Sly Bald Guys Forum
Confidence and Success => Business/Work => Topic started by: Cardosoalex on November 24, 2010, 05:48:14 PM
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Hello to all!
This issue has probably already been discussed in the forum but I searched a little bit and didn’t discover anything about it yet. I’m currently out of a job (yeah, it’s this damned economical crisis) and I’m unsure of the impact that the sly look may have on a job interviewer. What I mean to say is, can I be discriminated, or frowned upon, or even having less chances of succeeding on a job interview if I shave my head?
Could it be preferable to let my hair grow a little bit for the interview and then shave it all off after I get the job? ;D
I don’t know if this is relevant but I am an industrial engineer, so my line of work is essentially in industry or possibly as a teacher.
I would really appreciate your opinion and/or personal experience on this matter.
Thanks in advance for the feedback.
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Most important thing is you are comfortable and confident in the situation, whether it's slick, stubble or hirsute! If it were really an obstacle all of us SBGs would be unemployed!
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Hair is essentially irrelavent--dress with style, clean, neat and appropriate--hair or the lack thereof is not an issue. Polite behavior, knowing the subject matter, appropriate body response--look the interviewer in the eye, etc--that is important. Good luck, know your stuff and get the job offer--then decide if it's right for you.
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Rob6 and saintc speak wisely! Go with whatever will make you feel the most comfortable and confident in the interview.
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Its not your hair or lack of, rather its certainly your persona (personality) and your posititive interest in the position (job) that you apply. Confidence and clean good looks is very important of which you have ! Don't forget how an upbeat positive personality rules .... so ride it ! Good Luck !
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If anything, going SLY to an interview adds to your professional look...
...just make sure if wear a goatee that it is neat(recommend going to a barber/stylist a day or 2 before the interview).
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My experience is that it is the luck of the draw as to who you get to interview with. Some people love us bald guys; others don't. Confidence is key. Remember to wear a good fitting suit, a power tie (preferably red or yellow) and make sure that your shoes are shined and your teeth cleaned and polished. So, good luck
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I think a short (001 cut) is better to keep it conservative. You can shave it off later.
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Ok, thank you all for the replies.
I agree with what you're saying: a clean look, being professional, confidence (this one is especially important), being well dressed, are the keys to success here.
When i come to think of it, if I were an interviewer and i had two candidates for the job: A "perfect hair" guy stating that we would be perfect for the job because he has the “looks”, and a bald candidate, who came across to me as a professional, right man for the job, i would kick the "perfect hair" guy right out the door! Lol
Also meditating a little bit on what Southworth14 said, I think that there will always be someone who dislikes a shaved head (just like anything else: a mustache, a beard, an tattoo, whatever) and I think it’s fair enough to say that I can’t worry about what I can’t control.
Thanks all, you’ve set my mind at ease about this subject.
(This forum rocks!)
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@Marty22
Conservative is good to please the crowds! Lol
I'll keep that in mind.
Thanks.
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Don't forget the note to the interviewer thanking them for the time to introduce yourself and discuss your qualifications. It not only firms up your professional attitude but also as an extra bonus gets your name in front of them again!
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Don't forget the note to the interviewer thanking them for the time to introduce yourself and discuss your qualifications. It not only firms up your professional attitude but also as an extra bonus gets your name in front of them again!
@Saintc
Too true!
Good stuff. O0
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I was going to start a new thread but the background on this one, even though old, is too "spot on" to lose.
Went sly about 8 months ago and had already been looking for a position for awhile. Since joining the sly world I've been on interviews and not gotten anywhere - I've felt that most of the slots were things I was overqualified for but never really know why you get passed over.
Well to bring this up to the present, been talkign with a headhunter (who I knew prior on a social level) about a position. This morning, after we had talked job and were just chatting, I said "Let me ask you a question that might seem a bit personal..." I went on to say I'm hearing from some friends etc that maybe I need to let the hair grow back. Her response was perfect "If it makes you feel more comfortable then do it, if you're more comfortable and at ease bald then stay that way. It has become common for men to deal with balding with a razor and is not looked at oddly in most settings. However if you're looking at very conservative businesses such as private banking and some old school law firms I woudl say let it grow out to a short buzz cut. But for 99% of employers it's probably less an issue than facial hair can be in some settings" She did go on to say that you need to pay a bit more attention to clothing after shaving - as I know to be true - what looked good before may need to change. As we all know for some reason darker colors seem to look better when sly etc. The other suggestion, regarding beards/goatees/etc is to send the few bucks and get them preofessionally trimmed a day or 2 in advance. Sort the same things that everyone said in earlier posts but this time it was coming frmo a professional recruiter.
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I might go to a job interview in the next weeks, by choice as I might move back to my hometown, and I will definetely go in there sly bald, I shave every day and will put extra effort into it the day I will have the interview. Like another fellow bald guy said in an unrelated post.....going in there as if I owned the f...ing place
Must admit that I'm under no pressure here, maybe if I was desperate of getting a job I would act differently or at least give it a thought or two about not going in there smoothly shaved
Like others perfectly said....dress well, behave well, be and act polite and you will be absolutely fine.....and if your interviewer is a female I bet you get the job for sure!!!!
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You got some excellent advice from some smart guys...go with it and best of luck!
O0
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Good luck.
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To the OP. Did you go in sly and did you get the job?
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I have follow up job interviews next week. The last time either company saw me when I was skinhead / buzzcut - number 1 and that was last week. So it's good to know companies want me back for follow up a discussion. Wonder if the sly look will put them off. It could be the point where I end my 30 day trial. :(
But then again, I want either job. And I really want to keep the bald look.
I will of course look complete professional with my best interview suit !
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Unless you are going for a job as a hair model you will be fine x O0
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Unless you are going for a job as a hair model you will be fine x O0
Thank you. Thought so. Actually, looking forward to the interview - especially as I'm doing a presentation on preferred subject. I shall there with sly look, and all professional. The company saw me me last week with a buzzcut unguarded so I must have impressed !
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Be very confident if your a BBC guy like me that there is not going to be any minor surgery on ur head of the day of the interview .
Comfortable but smart clothes and in this day and age a suit is not essential . I like suits a lot but have been to n interview shaved that morning white shirt , blue tie , waistcoat or vest and matching trousers /pants got the job . Its about showing you want that job and making the effort to look your best with a freshly shaved head , looking clean and good is about that in this day and age . Feeling comfortable you will perform well with the questions asked