjoy being part of us
We enjoy having you as part of the group and are always here to help
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Funny thing is, at work we have business cards with pictures. And my picture, that was taken not long ago, shows me with a full head of hair. I think this will lead to some weird reactions when I hand these cards to people. BTW: I work in an PR agency. Does anyone work some place similar? How did clients react?
Well, if you're busy, you'll run out of the hairy cards soon. And, "make lemonade out of lemons" it could let you engage in a conversation that could develop into a business relationship.
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You look friggin hot. Keep the beard it suits you. I agree with the guys 30 day rule.
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Funny thing is, at work we have business cards with pictures. And my picture, that was taken not long ago, shows me with a full head of hair. I think this will lead to some weird reactions when I hand these cards to people. BTW: I work in an PR agency. Does anyone work some place similar? How did clients react?
Hi 1mm,
I am not in PR, but I work for Event-Agencies as an artist, which might be considered similar, or part of PR.
I was hestitant at first, because I thought, that a bald head might be to extreme for this business.
But on the other hand it makes you stand out and clients will remember you which could actually help your profession.
I am the bald guy now, and if I do need hair for a gig, they provide me with a wig, which almost never happens. ;-)
Regards
Baldaholic
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Hi 1mm. I'm brand new here but thought I'd pipe in for a second. The look suits you, bro. Just keep it smooth, get a little sun on your dome to balance out the tone, and I think you'll find that the positive comments you're gonna get from others will far outweigh any negatives. And, chicks love to rub a nice, smooth bald head! Like Telly Savalas once said, "Feel the velvet, baby."
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First das sly at work was a none Event. No reactions at all!
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First das sly at work was a none Event. No reactions at all!
Hi 0mm,
i guess you need to rereintroduce now with your new screenname. ;-)
That there has been no reaction at all is probably quite normal.
Cause as it has been writen to many guys on the fence, including me, the change from clippershaved to sly makes only a big difference for us, but not for anybody else.
For them we are already bald when we are buzzed or clippershaved. :-)
So enjoy your smooth dome and I reccoment you stick with the 30 days rule.
It gives you and everybody else the chance to get used to it, plus you can enjoy your sly head. ;-)
Have a great day
Regards
Baldaholic
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First das sly at work was a none Event. No reactions at all!
This is the part where we all get to say, "We told you so." ;)
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Thank you guys for helping and supporting me. I think without you I still would not have the look I wanted for so long!
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Schließlich wird alles gut ;D!
Congrats on your good decision.
Have a nice day.
J
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OK ! O0 Welcome to the new better you! O0 I like the name change, it fits, to say the least ??? Anyway, this is the part where you (can) say, "gee, I wish I'd done this sooner", just like most everyone else who has gone sly 8) :*)) :*)) (It's a very good thing!)
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In deed, I wish I shaved it earlier.
Just ordered my first headblade. I can't stand the sandpaper feel anymore (I liked it when I clipper shaved).
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Well, most of us here prefer the smooth feel and part of the quest of getting the smooth feel to last is to get the best and most close (close-est?) shave. I prefer to start with a hot shower. This softens the skin and allows the blade to cut closer. I generally then prepare to shave with a good gell shave cream; the slicker the better. A fresh blade makes all the difference too. My "weapon of choice" ;) is the Fusion. If you're into Headblading that's great too. (I don't trust myself as I might lop off part of an ear or something. No, I'm not into Van Gogh :o). Afterwards a good protective sly skin cream is what I generally end with. Everyone has their own preferred method. Mine is fairly quick and easy for me too.
With all this, I sometimes end up with stubble by late in the afternoon (5 o'clock head shadow?). If I am going out for the evening and want to get rid of the stubble and don't think my scalp can handle another shave, I might resort to an electric shaver. (blasphemy!) :/O
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I have to admit: I had let my hair grow out and buzzed it again two month ago. However, now I am stuck with a 3mm buzzcut. I told my boyfriend that I wanted to razor shave again (or clipper shave it) but he said that I would look ugly and he does not like the idea. I even told him that he could help me shaving but he ignored the offer. I am on vacation for another week so it would be a good time to go bald again. I hate having no support.
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What do YOU want to do? We are your support. 8)
Red
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I guess I want it at least clipper shaved...
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I guess I want it at least clipper shaved...
When you know what you want, do it! Tough love, my GSG Brutha! ^-^
Red
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I didn't know what you looked like until you brought this thread back up. You look frickin' awesome with the smooth dome! You should do what you want to do. Everyone else will just have to adjust.
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SHave it now and explain to the Boyfriend this is the look you want. Unless you control his hair, why should he control yours ?
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Its your head, its your life and most of all...you are one good looking guy when you shave your head. The picture you posted proves that.
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Clipper shaved it with my Remington SCC100: http://www.flickr.com/photos/59680520@N07/6298002685/
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It's your head so you do what makes you happy. But if I were you I would keep that dome shiny and show it off with pride. O0
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in my opinion you look much better shaved smooth like in the pic you posted at the beginning of the thread, but I understand that being in a relationship you should keep the other's opinion into consideration...
try telling him that you really wish to stay smooth and that you feel better that way
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My 2c worth says you look way better shaved smooth with a slight beard.
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From my perspective smooth looks much better and a beard or goatee really sets off the bald look. I'm sure your boyfriend will get use to the 'new' you.
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Bald 'n' Beard is the way to go...you'll look good. O0
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Doing the deed again tomorrow. After I let my hair grow out to one of these fashionable undercuts I buzzed all off a few weeks ago. Now my hair is around 4mm. Tomorrow before a long weekend I plan to clipper shave it. Bought a Moser 1400 i now use for head and face. My bofriend does not like me bald and it seems it does not grow on him.
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Tomorrow sounds like a good day for cutting hair. In fact any day is a good day to shave (even if it's just a very short buzz)
Saw your picture from your first post and wanted to say that both the shaved and the clipper look suit you very good.
I would recommend the shave, but in the end, it's all about what you want.
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I would recommend the shave, but in the end, it's all about what you want.
I agree on both points - recommend shaving, but it's really up to you.
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I hope the boyfriend learns to appreciate the smooth head that looks really great on you.
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Looking good. Too bad...I don't have a boyfriend to appreciate my head ::) ;) O0
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Did it. Buzzed the hair to nothing an kept the beard. Love the look and the feel.
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Well done 0mm. Hope you keep it or better yet, shave it smooth.
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Well done 0mm. Hope you keep it or better yet, shave it smooth.
I need to do the same in this days.
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keep the bald and bearded look. Hope your bf accepts your bald head.
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What a Great feeling! I loved the look and felt empowered and more like myself. Bf was not so thrilled. Now i have to reshave again...
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At least you're shaving it for you....If your bf doesn't like it....well, might be time for another bf...but that's for another thread.
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I know relationships are important, but where is the support for you from your bf? I've written it before, because I've experienced it first hand: Don't give your power to others and let them control you. You've got to be true to yourself and surround yourself with others who accept you for yourself. You deserve it.
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He has to accept it. I want to (nearly) bald so much and I think has to adept to it.
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Since being bald is a part of you he has to accept your shaved head.
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Tell how much happier you are now and how much you want to make the relationship successful. Ask if he wants the same. If all he cares about is you having the haircut he likes then he seeks only to satisfy himself first and does not really care about you and your happiness.
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Welcome back! Bald and beard looks great ^-^.
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I feel so much better without hair. so much more like myself. buzzed it again yesterday (photo). And I plan to do it again tomorrow so now one gets used to see me with (much) hair.
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Might be just me (though I don't think so) ... but I sense you have much greater confidence in yourself. That's terrific.
On the surface it seems inconsequential, but going Sly (either buzzed or shaved) releases self-confidence in so many guys. It's a great 'side effect.'
And it really is a good look for you. Simplifies many things in life, doesn't it?
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I feel so much better without hair. so much more like myself. buzzed it again yesterday (photo). And I plan to do it again tomorrow so now one gets used to see me with (much) hair.
Time to shave off the buzz and go smooth. it will look almost the same, but feel better, 0mm.
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I feel so much better without hair. so much more like myself. buzzed it again yesterday (photo). And I plan to do it again tomorrow so now one gets used to see me with (much) hair.
Great clippershave.
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Going smooth? Thought about it and still think about it. But I have an important meeting on Tuesday. So I don't want to shock people too much... Right now I still can't keep my hands of my head. What about the beard? keep the full beard or trim it to a goatee?
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Omm as I have posted before I think you look very HOT :@` with the sly dome and the full beard. Sorry to hear your bf doesn't like it. Hopefully he will come around. Remember all the guys here who support you. We all been in the same boat. I love being bald! It has really boosted my confidence.